Life is very unhappy! Unhappy things in life!

Your surroundings cannot change for you, but you need to adapt to it. There are good and bad in life, look at everything around you with tolerance, and you will find that life is still very good!

Since you are not happy, you should make yourself happy, think about what you are interested in, and then take the time to do it seriously, such as sports, singing, traveling, etc., in the process you should try not to think about troubles, concentrate on doing what you are interested in, and experience and harvest happiness from it. Actually, happiness is really simple! Only by making yourself feel good can you look at things around you more objectively instead of focusing only on the negative side.

You also need to communicate with people a lot, and there will be many unexpected gains in sincere communication, including a lot of happiness. It is recommended that you go to the lecture of the teacher on "Wonderful Use of Character", which may be helpful for you to communicate with others.

Happiness needs to be experienced and discovered, don't think too much, don't complain too much, do what you want to do, do what you are interested in, troubles can be put aside temporarily, happiness is everywhere. Do as I say, and I'm sure you'll get something out of it.

Let's find a hobby of your own.

As the saying goes, the more interested people are, the happier they are.

Just do your own thing well, and don't worry about the rest.

The teacher is hypocritical, him, anyway, you are learning what he teaches, not his person.

Classmates are shallow, it's your business, and they're not your friends anyway, so can you worry about their literacy?

Parents accuse each other, you should not hear it, since they are divorced, there must be resentment in the stomach, it is normal for you to accuse each other, you should also be considerate of them as a child, they say bad things about each other in front of you, on the one hand, it means that they are not smart enough, on the other hand, it also shows that they love you very much (they all want to belittle each other to get a good impression of you, so that you are closer to their own side). ）

In addition, don't always stare at the shortcomings of others, learn to see the advantages of others, you can make close friends, like you, feel that everyone has a lot of problems, if you can't stand it, who will really treat you?

For example, your teacher, although you think he is hypocritical, but what he says to you is not for your good, even if he talks about great truths, but if you think about it, you become good and bad, in fact, he has no benefit of a dime, why does he still take the trouble to say those great truths that he may not like himself every time?

For example, classmates, children who are only in their first year of high school, what do you want them to do every day without fighting or arguing? When talking about the philosophy of life, you will say that they pretend to be deep; Play petty bourgeoisie, and you'll say they pretend to be 13. Is that right?

They are still young, not necessarily as sophisticated as adults, which is why you will think that their concern is nothing more than cheap sympathy, besides, you are also a child, and when you grow up, you will know that even cheap sympathy is much more valuable than ruthless indifference.

And most importantly, what have you done for them? Why do you expect people to treat you sincerely? Heart-to-heart communication is to have equal efforts on both sides, how can people treat you as a true friend with your current mentality?

Try it, there is always light and darkness in this world, just like a door, the world inside the door and the world outside the door are two kinds of scenery, depending on which side of the threshold your feet are on.

Hehe! That's really depressing!

I'm also a freshman in high school! The environment in the school is pretty much the same as you say!

No way. That's how society is now!

You don't have to worry too much!

Sometimes when I come home from a late night, I'll come across people my age or even younger than me smoking on the side of the road! Talking about people with unclean mouths! I feel very uncomfortable listening to it, and I feel that I don't know what the future will look like!

Because I live at my grandparents' house, when I return home, my grandparents will always say that I don't need to study hard, and what art I still study, it's a waste of money!

There won't be anything in the future!

I was so disappointed! It's lonely!

Later, I slowly found a goal for myself, which was to make a difference in art!

Now I'm fighting for it too! Don't care about the things around you!

You'll be a little happier!

You know? Do more fun! I can chat with you too!

When you add me, just say it!

You and I are in a similar situation, since we can't change the world, let's change ourselves, change our mentality, and don't worry too much about some things.

There has never been a case of "you change the environment", only the fact that "the environment changes you". Since everything around you can't do what you want, and you can't change it, then you have to change yourself. When I was in the first year of junior high school, I was also very unhappy in my life, and I had thoughts of suicide, but in the end, it passed.

I'm happy now because I can face life positively and optimistically. Human life is short, so we should cherish our life and have a meaningful life. On the stage of life, as the person above said, every life is a drama, and everyone is the protagonist of their own drama.

Let's leave a brilliant and dazzling stroke on the stage of life!

Well, I live in a similar environment to you, whether it's school or home. Hey, don't always care about what others are doing, just do what you have to do, don't think too much, the more you think about it, the more messy it becomes.

Struggle, life is like a play, life is like a TV series, you have to be your protagonist, your life can only be changed by yourself, don't pay attention to the people around you, be yourself, I suggest you go to watch a movie, 17-year-old bicycle.

If you can't change the world, change yourself. When you change yourself, you find that you have changed the world as well. There are always two choices in life, A and B, choose the one that makes you happiest.

Don't confine yourself to your own cage and push yourself into the abyss of pain, there are books, movies, and friends in this world. Find a time to talk to your closest friends or watch a comedy or touching movie, cry and laugh. Change your perspective, listen to other people's stories, and continue to live with a smile.

