If you are in favor of not getting married for the rest of your life, please enter!!

I am also in favor of not getting married for the rest of my life, and I have thought about the meaning of marriage.

1.If you get married to have children, raise children to prevent old age.

But my idea is that after having a child, I will have no life of my own, and all my time will be devoted to the child. They will be forced to give up their dreams for a while, and the hobby of traveling the world and collecting will become more unattainable. There are more constraints on space and time.

I can't read my favorite books quietly, and I can't arrange my studies and focus on my interests

Reproduction is the instinct of living beings, and living beings are usually not thought about and planned, but can only perform instinctive behaviors that are gifted and imitated by groups, in order to continue life. In the past, there were too many human beings, which led to a deterioration of the environment, and the number of human beings naturally decreased. When the number of human beings decreases, the environment becomes better, and the number of human beings will naturally increase, which is the natural law of the environment.

However, human beings have now moved away from the category of evolution and occupied a dominant position, and the balance mechanism of the environment can no longer limit human beings. But if we are still multiplying and expanding in one go, without the pillars of love or reason, what is the difference between human beings and viruses?

Modern human society is essentially a zero-sum game, competition continues to be fierce, social relations are becoming more complex, what kind of competition will the next generation face in the next 30 years? Ask yourself, do you like this kind of social competition? Moreover, in the globalized industrial information society, there is no longer an opportunity to raise children and prevent old age, and the next generation of work in the future must move across the country or around the world.

2.If you are married to have a stable other half.

Holding the hand of the son, and the purple old "is the true meaning of love, the two from acquaintance, acquaintance, to love, and finally to stay together... Thinking about it for life, if there is such a strong relationship, then why do you need marriage.

I'm in favor of !!

Those who dare not to choose not to get married are people who are very capable, very smart, and very confident.

1. Have the ability so you don't have to rely on others to live, and have strong independence;

2. Have the ability to arrange their old age life well and not rely on others;

3. Have the ability to protect your property and not be deceived by others in old age.

4. Have the mind to do things that everyone dare not think of, and do not follow the crowd;

5. Have a mind not to be entangled, coerced, or led by the nose by the love object.

6. Have the confidence to find a like-minded partner to accompany you for a lifetime;

7. Have confidence that your decision is right, and you are not afraid of extreme pressure from your parents;

8. Have the self-confidence to rely on your own personal strength to support your parents for the elderly.

Influenced by my parents, I almost have a phobia about marriage.

And since he was a child, he was frail and sickly, and he knew that he would not live long, and he didn't want to affect others.

There was a guy I liked very much, but I left him after I knew we were serious about each other.

And I have mental illness and mild mental illness.

When the disease is initiated, the wrist will be cut.

I don't want to involve others, I don't want to involve others in this tragedy of my own.

Moreover, I love my mother very much, so I will live for my mother for the rest of my life.

Anyway, I won't be able to survive after my mother dies.

In fact, it's really good not to get married, free and free, and do whatever you want.

But landlord, you're not me, you're not mentally ill, you don't have a broken family, don't think about anything not getting married.

Do your best to cherish the people around you, and then in the near future, meet someone who can make you obsessed, live a good life with him, be happy, and live a sweet life.

Although I encountered it, I felt that I was not qualified. Landlord, I'm sure you'll meet it too.

1. Possible physiological reasons: such as infertility, physical disability, infectious diseases such as AIDS, hepatitis B, hemophilia, etc.

2. Perfectionists: Because of the blow of falling out of love, they can't get what they want, including the person they like is married, and they would rather lack it than abuse it.

3. Because I swore an oath that I would not get married until I reached a certain goal, such a person valued love and swore a heavy oath.

Fourth, living in poverty: can't afford to marry, can't marry.

If anyone tells you forever, you can be his nonsense, and I guess no one who answers your question is qualified to say forever.

When you are young, there are always a lot of things you want to do and people you want to meet. However, the relationship between husband and wife, the harmony of the family has become an obstacle to your desires (ideals). Or a little bit of literature and art, it is called "Siege" (you can take a look at Qian Zhongshu's ** "Siege", which is very good-looking, hehe).

Once you are surrounded by "family responsibilities", you can't go out.

But does that mean it's bad to get married? I don't think so, in some Nordic countries, they don't allow divorce, so the average age of marriage is over 40 years old. The divorce rate is exactly the same as that of young couples in the United States.

