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No, because she doesn't really care about you.
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From a certain point of view, you may not believe in the other party, nor do you necessarily want to forgive, but you dare not face it and cannot afford to bear the second betrayal.
In fact, as a party to a long-distance relationship, you know better than anyone that even if she has never had contact with other members of the opposite sex before, it does not mean that she will not have it in the future, after all, you are not by the other party's side, and you are absent. And your girlfriend, what you can fancy, it must not be bad, then, it is normal for other boys to like her, on the contrary, other men are not interested in her, only the girl you like, but to think about whether your vision is too detached or problematic.
The crux of the problem is not whether to forgive, but whether you have enough self-confidence and strength to make the other party in a different place still only single-minded to yourself, otherwise even if the other party does not do anything, you may not dare to believe it, sometimes it may be that the other party is not worthy of your trust, and sometimes it may be that you dare not believe in your charm.
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People who change their self-confidence show that they will change when they know their mistakes, and this kind of person should be forgiven. Everyone makes mistakes, so forgive what you can forgive. Therefore, as long as Li Tianyi behaves well in the future, Liangfeng should be forgiven.
So, if you do something wrong, how can you correct yourself? 1. Don't dwell on the past. Since we can't do anything about the past, we shouldn't spend so much time remembering the painful past.
If our time and energy are dwelling on the past, it is tantamount to adding pain to ourselves. At this time, you might as well let go and think more about happy things to make yourself feel better. 2. If you don't answer the key, you should panic.
Everyone can make some mistakes, which cannot be avoided, and different attitudes and solutions to mistakes determine our personal growth. Therefore, when we regret doing something wrong, don't panic, but find a way to solve the problem, which is worth learning. 3. Find the crux of the problem.
Since the mistake has been made, we should correct it as soon as possible, and what we need to do before correcting the envy is to find the crux of the problem. After all, if we don't learn from the lessons, we may continue to make the same mistakes next time. Therefore, it is important to find a way to find the crux of the problem.
4. Find a way to remedy it. If something has already been done wrong, regret will not help at all, and the best solution is to make amends. So spend your limited time and energy on how to do the wrong thing and regret it.
You know, not everyone has the opportunity to make amends, to minimize the damage, to alleviate the pain in the heart. 5. Do the right thing. No matter what time it is, no matter how much you are obsessed with what you have done wrong, you should learn to let go of the things that have passed, and instead try to spend your energy on the right things that you should be doing in the moment.
If we don't want to be wrong, we should find a way to do the right thing and make ourselves feel better.
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Of course I will, just get it done. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:
The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.
To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.
Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own right direction by constantly exploring and making mistakes.
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Case-by-case analysis.
If someone inadvertently offends you, and later recognizes the mistake and sincerely repents of it, we should forgive them. If we don't forgive, it's our fault.
If the other person has consciously and seriously violated your interests, the apology is insincere, and the punishment is avoided by apologizing, then you can't just get an apology and let him go. Instead, they should pursue their rights and interests in accordance with the law. lest someone take advantage of it again and again with a false apology.
Comparatively speaking, Chinese are generally less accustomed to apologizing for the sake of their general love of face. Therefore, generally speaking, those who can apologize have a certain degree of cultivation. The second case described above is rare and is only a hypothesis. In short, it is necessary to respond appropriately according to the actual state of the time.
The above answers are for reference only. Let's analyze the specific situation, I think if you just can't do the bottom line, I don't think I will forgive, because the two of them have been friends for so long, and then they already know Fengxin relatively well. Yes, it's dead, and then you still do things that hurt me, and it touches my bottom line, I don't think this kind of forgiveness, if there are some small situations, I think I will still choose to forgive, be a man, or should be magnanimous.
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If you make a mistake as a thing or his (her) friend, the first thing you have to point out is to point it out, and then ask him (her) to correct it, and if the mistake of the cover involves you, you have to learn to tolerate him once, because no one is perfect.
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If a friend makes a mistake and you want to forgive the other person, then you can understand it from the other person's point of view and be able to empathize with the other person.
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