How do men cultivate their temperament and aura?

The temperament that can be cultivated is only self-confidence and sassy, you can't practice heroic temperament if you want to, most tough guys in reality have no temperament, but what they do can be called tough guys.

The aura of a boy is first of all composed of several aspects.

1. Self-confidence, you must have strong self-confidence, but you can't be too conceited.

2. Erudite, with extensive knowledge, can talk with people from all walks of life.

3. Be calm, don't get bored in case of trouble.

4. Be generous, don't care about other people's gossip about you, and the most important thing is to be yourself.

5. Wise, in the process of negotiating with the opponent, the canopy is wiped out between talking and laughing.

6. Talent, a certain aspect of talent is recognized by the public.

7. Prestige, with certain leadership skills, to convince others.

8. Not humble, not arrogant, pampered and not shocked.

Why don't people answer the questions now?! Please be serious about the questions upstairs, OK? Men have many kinds of temperaments,1

Melancholy temperament, 2: confident temperament, 3: noble temperament.

What kind of temperament do you want to train yourself to be? 1: Melancholy temperament is related to one's own thoughts, thinking about some marginal issues all day long, and not yielding results, thinking about everything is very complicated, and after a long time, it will form a melancholy temperament.

2: The temperament of self-confidence is related to attitude, believe in yourself, believe in others, believe in miracles, and have your own beliefs! Whatever happens, trust that you can do it and that you can fix it!

Usually you should also enrich yourself and let yourself have the capital of self-confidence! Step by step, you will eventually form a confident temperament in you! 3：

Noble temperament this with.

Those who have a strong aura are strong in **?

I envy those people with strong aura, as if they can guide others invisibly, and any action can make people focus on them.

And when they face others, they are so calm. The spirit and spirit seen from them are not pretentious at all, but a natural temperament, which is inadvertently revealed! ”

Are those who have a strong aura strong in **?

Start with the details and change and cultivate your aura.

The aura does not necessarily require you to hold a shelf, or deliberately awkwardly shape, but you only need to start from your own point of view, find the part of your heart that needs to be strong the most, and turn yourself into a person who can focus from the inside out.

Sometimes, allowing yourself to make some changes in details can also greatly strengthen your aura and unite your strength.

Control your expressive desires.

Some people will think it is strange, isn't aura something that needs to be expressed, why should we control the desire to express?

The desire to express yourself here is your desire to show yourself in front of others when you don't have enough confidence. Many people often fail to distinguish between expressiveness and aura, thinking that speaking in a heavier tone and a higher tone can make them appear to have a strong aura.

However, people with real aura will not be in a hurry to be in the limelight, but will control the intonation and speed of speech within the normal range, guide others to listen, and do not need to deliberately behave at all.

Think logically.

In the final analysis, aura is a kind of thing that comes from within, it reflects the depth of a person's thoughts and quality cultivation, therefore, if a person wants to cultivate a strong aura, he must work logical ability, and it is best to be quick to think and not mess around.

When many people encounter more complex situations, they will fall into some extreme emotions, such as anger, fear, sadness, etc., and the thinking mode at this time is easy to lose its logic and become emotional. At this time, the ability to deal with things becomes unreasonable and confused, but this does not help at all.

You need to know what you want, distinguish the contradictions between the main and secondary, and show your rational side, so that people can be sincerely admired.

No twisting, no artificiality.

Do things neatly, keep your head up, don't twist and pinch, don't force others to be difficult, let courage and self-confidence accompany you, and at the same time constantly revise your way of behavior, get along with others in harmony, don't deliberately create uncomfortable situations for others, and become stronger.

If you want to show yourself in front of people, you can't be pretentious. You can reach out ahead of time to put your best foot forward, but don't worry too much about your presence.

If it is a social occasion, you can do a good job of yourself in a relaxed and natural way, show your etiquette and cultivation, and gradually refine your aura.

This problem, I believe it is a problem that many boys are particularly concerned about but are very confused, of course, those with good looks are advantages, but they can't be scumbags, and those who don't have good looks can't be said to be shortcomings.

First, when meeting people, the first thing you see must be the appearance, and the appearance is also a point to pay attention to is the clothing, not necessarily a famous brand, but it must be suitable for yourself, you must wear your own personality, a good dress is good to wear on others, but it is not necessarily suitable for you to wear, so it is good to suit yourself. Okay, the appearance is ready, then what you need now is self-confidence, self-confidence that you are the most beautiful and the best. Don't talk about it, you must be humble, smart people are always praising others.

Don't advertise yourself on the Internet like this, how you are, the greater the hope you give, the greater the disappointment when everyone sees you. It should be put in the heart, radiated from the heart to the outside, and manifested on your face, so that it gives people a temperamental aura of male gods, not on the surface. In fact, in my personal feeling, if you want to really have an aura, you still have to rely on connotation and cultivation, a person's temperament is the sum of internal cultivation, external behavior, the way of talking and dealing with people, attitudes, etc., elegant and generous, natural temperament will give people a comfortable, cordial, easy-going feeling, so that others feel that you are more gentle, more affinity, I think cultivating a good daily life is also the key to a person's success, regardless of men and women, you need to cultivate your own aura

I'm so jelly when I write it.

