What was it like for two roommates to fall in love?

It must have been a very painful experience because I had two roommates who were in a relationship together, my gender orientation was very normal and I wasn't interested in the same sex, but having two roommates who liked the same sex always gave me a sense of danger.

I don't have this kind of experience, but it's a scary thing to think about. Especially when I look at two girls or two boys, tired of being together every day, although I am still more supportive as roommates, I still feel weird in my heart.

It should be an amazing experience, because what you thought was impossible in your eyes happened in reality, and the relationship between the two roommates is still very good.

This should be a very surprising experience, if two roommates are in love, then they must have a deep love, we should give them a fair attitude, leave them alone.

Of course, I bless them, because it is not easy for them to be together, and it is also their fate for the two of them to be together, as their roommates, I am happy to see such a thing.

It's definitely doubly sweet and sticky when you talk, but if you break up (not a curse breakup), I think it's embarrassing, and the appropriate distance will envy and increase the freshness in the relationship.

The two of you may feel relatively close, and it's not a big deal, but most outsiders feel very shocked and lose their jaws, at least it's strange. The state does not prohibit it, the secular does not allow it. Hope it helps. Didn't bother.

An emotional challenge up close, a sin to be open and a sin to hide.

It's okay in the same class, I recommend that you don't fall in love with the same dorm mate, otherwise it's really embarrassing to break up [tears].

Isn't it gay to fall in love with a college roommate? If you don't really have this orientation, it is recommended not to do so.

This question is a bit complicated, but it is recommended to have the right sexual orientation.

Look at this phenomenon calmly and respect human rights.

Speaking of "falling in love" with my roommate, I really have a similar experience that I would like to share with you.

When I was in college, I had a very good relationship with my buddies. He is about 1.7 meters tall, skinny, and wears glasses. Usually in the dormitory, except for talking to me a lot, I don't communicate with other people. We'll call him Xiao Zhi here for the time being.

In the four years of university life, Xiaozhi and I were almost inseparable no matter what we did or where we went. That's why some people say we're like couples.

For example, every day the two of us go to class together and then leave class together. Also together at lunchtime. Actually, it's not that there really is anything wrong with the two of us.

It's that we have the same three views, get along well, and both love our profession very much.

Many people often see us talking and laughing together, pointing at us. But if you really hear what we're talking about, you'll know that we're all talking about professionalism and future planning.

In addition, Xiaozhi and I are also highly consistent in aesthetics. The two of us often go shopping together. The clothes he wears are the type I like.

I think it's a good outfit, and it's basically in line with his aesthetic type. So we sometimes wear similar outfits. It will make the people around us wonder if there is something wrong with the two of us.

We experienced a lot of things together during our college years. Let's say I broke up with my long-distance girlfriend, and he treated me to a big dinner and comforted me for the night. And he had a meeting with the student council to drink fragments, and I carried him back.

All in all, we have so many good memories.

We've been in touch until now. Even though we work far apart, we still miss each other a lot. I have to say that sometimes, human feelings are magical!

I cherish this sincere friendship. I also sincerely wish him happiness!

I didn't have a relationship with anyone in my dorm because we were all girls and I happened to like boys, so I didn't have that experience.

I worked as a spare tire for a while, that is, my roommate fell out of love, I accompanied her for a month, and we were always inseparable for that month, others always thought that we had something, anyway, this experience was not good, because I knew too many little secrets, and I was an emotional trash can for many days!

It should make other people a little envious, because the relationship is too good. But it will also be a little embarrassing, and it will really make some people misunderstand something, so it is a mixed blessing.

This kind of experience is unimaginable, and I don't want to have this experience, I think it's impossible to fall in love with a roommate, you can only be friends, everyone is the same sex, and it's a bit undesirable to fall in love! Don't be mistaken.

Your statement makes people feel different. The kind of "love" you are talking about is not the kind of love in the actual sense, it can be said to be a kind of care between classmates. Every student will have such a person during their time at school, which is a kind of emotional sustenance after leaving the family.

I don't think it's really necessary to talk about this kind of relationship, so let's fall in love with the opposite sex.

A lot of times we can be friends or girlfriends, but if we go any further, I really can't stand it.

Of course not, first of all, my sexual orientation is still normal. The roommates are all of the same sex, and I'm not interested in them. However, those who are really in love should be very scared, afraid that other people will look at us in a different light.

Actually, I've never had such an experience, and I haven't had such behavior, after all, it's good for me no matter what, after all, everyone is alumni, everyone is the same kind, all are men, so there is no need to fall in love, even if I fall in love, I am not the kind of person who is gay.

It's a bit unusual to fall in love with your roommates, are you sure the other roommates won't have a problem? And there is no privacy at all, so it is better to move to live off-campus!

I won't blindly follow the trend, falling in love is a big deal for two people, if you start casually, the ending will definitely be unhappy.

You must make yourself excellent, as long as you are excellent, you can meet a better other half.

1. Read more books.

Wherever you are in the depths, take a book with you, and no matter how much time you spend reading it, even if it is just a few minutes a day, your cultivation will never be the same. As for what books to read, you should choose according to your own interests and hobbies, and you should be well-read, especially when you are a student, and use your spare time to read more books.

Spending time with people who are good thinkers is not because they are smart, but because with them you can learn more new things, they have good habits, they can share knowledge with you, you can learn a lot.

3. Learn to wear good-looking light makeup, learn to use small accessories to dress up and decorate yourself, and give yourself a beautiful mood and beautiful face.

4. Exercise more, girls can take advantage of their free time to practice yoga, go to the gym or run every day, and exercise well every night not only effectively maintains their figure, but also helps their physical health.

