Yi Nengjing taught Jinsha to chat, how can she grasp the psychology of the other party in the chat?

When facing the boys they like, many girls don't know how to chat with each other, let alone how to capture the hearts of boys, even if it's Jinsha. In the show, Jin Sha was very troubled because she didn't know how to talk to boys, and Yi Nengjing taught Jin Sha how to chat with her years of social experience and rich emotional experience, and we can also learn from it.

Learn to chat, first of all, you must learn to listen in daily life, chat occupies half of life, in the process of chatting, most people also hope that they can become the focus and center, so they slowly forget to listen, so there will be frequent interjection. When you interject, the person who speaks may stop, but he must be very dissatisfied, and no matter how interesting what you say, no one will listen. If you can listen carefully when others are talking and respond carefully after listening, when you say what you want to say, others will listen carefully.

If you learn to listen, you will learn the ability that many people do not have, and then you will naturally be able to grasp the psychology of the person you want to grasp better than others.

Every girl knows that if you want to chase a boy, you have to be lustful, but there are only a handful of girls who really use lust well. When chatting with the opposite sex, girls should remember not to be too proactive, it is difficult for girls who are too active to capture the hearts of boys, and even make boys very disgusted and think you are frivolous. But if you are a little reserved, it will often make a boy feel itchy in his heart.

Directly surface their hearts in the ambiguous process in the process of many girls will deliberately hide their true thoughts, which is actually not pleasing, if you can directly say your inner thoughts, but can capture a boy's heart. Just like Yi Nengjing, when he was in love with Qin Hao, he directly said that because he was divorced and had children, he had no information about this relationship, and after saying it, he immediately grabbed Qin Hao's heart and made him propose to Yi Nengjing immediately. Therefore, if we have any concerns in the relationship, we must speak out, and after saying it, we can immediately capture the other person's heart and enhance the relationship.

You can judge whether the other party really wants to talk about this topic through the other party's micro-expressions, the other party's eyes are attentive, and they will stare at you, at this time, it means that the other party is really interested, and you can continue the topic.

You must pay attention to your words and looks, and pay attention to whether the other party's expression is happy or embarrassed, so as to grasp the psychology of the other party.

When chatting, you must learn more about the real thoughts of the other party, and then grasp their psychology in a targeted manner.

As we all know, recently, the talent show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" has attracted special attention since it was broadcast, and the 30 contestants who participated in the show are all popular stars in the entertainment industry. They are familiar with each other, so they are very familiar, and after just a few episodes of the show, the sisters have become good friends who talk about everything, they compete in groups, there are tacit understandings and disputes, but on the whole, they get along well.

However, it does seem that Yi Nengjing does have a high emotional intelligence, and the word "tired" seems simple, but it can be attacked and defended, and there is no excessive concern, but it can continue to chat. This wave has also received a lot of praise.

Yi Nengjing said to Jin Sha that you can't be too active in dating boys, but you can't be too calm, after all, boys are not too active, when boys are working, they have to ask him if he is tired, at this time boys will respond to a bunch of words, and they can also increase the distance between each other.

Yi Nengjing taught Jinsha to reply to the boy, "Are you tired?" After seeing this, the other party was unusual, and took the initiative to reply with a large string of texts, telling what he was busy with.

Yi Nengjing taught Jin Sha to chat with the boy and said two words, that is, "Are you tired", and then the other party began to reply to Jin Sha endlessly, and told Jin Sha to be reserved and not to say too much.

Yi Nengjing is a woman with high emotional intelligence and is very good at dealing with feelings. And Yi Nengjing will also share her love experience with others, wanting others to have a long-term love. Yi Nengjing said that you should know how to be reserved when chatting, in fact, in addition to being reserved, respect and distance can directly affect the quality of the relationship.

1: Reserved When many people chat with the opposite sex, because they are just acquaintances, they will talk to each other vigorously, in fact, this practice is not goodEspecially girls must know how to be reserved, and don't have the feeling of longing for love when they see the opposite sex, which will make the other party disgusted。Therefore, even if we are interested in a person, we must let the other party ask us questions, and we will answer them, slowly arouse each other's appetite, and let the other party always want to chat with you, so that the relationship between us will be closer.

Two: RespectIn fact, respect in love is not only respect for each other, but more importantly, respect for yourself, only know how to respect yourself, such a relationship will become long-lasting。Many girls are easy to lose themselves in a relationship, and they will feel inferior when they meet someone better than themselves, in fact, this is not conducive to the development of feelings, when they do not respect themselves, they will make the other party not know how to respect you, you will be very tired in such a relationship, and such feelings are not easy to last, so in the relationship, respect is very important, only if you know how to respect, will the relationship become long-lasting.

Three: DistanceKeeping a proper distance in a relationship will make that mutual affection very deep。When many people are just together, they want to stick together every day, in fact, this idea is not right, especially when they first meet, they must maintain a sense of distance, only distance will make each other more attractive, more want to understand, and become more loving in the process of understanding.

In fact, there are many practical skills for getting along with the opposite sex, as long as we know how to manage our feelings, our relationship will last for a long time, and both parties will become affectionate.

When getting along with the opposite sex, it is necessary to remain reserved, and at the same time to find common topics with the other person, and sometimes to be appropriately submissive.

When getting along with the opposite sex, you should put both parties in an equal position, chat with each other confidently and generously, never make vulgar jokes, and never behave too frivolously.

