Seek ways and means of dealing with people and mentality

I am for all, everyone is for me, and social activities also follow the principle of equivalent exchange.

Don't think about small things, blame others to be right and not to people, don't turn over old accounts, don't talk too much, leave a way back for others, and don't touch villains. Be kind to people, and don't always give people a sense of respect. There is always a reward for what you give.

In short, it is 1, the heart is wide. 2. Kindness. 3. Morality.

4. Responsibility. 5. Self-motivated.

Wait, am I saying a little biased...

It's good to know everything in your heart, don't worry too much, have a tolerant heart, and you will naturally be kind to others.

Interact with others, learn to suffer losses, and control the distance at the same time.

Treat each other with courtesy, and keep an eye on it.

The most important thing is to be sincere and attentive, and don't play tricks!! This is very important.

You must treat others with a peaceful attitude, this is a matter of mutual respect, only if you respect others, can you get the affirmation of others.

Then it depends on which school of thought you like, and what kind of doctrine you tend to, just act according to that kind of thing.

Treat people and things with a sincere heart......

Be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner.

Optimistic, calm, peaceful, rigid and soft.

Easy going but not too humble.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. Be humble in your interactions with friends.

Friendly attitude towards everyone. Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things as successful as possible.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasizing objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and be untrustworthy: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues no longer believe in you, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

Being a person is like water, doing things like a mountain - spring comes to the child.

Kindness is like water, virtue is loaded, down-to-earth and kind, and work sincerely.

This person must be in black and white, get along with gray scale, must grasp this measure, advance and retreat in a certain way, abide by the principle, neither make simple words, nor secretively, know the world but not the world, out of the rivers and lakes and far away from the rivers and lakes.

How to behave in the world? Stay away from situations that make you feel unhappy; Stay away from places where there is no value for growth.

One of Du Yuesheng's sons also stayed in Shanghai as a liaison officer, often traveling back and forth between Shanghai and Hong Kong to deliver information. Regarding the invitation of the Communist Party, Du Yuesheng said that he could not return to the mainland for the time being due to poor health, but he should act in accordance with the spirit of Pan Hannian's instructions to "serve the people as much as possible."

A few tips for dealing with the world.

This person must be in black and white, get along with gray scale, must grasp this measure, advance and retreat in a certain way, abide by the principle, neither make simple words, nor secretively, know the world but not the world, out of the rivers and lakes and far away from the rivers and lakes.

See people talk about people, and talk about ghosts!

Be a real person and do things in a down-to-earth manner.

"Cultural Journey" by Yu Qiuyu.