So you see, old couples are generally more stable and have companionship. Darwin once thought about whether it was better to get married or not to get married, and if he got married, he would have a companion for the elderly, but he had to face a lot of family chores, and he could no longer chat with learned people all night. He thought about it for a long time and decided to get married and marry his cousin.

I think LZ probably wants not to get married, and wants us to give you a little courage. My personal opinion is that you don't get married so early, and I know that many times you can't help but say that you should get married later (in order to live well, LZ should find someone who imagines and understands you). But that's your business.

But I think in 20 years, you'll wish you had a partner.

Marriage depends on your own thoughts, don't be too extreme As for me, I'm in favor of getting married, and getting married can raise children to prevent old age And how happy a family is It is to be happy What does it look like not to get married, a single, a widow! I suggest quitting, a lot of big business is done by a partnership, how good is it for a family to be together for the Chinese New Year, if you are ashamed of getting married, you are very wrong!! Don't feel embarrassed about the wedding ceremony, it's all a fair and honest thing, **Sorry?

I want to get married, don't be tough, when you're old, someone else hugs their grandchildren, and the family has a reunion dinner, and you can only be alone at home and wait for death to come, so miserable!! Listen to my marriage !!

In favor, I'm ugly, no one wants it, it's better to live alone, and it's annoying to find someone.

If you get married, you have to run a family, have children, raise children or something, and your family will have to bear notoriety when you are in prison, and you have to be responsible, it is better not to get married and save trouble.

Because you don't dare to accept others, your thoughts are probably inferior, afraid that others will look down on you, you should be an introvert, just like I used to, and now it's a little difficult to change.

I want to support the whole family, be a car slave, a house slave, and I don't have the freedom to be single.

If you want to be single, go single, if you want to get married, get married, if you want to live together, go together... You'll all regret it in the end, anyway. Lifetime?

A lifetime is a long time, maybe a hundred years. A lifetime is very short, maybe a hundred days. You can review your decision in another hundred days.

There's no need to choose extremes like this, just feel free.

If I want to, I will end it, if I don't want to, I won't tie it, what can he do to me.

I'm in favor of !! I couldn't agree more. It's a pity I'm not single.

I entered, but with true love, I would get married.

I also agree that marriage is the grave of love, and to have children and raise children, my God. What about my freedom?

Yes, freedom, do whatever you want.

You really want to know! I can tell you,

Marriage is the grave of love!

What does a marriage certificate represent?

That's right、、I'm always worried about this and that.。

In a few months, I will be running 3. As an older leftover woman in the eyes of others, what is it like to be unmarried and have no boyfriend.

I can love myself more and more, and in addition to work, I can put more thoughts on my feelings. In fact, whether you are single or unmarried, it is a choice, if you have it, it is a plus, and if you don't, you go with the flow.

It was two years ago, and it was a different me entirely.

returned to the third-tier city from the provincial capital city after 5 years of struggle, and ended a failed love affair that lasted for more than 5 years, full of despair and helplessness, and very blank for the future. When I returned to my hometown, I was surrounded by worldly voices, and I was completely lost in my hands and feet. Parents urged marriage, and the three aunts and six mothers-in-law took turns to tell you with their experience that as a woman, this life is to get married and have children to take care of the family, as if the whole world is targeting you.

Others will also say don't pick, if you don't look down on others, others may not be able to look at you, and when you pick others, you have to look at how many pounds and taels you have.

At that time, I washed my face with tears every day, and my face was full of anxiety, which was not brought by myself, but created by the surrounding environment. I am afraid that I will not have a family when I am 30, I am afraid that I will not have a clear future when I am 30, etc.

Only you know what you want.

During the time when I was PUA, I once felt that I could only do this, and I must not be able to get better. And in the last relationship, I was also deeply PUA and didn't know it.

From then on, tell yourself that you don't expect what kind of person you want to become, but you must make the choices you want to make for the rest of your life. Even if you really can't meet the right person, even if you don't start a family according to your parents' wishes, you will never give in.

Thanks, these two years.

You can love yourself well and think through some things well. Whether to get married or not is just a choice, not a necessity in life. All you can do is enjoy the gifts that life has given you as you wish.

30 years old, I'm glad to meet you.