The first skill is to get along with the opposite sex, you must be particularly polite, which will leave a very good impression on others, the second skill is to know how to consider the other party's feelings, to know what the other party thinks, so that you can also shorten the distance between the other party, the third skill is not to always impose your own ideas on the other party, otherwise it will be easy to create a gap between the two people.

Say nice things, buy gifts, and be kind to the other person, nice words can make the other person happy, giving gifts can also make the other person happy, and if you are leaving, you can maintain a sense of mystery and make the other person more interested in you.

Practical tips when getting along with the opposite sex are: 1. The character should be cute and not annoying; Second, be empathetic, so that you don't get tired of chatting; 3. Don't always scare people or coldly reply with a word, which seems boring.

You must know how to respect and care for each other, do not interfere with each other's privacy, be honest in your attitude, don't talk empty words, and preferably be real.

When girls get along with boys, they must behave gently and find ways to make boys protective, so that boys will feel more confident.

I think Yi Nengjing is indeed a person with high emotional intelligence, and she may be very good at chatting with the opposite sex, so she will be very confident to teach Jinsha to chat with boys.

Because Yi Nengjing feels that she is still very experienced in flirting, but her emotional intelligence is not very high, but she does belong to the kind of person who is relatively smart, so she has skills.

Yi Nengjing's EQ is actually very high, because Jinsha is still single and wants to fall in love, so she will teach her chat skills.

Then try to find a new topic, as long as you don't talk about it to death, I think you can continue to talkAnd if the other party has the heart to continue to talk to you, I think it is possible to find a topic, but I am afraid that the other party's response is just perfunctory.

Couples may have no topic to talk about after being together for a long time, the time for two people to chat is getting less and less, and the content of the chat is getting shorter and shorter, and it feels like two people have nothing to say together, this is because the love period has passedIt's like this after the lull period, but there are some couples who have been together for several years and still talk about everything like when they first got together, and I think this is a different way of getting along, and it has formed a habit after being together for a long time.

I think when chatting with each other, you have to look at the other party's attitude, if the other party is responsive to everything, I think you can keep talking, talk to each other, and don't put too much pressure on each other, two people together just want to be comfortable and relaxedIf you put too much pressure on each other, it will make the other party breathless, and some people will say that there is no freshness after being together for a long time, in fact, I think it can be maintained, you can create a small surprise for each other on a specific holiday, or two people go out to eat a meal together, talk together, when I go out to eat, I will see that many couples are playing with their own mobile phones, and they don't feel very communicative.

But every couple has their own way of getting along, the right one is the best, don't think that others do what to do but also ask each other to do, if there is really no topic, I think you can talk about things that both parties like, we can share a common hobby, you can also travel together, get back to the original feeling, I think as long as you work hard, there will definitely be a return, if the other party is in love with you,Then you must be able to feel his love, I think you can't hide loving someone, so don't think that having nothing to say means that there is no need for this relationship to continue, as long as two people still want to continue to be together, nothing can be solved.

When you don't have a topic to talk about with your significant other, you can start with what happened today.

That is, you can say some funny things in life, so that you can talk to your partner very well, which is very good.

You can do what you like and talk about related hobbies; You can also express your views on some recent news, hot spots, entertainment and other developments, and express your own opinions.

If you don't have a topic with your partner, you have to learn to create a topic and find something that your partner is interested in, and then the two of you can communicate and research together.

Then you need to find a sense of freshness with the other person, and find topics according to the other person's interests and hobbies.

The variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" is about to become a large-scale blind date show, in the show, Zhang Yuqi and Yi Nengjing, the two eldest sisters, made a big move to teach Jinsha how to chat with boys, Zhang Yuqi's way obviously did not work, and Yi Nengjing's two words "Are you tired" instantly made the other party reply a large paragraph, and she was really a master of love.

Don't underestimate the word "tired", it hits people's hearts, just ask, in this society, there are men who are not tired, they usually laugh and laugh, they look very serious, but who knows the pain in their hearts, a sentence of "tired" instantly goes straight to the heart, I have to say that Yi Nengjing is really a master of love.

To be honest, chatting with men, there are really some tricks, such as the topic is very important, if you can't find a good topic, then the whole process is embarrassing, awkward chat is more serious than not talking, as the so-called saying more wrong, so it is necessary to find the right topic, for example, you can chat with each other about some interesting things that happen to your friends or yourself, one can let the other party understand you, and the other can ease the atmosphere, it is really a lot of one stone.

You can also talk about things that the other party is interested in, such as the movies you have watched recently, the places you have traveled, the books you have read, and some of the words you have heard, you can talk about your vision for the future, and you can also talk about your own life perceptions, in short, the other party is willing to listen and participate, which means that the emotional state of the two of you is on the same channel, so congratulations, you are at the same frequency as the other party, then the next chat will be much easier.

The purpose of chatting is to meet, but don't patronize the chat and ignore the offline meeting, all chats that don't meet are hooligans, remember.

That is, when you chat with the opposite sex, you don't need to say too bold, you must be reserved, don't be too active, and it depends on what the other party means.

Reserved, men and women think differently, boys prefer the kind of young girls who can sink, and girls who take the initiative suffer more. And Yi Nengjing's brief reply is also very good, although it is simple but useful.

When chatting with the other person, it is necessary to arouse the interest of the other person, and pay attention to the way of expression when speaking.

When chatting with the opposite sex, you should not be too active, and you should pay attention to the way you speak, and be tactful.