How to deal with the feelings you once had? How do you look at past feelings?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-06
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you love him, let him go, and there will be someone in everyone's psyche who can't forget, because he once occupied your heart! After all, they have loved each other, and it's understandable that they can't let go! But he already has a family of his own, and you really have to let go of him completely!!

    Do more things you love to do, and if you schedule your time to the fullest, you won't have time to think about him! Time is the best medicine, it dilutes everything.

    I wish you happiness!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Previous relationships? Huh....If you can afford to put it down, since you decide not to love, you should think that there will be a day when you will meet again, just treat it as a familiar stranger, there is no need to think too much, go with the flow, and remember that you can't chase it back if you lose it, otherwise it will make people feel funny. If you are married or have someone you like, you will be kind to your husband....Just after a breakup, relax or pursue the next love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Find another one, although it is easy to say, but when you try to find, you will definitely find, after finding, you will quickly forget the past, this is not a wolf's heart, inattentive, this is a relief ......I've been relieved for more than half a year, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    We can't get the past back, maybe it's not as good as you think, why not make it a good memory!!

    Since he is married, don't destroy other people's families, this can only bring pain to all three people.

    People have to be able to afford to put it down, and if you think about it from another angle, you will understand a lot.

    I hope that the landlord will not live in the shadow of the past and meet a better tomorrow with the right attitude!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Understandable! Your heart is kind.

    Let's go outside He is a thing of the past, just treat him as your friend, and rely on your own strength to find happiness!

    I thought to myself, I must live a happy life!

    Time and experience will change everything, may you be able to have a beautiful encounter again!

    I wish you happiness!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hurry up and leave him, you will be with him again, you are a fool, he has a family and a job, you have nothing, are you joking with your youth? Wake up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you love him, or hate him, love him and give him happiness, then let him go, this is said to you and him and his wife, break up, it is not worth it for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, and if you can't give it up, you have to give it up.

    If you continue like this, you will never recover. Don't be stupid, wake up, and get out of him quickly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As someone who has come over, I will give you some advice:

    1.Accept reality: Everyone has their own past, including emotional experiences. If you choose to be with her, accept all of her, including her past.

    2.Don't interpret maliciously: Don't be prejudiced or discriminated against because of her past, thinking that she is an immoral person. Everyone has their own reasons and experiences, don't jump to conclusions.

    3.Communicate honestly: If you have confusion or doubts, don't hide it from her. Instead of guessing, it is better to ask her directly about her emotional experience and attitude, and communication is the key to maintaining a harmonious relationship.

    4.Focus on the present: and erase the past is in the past, and the present is the most important thing. Pay attention to her attitude and actions towards you to see if she is really dedicated and honest with you.

    Finally, remember that "the past is not the future", everyone is slowly growing and changing, and maybe you can be her future happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is always some past, and there are some past feelings, almost no one can get married on the first time they fall in love, this is too little and too little, not that there is none, but that most people can't touch it, so you always have some past feelings, what is your attitude towards him, everyone is different, and you know best in your heart.

    The past feelings, you have to lower its position appropriately, gradually forget it, not to say that you should completely forget the past and forget the bits and pieces of that person and you get along, but to say that you should be clear about the direction of your life, not here you have separated, no matter how much you miss the past, no matter what benefits the other party has, you can't go back to that state, so don't think about it so much, life still has to think about it, you have to believe that better, you deserve a better other half to keep moving forwardand you will come across one that suits you better.

    Don't say anything about cherishing the past feelings, people are essentially an animal that can't control themselves, the more you cherish the past, the other party gives you a **, your emotions will collapse immediately, this is not worth a good horse not to eat back grass, the experience summed up by the ancients hundreds of years ago, it is still right to this day, as the saying goes, the former cry and the current must lose, in this case, the man's psychology is not firm, he also cherishes the past feelings, you have all separated, the original trouble was so undignified, In the end, the two people fell apart, and now the other party says I miss you, and you want to get back together with each other, so you have to remember it for a long time.