Feel like sending a few. I can rely on this.

Salted fish turn over! But first.

I have to be a man.

Temperament is abstract, he is the feeling after meeting, the most awesome temperament is accumulated for a long time, all people in a awesome family have a unique temperament, of course, this temperament can not be cultivated, to cultivate a man's temperament, first of all, to give others a feeling that you are a man, not a pseudo-mother, followed by dressing, must be mature and decent (about this can be specifically learned), and then self-confidence, think that you have a certain temperament, and try to try, Then don't care what others think of you, to control your emotions, it's best to have a group of friends who you think have a temperament to communicate more, and after a long time, you will learn their temperament unconsciously. Hope it helps.

Hehe, I came out of the countryside, then went to college, and now I am working.

Regarding the temperament you mentioned, I have also found that through my own observations, I have found that there are the following points to pay attention to, and they are also the most critical. ：

1. Self-confidence. This is the most important point, if a person cringes, then there is no temperament to talk about;

2. Eyes, this is also related to self-confidence, in short, the eyes should be a little more divine, not hazy, the eyes can reflect whether a person is spiritual.

3. Get dressed. This, I don't think it affects temperament, on the contrary, temperament affects dressing, if a person has no temperament, then no matter how fashionable he is, it will only reflect that he is very earthy.

4. Speak. When you speak, have you noticed that many of those boys with unique temperament have a characteristic, they speak louder, don't get me wrong, you think that if you are loud, you have no quality, many boys with temperament talk eloquently, and the voice is not small.

This also reflects a lot of confidence on the side. Do you dare to speak out loud in public?

5. Retouching. Boys can be unkempt at times, but there are important details such as hair, nails, shoes, etc., that must be taken care of.

You can be informal in other aspects, but if you don't care about these, others will think you are sloppy, and now girls hate boys' shortcomings the most, sloppy is the top three.

Make yourself knowledgeable, wise, and energetic. Exercise well and give others a sense of health. Speaking is not loud, but logical, convincing majesty.

Exercise your will and let others see your fortitude. Be kind-hearted, humane, humorous, generous and calm. Wait a minute.

Everyone's temperament is different, as long as you keep your mood comfortable and down-to-earth, you will attract others and have a lot of friends.

Learn more about culture. See the world. Deepen personal literacy.

The city government should be deep.

The most important point is to hurt the woman.

Mentality improvement, mentality indicates a person's mental state, as long as you have a good mentality, you can maintain a full mood every day.

Young man, I read the following words, the suggestions are all for you to play temperament, temperament is an internal thing, one day you have this thing and you can't hide it. You can't get it for a day or two, and you can't unload it once you have it. What you will have in the long process of struggle, if you can still remember my words when you look at the mountains, it doesn't matter who the 100 bounties are given today!

Hard work, grades, reading (of course, it is a good book, and there is poetry and books in the belly).

Sometimes, the most important thing for a person is the result. Work hard for results. Don't care about the starting line and the process, and pursue a satisfactory result. Don't care too much about what others think of you, either. Temperament is sometimes given by oneself.

The most important thing is self-confidence!!

Self-confidence is invincible!

Temperament is cultivated slowly.

Try to do a good job of yourself, increase your income, and be afraid of no woman!

Ideas to make money... Earn more... You see others say that you have a temperament, no...

One: Calm.

1) Don't show your emotions casually.

2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

4) Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

5) Try to discuss important decisions with others, and it is best to release them every other day.

6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk.

Two: Careful. 1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

2) For the implementation problems that are not in place, we must explore the root cause of them.

3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things.

4) Develop the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do.

5) Always go to a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere.

Three: Courage. 1) Don't use words and phrases that lack self-confidence.

2) Don't always go back on what you have already decided.

3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.

5) Be mindful in everything you do because someone is watching you.

6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

Four: generosity. 1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (financial giving, dharma giving, and fearless giving).

4) Don't have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge.

5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

6) Someone has to sacrifice or dedicate themselves when they go ahead.

Five: integrity. 1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do what you say.

2) Don't talk about false slogans or slogans.

3) In response to the "dishonesty" problems raised by customers, come up with ways to improve.

4) Stop all "immoral" means.

5) Trick yourself up, or not!

6) Calculate the integrity cost of the product or service, that is, the brand cost.

Six: Responsibility. 1) When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or your own people.

2) After the matter is completed, the fault will be reviewed first, and then the credit will be listed.

3) Acknowledging mistakes starts from the superiors, and the performance starts from the subordinates.

4) Embark on a plan with clear definitions of rights and responsibilities and appropriate allocation.

5) Be clear about people or organizations who are "afraid of things".

First of all, let him be confident and encouraged.

Read more, read more, read more, say important things three times.

1. All heights cannot be changed, but some places can be changed, and the following suggestions can be provided for reference:

1. Try to lower your voice when speaking and talk to the other person in a calm and calm manner.

2. The eyes are the windows of the soul, and when the heart is tender, the eyes usually do not contain hostility.

3. Body language should be gentle and elegant, and there should be no too much range of movement when talking to people.

4. Believe in yourself, only when a person is in a confident state, will he have a good state to play.