Is it okay to open your heart and complain to your friends, at this time, friends are very important, and they can remove your psychological shadows. If you can't do this, you can divert your attention, you can listen to good songs, go out for a run, go shopping, you can, choose the way you can make you happy, go for it!

I'm going through this like you, but I have to endure it, and when I grow up, I can do what I like, and my life will be colorful.

Cause Analysis:

1 I think you are a straightforward person, and it is easy to show joy and sorrow, and when you have a baby face at the same time, unmature adjectives appear.

2 People's habitual thinking : early marriage = immaturity (having children too early) 3 lack of self-confidence.

Suggestion:1 Don't care too much about what others think. We live for ourselves and not for others.

2 If you want others to believe in you, you must first believe in yourself. Don't underestimate your ability to work, your efforts will be seen by others.

3 If you want to be respected, you must know how to respect others.

4 Maybe you need to correct some childish behavior.

Look at it, that's how life is.

22 years old, so young, and children. Since you don't look like an adult, you must not look like an adult in height and figure, at least. I can't change that.

The main thing is that you are really not an adult enough, don't care, you haven't reached that period yet, and then you will naturally mature. Wouldn't it be better to look younger? People can't get it if they want to be young.

Think differently. It's only 22, it's still early to 50, and there are days when you're mature!!

You're in the same situation as I am, I'm in business right now, it looks small, people will think you're unreliable, you can only prove yourself with your actions, let everyone know about yourself!

Like you, I used to feel immature and agonize with other people's evaluations. People have to go through something to mature, or to go through pain. Can I give you some advice:

Try to make your own decisions about everything, solve it by yourself, and face it yourself; Find the joy of life, bit by bit; When I encounter problems, I think about how I would feel if I were him, and I slowly got better. See more, listen more, think more.

Got married and had children at such a young age, and the people you meet at work and in life should be older than you, right? It's also natural for them to think you're immature. In fact, I think a person's immaturity mainly depends on his words and deeds, tempered, emotional, willful, simple ideas, relying on others, and doing things without considering the consequences will give people a feeling of immaturity (I am like this, I have been reflecting...).

It is advisable to calm down and reflect on it for a while and then find a way to overcome it. Finally, I believe that the growth of experience will make people mature, so let's experience a different life as much as possible

Relax your mind and do your best to do these things, and since your appearance doesn't match your actual age, you have to prove yourself with your strength.

In modern society, science and technology have progressed, and material travel has become richer, but happiness seems to be farther and farther away from people. Everyone is complaining that they are too busy at work, too tired from life, and always unhappy.

The heart is old and irritable, the bright sedan chair does not like to talk, is irritable about everything, likes to be alone, dull, easy to lose his temper, and is very picky about anything in Ren Jianshan.

You can understand your mood, you have encountered problems in the process of making friends, and at the same time, you are studying hard but your grades are not very satisfactory, so you are in a bad mood.

People are emotional, when they encounter happy things, they laugh, when they are not in a good mood, they are sad, people will often encounter such problems in their lives, the key is what kind of mentality you have to look at and deal with such things.

Adjust the mentality, maintain an optimistic mood and a good mental state is the most important, a person needs to have self-confidence, need to be self-motivated, have self-assertiveness, do not follow the waves, no backbone.

You have considered a lot in the process of interacting with friends, such as empathy, but some things do not mean that it is okay to change people, they do not have a person's personality and way of doing things, and the handling of interpersonal relationships is inseparable from the influence of family environment and growth process, education style and family members, and at the same time, because you have not experienced enough, you have not formed your own values and self-confidence.

Seeing others get along with others very well, I hope I can do it, everyone will have such a mentality, but I can't, the reason is **, one is that you are not really integrated into them, what are the topics they care about, values, hobbies, behavior, if you want to integrate you need to change yourself, learn from them, this process takes time, on the other hand, the possible result is that learning is not necessarily like, and finally lose yourself, so it is better to keep yourself and live out yourself, Live with personality, don't envy others, you need to work hard yourself.

Learning is your most important task at this stage, to do a good job in learning, is the right way, because a person's life is only the most precious time period, once missed will not be again, this is an important moment to determine the direction of your life, in such a time to learn the knowledge will be used for a lifetime, is the basis for your future life start, your life is also different, learning efforts and academic performance is not proportional, the reason is in**, efforts but to pay attention to methods and efficiency, learning is also to pay attention to methods, The same two people learn, one pays attention to the method, learns well, remembers quickly, and improves efficiency, so a good method can get twice the result with half the effort, so you need to re-understand yourself, find a good learning method is the key, sharpen the knife and cut firewood is this truth, I believe you will find a method that suits you.

You are a thoughtful person who likes to use your brain to think, give full play to your strengths, gather goals, study seriously, treat friends sincerely, and believe that you will do better!

I wish you success in your studies and happiness every day!

Communicate with him, if you are suitable, you will be together, and if you are not suitable, you will find someone who is suitable for you.

Now I played with the eyes of the heartWhat to do when you start a family!

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.