Will there be a reward for a person s silent dedication?

There is a reward for paying, it is in many ways, really loving someone is not asking for anything in return, although people say that love is equal, but I feel that love equality and equality between men and women are much the same. There is no real equality in love, there is always one person on both sides who will love the other person more, otherwise the degree of love between the two sides is equally deep, it will be prosaic, don't regret it, don't try to reciprocate, love him (her) You are also very happy, very happy, this is the return!

In fact, everyone's outlook on life is different, and it is impossible to demand the same. Personally, I understand that there is not always a return on what I give, but there are many things that I still have to give, because there are things that I don't need to achieve.

For example, if I love someone, as long as I can love him, I am very satisfied. To live in this way is to be a real person, so that there is no contempt for one's soul and the value of existence...

There will be no return, really! I am a person who has experienced it, and it is true that silently giving for a person is also a kind of love, but I advise you to let go of that person.

Do you think confession is very important, just a week, do you feel that you have paid a lot, as long as you really love her, be good to her, she will remember you in her heart, will be moved, don't always be afraid of yourself becoming a tool, this is a heart eye that you should remove. Love is pure, pure. Don't have this kind of idea of harming yourself, the time is ripe, and you have become a very loving couple without confessing. Come on.

You have to see how she performs, what she thinks! It's better to put your thoughts ...... out therelest you regret it later.

Confess Try it, if she ignores you after confessing, you will be used as a tool.

It's not that she's just using you as a tool.

It's yourself who is only willing to be her tool.

First of all, there are three misunderstandings.

First, it is completely wrong to think that "help to others" is returned by love.

Second, if the expected return doesn't show up, you'll think that someone else is taking advantage of you – in fact, it's always been just your own wishful thinking. So let go of the idea that help must be rewarded – you are not only giving help, but more importantly feelings.

Third, there is no living Lei Feng in the world. Lei Feng did good deeds without leaving a name, but he wrote everything down in a diary - if Lei Feng didn't even keep a diary, Lei Feng really didn't exist (learn from me, I did a lot of good deeds, I didn't leave a name and didn't write a diary).

Got it.

It depends on who she is.

Ordinary people will appreciate you when you are the best friend.

You're going to fight for it.

Carry her home.

There are some things that you don't say, people don't know, speed confession... Good luck.

Summary. Hello, if you don't get a return for giving to a person, the best thing to do is not to continue to give, you should quit wisely.

Hello, if you don't get a return for giving to a person, the best thing to do is not to continue to give, you should quit wisely.

However, if you haven't been hurt and still have the motivation to pay, you can also persevere, maybe the other party will be moved and rewarded.

In fact, whether there is a return on paying is to look at your own thoughts, if Gao Shan loves socks and lead, he can make himself happy, then continue to love. If it is painful to love someone, there is no return, and you have no motivation to pay, then stop the loss in time.

A good relationship requires both parties to pay and operate together, and if only one party pays, then the relationship will not last long, and it is unfair to know one party to the paying group. Long-term dedication will make the other party develop a habit of thinking that your kindness to him is a matter of course, and after a long time, it will be boring, and the real good relationship needs two people to pay together and urge each other to become a better person. There is also a difference between whether a person truly loves you or just plays, and there should be a correct way to treat feelings, and when you should give, you should ask for when the other party asks, and you can't just blindly please him and pay for him without getting anything in return.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, really! Positive love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see your loved one happy, you will be happy, see him (her) troubled you will also be troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, a real love person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Feel it with your heart...

Hello landlord.

Yes, love turns into love.

Love to a certain extent.

You'll be willing to pay for them without needing anything in return.

No. Because we don't ask the other party's will while paying, it is very selfish to expect the other party to give us the same return.

If you really love each other, you shouldn't, after all, two people who love each other can't pay equally, and one party must be a little more.

No, because in marriage, if you are too careful, it is likely to make the other party unhappy, which will affect the marriage of two people.

I think we should still be looking for a certain return. After all, he has paid a lot for this person, and he deserves something in return.

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Second, it is because many people nowadays are no longer willing to spend a lot of time and energy to accept a new relationship, and can only continue to hollow out their own efforts in the existing feelings, pay everything for the sake of each other, and do many things for each other, just so that the people who can accompany them now in the future can really enter into marriage, and work together to go to the situation of Baitou, so many people would rather pay a little more than no longer want to take back their sincerity.

No, it takes effort to love someone, but you must also get a corresponding return, otherwise you will be very tired, and you would rather not love someone who loves someone so humbly.

Love without asking for anything in return is a kind of great love, in fact, few people can do this, in general love, two people are mutual love, and both parties must have to give.

Personally, I don't think so! Loving someone is not silently dedicated, but also needs the person who is loved to respond to the other party, so that such a love can last for a long time, and the trickle will go on forever.

Indeed, true love is to give without expecting anything in return, and if you want to reciprocate, it is just an exchange of benefits.

Loving someone should not be silently dedicated, not asking for anything in return, loving someone, first of all, you must learn to express, to let that person know his heart, this kind of dedication is correct.

That's true. No matter what emotion you love, you pay silently without asking for anything in return. I just hope that the other party is doing well.

Indeed, true love is to give without expecting anything in return, that is, to hope that the other person can be happy, and not to care how down.

Indeed, true love is to give without expecting anything in return, and that is pure.

Of course not, everyone's love is selfish and purposeful, of course, I hope that a lover can eventually become a family.