What to do at this point? Should I break up with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I've got you covered with your previous question, and it seems that you're really sentimental

    I still say that everything is natural, don't deliberately pursue anything

    Don't try to spoil anything!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you love him, you should give him the greatest tenderness. You are by his side, and he can be happy. He can't forget the goodness of his former girlfriend, but he can't let go of your goodness.

    Truly love and don't give up. You're the best thing to be by his side. Go down bravely, for your happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Does he love you? If you love, continue to love Him and be with Him.

    Help him end his previous relationship and occupy his whole heart.

    If you don't love him, just leave him, he won't be sad, he will only feel guilty.

    Without him, he will lighten the burden.

    If you don't know that he loves you and doesn't love you.

    Then you leave him for a while and let him be quiet.

    Let him handle his feelings on his own.

    In short, you have to be happy to face the reality no matter what.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is normal now.

    I can accept that my girlfriend buys a sweater for his ex-boyfriend. In the end, she ran away and left with her ex-boyfriend. Haha, I smiled wryly.

    I regret that I used to be too tolerant and indulgent to her. I understand her too well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is he sad because he still loves her? Or is it because she once gave him happiness? He can't forget that relationship?

    If you love him, do you mind if he is friends with her? If you mind, just tell him and let him know what you think.

    The most important thing for two people to be together is communication, and without communication it generally won't last long.

    Ask him what he thinks and tell him what you think. Cherish the happiness around you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should leave him for a few days, and if he looks for you, it means that he still likes you, then you should not break up with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Have a good talk with him. The key is still in him. If he's determined to go, let him go. Sometimes letting go is also a form of love. I also put aside this burden, and the scenery ahead is infinitely better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Wait and see, tend not to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1.Be the master of your emotions.

    Try to regulate your emotions and calm it down, don't let yourself get into a crazy situation, don't allow yourself to go to your ex and do anything to reduce the price. Always remember that it's not true love that you can lick to your knees. Begging for love will only backfire and end up making you regret it.

    2.Talk to the people you trust most.

    Don't embarrass yourself, don't force yourself, don't force yourself to face the fact of the breakup alone. Open up to your friends, express your thoughts, cry or eat delicious food. In short, find someone who genuinely cares about you to accompany you through this difficult time.

    3.Take a hot bath before going to bed and listen lightly**.

    These two seemingly small things can wash your mind, relax you, and improve the quality of your sleep. A breakup is not the end. The sun is still waiting for you the next day!

    4.Spend the night in a comfortable place.

    After a breakup, spending a few nights in a comfortable place can give you a sense of security. First of all, you need any help you can get. The effect is very powerful. Parents, siblings, and closest friends can help you control each other's desire to return.

    5.Satisfy attachment needs in other ways.

    Take care of those closest to you, get a massage, exercise, eat more healthy foods, and divert your attention. As long as we can appease the attachment system, the breakup will not be so painful.

    6.Heal with friendship.

    Love will leave, but friendship will always remain. When you break up, you can ask more friends to play with so that you can forget about a relationship for a long time. Increase interests and hobbiesAt the beginning of the hobby, you can also allow yourself to meet some like-minded people, which is also good for your **.

    7.Communicate more with your family.

    Family is always the warmest harbor. Whenever we keep in touch with our families, we find that breaking up is a small thing.

    8.Read more to improve new knowledge.

    At any time, learning can help you solve your doubts, and constantly reading to gain new knowledge can make your life clearer.

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