    After all, for you, you should take the initiative in your heart to occupy this relationship, that is, you can control this relationship, you remember the good of the past, and you gradually forget the bad of the past, because you don't plan to continue contact with the other party, but in any case, you have always been together for a while, and people's memories are not forgotten if you forget them. So you can keep some of the good stuff.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget about the past. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

    Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

    From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

    There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

    In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

    Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

    For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

    People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

    In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

    For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'll never ask the owner, why was it at the pet store that day?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A past relationship is an experience in life, and it's time to leave after it has taught you something, so there's no need to dwell too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The past relationship is a good memory of oneself and will always remain in one's heart. But what is past is the past, and it will not come back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't think about the past anymore, it's just an experience on the road of life, and it's also a memory, which won't affect your future life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The past is the past, and it can be an unforgettable memory, but it cannot be a factor that affects the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel that past relationships are a valuable experience in my life, which has made me stronger and more mature.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since it's a past relationship, then you have to learn to let go, it's very boring to keep dwelling on the past feelings, and I think I'll let go.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The past is gone, and people always have to look forward. It is just a memory in your life that enriches your life experience.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Past feelings are things of the past, and they are no different from anything I've experienced in the past, just a small part of my memories.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The past is already in the past tense, there is no need to care too much, you must learn to forget, forget the past feelings, it is conducive to starting a new relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The past is in the past, never deliberately remembered, and it will not be forgotten, it is an experience of oneself in the past, the past is the past, and it has nothing to do with the present.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    For the past feelings, we have to learn to let go, everyone will have emotional ups and downs in their lives, but a better future is still waiting for us.

    Sometimes, for various reasons, you give up the person you once loved deeply, and start to continue your life, get married, have children, be busy, live an ordinary and simple, happy life, don't cry, don't be sad, isn't this your greatest wish? I hope he lives happily in some corner of the world.

    You will never cross paths again, your relationship has ended and frozen in the best of times, forever, and you will never lose him again. You will no longer be miserable, you will no longer be depressed, you will only occasionally think of the past, and still believe that good things are waiting for you in the future.

    Now many of us because of the injury, the past feelings will always deliberately avoid, force themselves to forget, and even ruthlessly destroy those witnesses to each other's love "evidence", of course, to be free and easy, dare to let go of the best, but in fact, the more you try to do those things, the more you show that you can't forget, can't let go. If you really love someone, those things, those memories, how can you bear to delete them!? Just seal it in a corner of memory and become an eternal secret.

    We all know that nostalgia is a feeling that many people have, and the same is true in terms of feelings, once the sea is difficult to water, and I always feel that what I can't get is the best, so even if I meet the right person in the later relationship, I always hesitate and even resist because I feel that it is not as good as my ex.

    Or take the current as the shadow of the ex, and as a result, you can't always find the initial feeling when you look for it. In this way, it can only be said that the relationship in the past is not for growth but harmful, very unfair to him now, and not for your future life at all.

    Love to be brave and calm, in order to have no regrets, this is what every man and woman in love should strive to do, but because of the complexity of love itself, sometimes we have to endure the pain of love and can't, love in the heart, love but can't be together, if you have tried your best to finally can't get the love you crave, then gently let go, turn around and leave may not be a good choice.

    Don't dwell on memories, stop disturbing other people's lives, and try to find the love that truly belongs to you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The past is gone forever, there are no regrets, only beauty. The past feelings seem to be a poem in my life, which is very emotional and worth savoring slowly. Whether the previous relationship is dumping others by yourself or others dumping you, the past is the past, and it does not represent the future.

    In the past, I was in the face of any relationship, when I met what I liked, I loved each other, and looked at each other without personal material conditions. However, I also have the bottom line of being a person, once the former lovers break up, life and death do not get along, let alone say anything, even if they break up, they can still be friends. That opportunity will not exist in my world at all.

    Because I know that in the future, I will still have my own partner, I am responsible for the other party, if my future partner knows that I have any contact with my previous boyfriend, maybe he will also mind, just like me, if my future object is still in contact with his ex, then I will not be willing, no matter what the reason, after all, you have really liked each other before, if I really like you, then I will not allow you to have an ambiguous relationship with other girls, feelings are selfishNo one can be generous enough to be willing to share their boyfriend with others. So no matter whose ex it is, if you break up, you will really break up, and you will add more troubles to your current partner for no reason, love is beautiful, you really don't have nothing to do, otherwise there will be consequences, and you will do it yourself.

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