What is Transitional Protection? 5. What is transitional protection?

What do you mean by overprotection?

Excessive parenting exists in many families, and it is often more beneficial than harmful to the healthy development of children.

Overprotection makes children less able to survive. As an only child, many parents are afraid that their children will not eat well and dress well, so they take care of their children in every way and revolve around their children. Too much and too much protection has erected a protective wall between the child and the society, so that the child is invisibly away from society, and when he reaches the age when he should grow up, he always feels that he is not growing up, and his ability to act independently is getting worse and worse.

Excessive interference can confuse the child. Curiosity is the nature of children, and it is the driving force that drives children to understand and transform the world. If only for the safety of the child, interfering with and restricting the child's activities everywhere not only imprisons the child's intellectual development, but also restricts the development of the child's personality, and it is easy for the child's creative nature to die prematurely.

Over-education makes children sick of school. Quite a few parents are keen on"Early education"，"Hope for Jackie Chan"、"Hope that the girl will become a phoenix"Earnest, often consciously or unconsciously exert all kinds of pressure on children, children at a young age to learn foreign languages, learn typing, learn painting, memorize poems, learn piano, etc., so that many children are full of fear of school before they go to school, and they are timid when they talk about learning things.

Excessive love allows children to indulge. One of the prominent manifestations of parents' excessive love for their children is to be obedient, which can easily lead to children's willful and selfish temperament, and take parental love for granted. Parent-child love should be a two-way street, and parents should let their children know how to reciprocate while giving love.

If a child rebels against charity, parents may turn to it"Slap education"Although power and doting go to the extremes, they are different paths to the same end, which is not conducive to the healthy physical and mental growth of children.

The leakage current is set too small, so that the protected equipment stops frequently.

The normal protection of mothers means that when the child is in danger or is bullied, the mother rushes up to carry out some protective behaviors or words, or even some extreme actions. For example, if the child is bitten by a dog, the mother will not only drive away the dog when she sees it, but even has the urge to bite back, which is an instinct of motherhood and a normal protection.

The mother's excessive accusation of favoritism in the child will not only lead to the deformity of the child's psychological personality development, but also make it easier for the child to go to the road of lawlessness.

Excessive protection of children can make children "pampered and proud".

Children who are overprotected by their mothers are easy to be pampered and arrogant, and many things can be done by themselves, but they always ask to help their mothers, and they have no hands-on ability and self-care ability. As the child grows up and becomes a "giant baby" type of existence, he takes it for granted that his mother does everything for himself.

Excessive child protection will make the child "neither big nor small".

Children who are favored often do not know how to respect their elders, let alone others. In the eyes of such children, they don't understand what etiquette means, and they feel that the whole world should let themselves and obey them, and their personalities are quite domineering.

Excessive protection can affect your child's relationships.

The various domineering and selfish personalities produced by overprotective children will greatly affect the child's interpersonal relationships once the child enters the society. Because no one wants to get along with such a person, or even become friends.

Excessive protection can make children selfish.

Children who are overprotected by their mothers take it for granted that they accept everything their mothers give, they don't know how to be grateful, and they don't know how to be self-reliant, tolerant and filial. Always like to rely on his parents.,Quite selfish at heart.。

Observe the traffic light before crossing the road, and only pass quickly when the green light is on, which is an important attention to your own traffic safety and a reasonable self-protection. If every time you cross the street, you are so nervous that you don't dare to use your socks at a green light, it is obviously an overprotective fear that is bending the potato.

Overprotection is actually a kind of behavior pattern under psychological suggestion, with a variety of external manifestations and behavior affecting all aspects, the most prominent feature is the imbalance of "degree", which shows behavioral characteristics that are higher than those generally recognized. The most common is "excesses", the infinite amplification of fear, emotional language performance, nervous body movements, etc., in short, will bring obstacles to ordinary interpersonal communication and emotional interaction, so that mutual understanding will occur obvious errors.

It is very important to know how to protect yourself, but excessive self-protection will bring about ***, of which the grasp of "degree" is the most important.