After working or studying for a whole day, these exercises can help you eliminate the pressure of studying and working all day, release that tension, let yourself relax wholeheartedly, fall asleep, and sleep well, and the next day's complexion and spirit will become different.

No, why do I fall in love just because my roommate is in love, I want to go with the flow, my fate is natural, we will be together without forcing ourselves because of others.

I won't fall in love, because I like the feeling of being single and free, and I think I'll have more worries after falling in love, so it's better not to fall in love.

No, if you meet someone you like, you will be together, and you won't force yourself to fall in love because of your roommate's singleness, this is not called falling in love, it's just lonely and want to find someone to accompany you.

I will choose to fall in love, the question is where is my boyfriend, who can understand the pain of not finding a partner, and it is not something I can talk about right away if I want to.

Yes, everyone is under the same conditions, people can fall in love without scruples, why can't I? Besides, everyone talks about it, I don't talk about it, it's too lonely to be alone.

This mainly depends on your own situation, if there is a good candidate, it is not bad to fall in love. If not, you don't have to follow the crowd to find one.

No, I won't force myself until I meet someone I like, and my roommates don't have a direct relationship with me.

No, unless I've met a guy I'm really excited about, I won't just talk to someone just because my roommates are talking.

I think so, but the key is to be able to find the right person, and you can't just talk to someone.

I've always felt that falling in love is a beautiful thing, but it's also a terrible thing. Because it seems that no matter what, in the end, it will end in tragedy. So, if you can be friends, then don't be boyfriend and girlfriend, okay?

People who are afraid of falling in love are probably the kind of people in Gu Cheng's mouth who "in order to avoid the end of everything, you rejected all the beginnings". In fact, in modern society, there are more and more such people. Because we have found that many people, if they come but are destined to leave, it is better not to come; Many things, if they happen and are destined to go up in smoke, it is better not to happen.

Sometimes, I wish that everything had never happened, because from a psychological point of view, the pain of losing Wu Baiyuan is far greater than the pain of gaining Wu Baiyuan. The intensity they bring to people is not the same. For people who are afraid of falling in love, it is beautiful when they are in love, but there are always times when they are not in love.

There are some things that I feel very happy when I get them, but this happiness is far less than the pain of loss.

In the final analysis, it's because of a sense of security. Because all our fears and all our fearful assumptions are based on the premise that "love will end in the end". If, if there is one person, tell me that this love affair has no ending, perhaps, we will not be afraid.

However, this is probably a fantasy, I think fools talk in their dreams.

But then again, I'm afraid of falling in love, and I'm not willing to try, and I'm not willing to take the risk, all because I haven't met my favorite person yet. When you meet the nemesis in your life, even if reason tells you not to love and it will hurt, you will still love without hesitation.

There are really a lot of such people, so don't think it's a strange thing, you can see that most of the people around you who are particularly introverted and shy are afraid of falling in love.

In fact, I have also had this experience: I have always been alone, most of my friends around me are also female friends, and there are few male friends, but the female friends around me have objects, and then there are two quarrels for three days, I watch them talk to me every day about men, how are they, to be honest, I am really afraid, what are I afraid of, in fact, I am afraid of being hurt. But if you look at it now, I think it was really unfounded at the beginning, and what were you afraid of if you haven't experienced it!

I think you can persuade your roommate :

1. Let your roommates change their attitude towards men.

A lot of your roommate's attitude towards men comes from the people around him, don't instill in him bad thoughts about men, in this way, she will be more afraid of falling in love, you have to make him understand that men also have good men, and they will be good to the people they like.

2. Try to get your roommate to have contact with men.

The early contact can not be excessive, just talk, chat, don't talk about everything, suitable for chatting, find a common topic to talk, otherwise it is very embarrassing, start by talking and chatting, let him have a preliminary impression of the man, and get along better in the future.

3. When the time is ripe, match them.

The time is ripe, what are you waiting for? Hurry up and match them, if they can really be together, it is also a good story, what a hard-won love this is, you must seize it well, at this time, your role has to be fully played! But you can't be a shopkeeper!

That's basically it, being afraid of falling in love may be due to various reasons, but it's not impossible to change, it depends on how you guide it!

This is because of the deformity of the relationship between men and women in today's society. I'm also scared of falling in love.

One reason is that it's too troublesome, and I'm a person who is very afraid of trouble. I like simple things. And falling in love is too complicated.

I regard happiness as my first criterion, and I am the happiest when the world is big. If it makes me unhappy, then I won't do it, even though I may have lost something because of it. But anything that would affect my happiness, I try not to get involved.

I'm a person who is very afraid of losing my happiness, I just want to live simply, and I feel that I am happy to be single now. I don't feel like I'm missing anything in my life. Love is the icing on the cake of life.

The intervention of another person may make my life sweeter, but it is undeniable that we will have quarrels, cold wars, sadness, sadness, distress, these are not what I want, I just want to be a happy person. I don't want to take extra emotions.

The second reason is that I feel that I don't dare to believe in love too much. People's hearts are fickle, feelings are also fickle, and the tears that have flowed in love have changed from bitter to indifferent, but the bitter entanglement of this bit of evil seems to be able to entangle for a lifetime. I really didn't dare to start.

Marriage turned into a bad fate, and this is a result that I can't bear. It's better to never start than to fall in love and kill each other later. I knew it was so stumbling, and I didn't know each other at the beginning.

Afraid of falling in love is too afraid of being hurt and too afraid of pain. So put yourself in a safe zone, keep a certain distance from others, and just be an ordinary friend. The premise of friction is contact, and without contact, there will be no friction.