Is he hypocritical? Or am I thinking too much

If it were me, I would be uncomfortable, how could you find such a husband?

But you're married, so don't say anything, and I'll buy you one when he has the money!

Your boyfriend just used a small trick, and he is afraid that you will not agree to buy a car. Or he thinks that you have a car but he is not psychologically strong, or he drives your car every day, and other people's opinions of him must be as good as a man who loves face! You have to understand!

Buying a car is good for the family, and you should be happy.

People have inertia, and the basic characteristics of inertia are that they dare not face the truth, always create illusory illusions to cover up the painful reality, always use various excuses to escape from reality, always exaggerate their "correct" judgments to anesthetize themselves and deceive themselves, always use false self-imagination to satisfy their vanity and great sense of rightness, always use lies to defend themselves, always put all the mistakes on others, and always fear losing what they already have that is not real.

Those who deceive others are, first and foremost, deceiving themselves. He who deceives himself is always deceiving others. Whether it is deceiving others or deceiving oneself, the heart of the deceiver is lonely, lonely, restless, painful, laughing, complacent, fragile, always nervous, emotionally fragile, easily angry, easy to get angry, easy to go to extremes.

- Excerpt from: "Face the truth, don't deceive yourself".

Everybody is hypocritical, you don't have to blame yourself. Everyone lives with a mask of hypocrisy, and whoever lives well is the most hypocritical. I think you're in high school, and when you're older, you'll understand that it's not that you want to be hypocritical, but that you have to.

Hypocrisy is normal. A lot of people are hypocritical. Don't fret!

Hypocrisy is just a way to cover up a vulnerable state of mind, as long as it doesn't violate your conscience.

Passing the buck is when you know your own task but deliberately blame someone else for the final mistake.

From a neutral point of view.

A female subordinate receives an arrangement from her superior.

And then do it, and finally, because of the limited difficulty, you should report to the above as soon as possible, or solve it yourself privately.

There is nothing in the text that shows that this female subordinate has communicated with Shang Zhi.

Then the male leader of the superior used his own experience to conclude that the female subordinate was not able to do the task very well.

So I secretly delegate it to another man, and I have the male colleague follow up and tell the female colleague.

I think at this time, the woman must be more ashamed, after all, she didn't do a good job, after all, every task has time.

So she could only nod silently and admit her failure.

Of course, there are some responsible people who will still be more concerned about the progress of the task that they have not completed before.

So when the man is gone, she's still going to show that she cares.

After all, no matter how much there is in this job, there is a part of your own heart in it, so you will care about it very much, which is very commonsense.

There is no hypocrisy.

Truth be told, if the job can directly give the person who does it a good price, then it is possible.

But after all, what you're mentioning is just a learning opportunity.

Even if you take 10,000 steps back, it is really difficult to link it with hypocritical interests.

But this male leader cares about this kind of subordinate.

Then the performance is vivid.

Just don't delay your work.

As for my little abacus, why not express it in another way.

For example, please ask your subordinates to thank you for communication and understanding in their spare time.

And then I went deeper, and I thought it was more common-sense, and more human-like, because God has feelings, too.

How much more is an ordinary person!

This is very normal, it is said that the eighth deadly sin of modern society is apathy, and in an indifferent environment, everyone's heart will gradually be assimilated.

But you have to think clearly, what are you paying for? Do you want to be rewarded? Appreciated by others? Or is it because your own kindness is telling you that it's the right thing to do?

I think that no matter what happens next, I should make a choice worthy of my heart at that time, and I will not feel guilty and regretful about it.

Because with the first time, there will be a second time, when you are indifferent to others again and again, soon you will get used to this indifference and no longer have such thoughts, is this what you want?

If I were to help everyone when I was in a good mood and ignore them when I was in a bad mood, because this is my choice, there is no 100% good or evil in the world, as long as you are happy.

Calm, everyone is like this.

To maintain the most precious kindness is to love oneself the greatest. Holding on to a loving heart is more important than anything else.

Because you see the unreal.

But unreality is also a part of the real world, and a world without hypocrisy is true hypocrisy.

Maybe you know all this, but you still can't accept it.

Hypocrisy sometimes doesn't mean to hurt others, it's about not wanting to hurt others.

Think about it, I have told so many lies, some of them intentionally, but most of them are out of good intentions, and I don't want to hurt others and hurt myself.

Well, the hypocrisy of those people and those things is actually not so terrible.

Don't care about other people's hypocrisy, and truly do your best is always the most important thing.

Because deceiving oneself is actually a very painful thing.

I don't know what you're referring to, but if someone else has done something sorry for you and made you feel very unhappy and hypocritical, in fact, you should be optimistic and think about it, if you are selfless, these can be regarded as a kind of experience. I hope you are optimistic about the things around you, so that your mood will be better and your thoughts will be full.