Do most of the people who have a more miserable life come on their own?

I think so, because most of the people who have a more difficult life are more persistent people, and they have a more upright personality and don't know how to reflect on their mistakes.

This is indeed the case, because there are people who have incorrect concepts, whose thoughts cannot correctly guide their actions, who do something illegal or immoral, and then let themselves suffer.

No, most of the people who have a hard life are kind people, they give the good to others, and they bear the bad consequences themselves, which leads others to think that their lives are miserable.

There are many people who suffer, but few who suffer all their lives.

You don't know your specific situation, and you can't give specific advice, but you can only provide a general principle of coping: don't give up hope. Let your mother build hope.

Basically, all people have a bittersweet life.

When you are young, you are happy, but when you are old, you suffer.

Or upside down.

Suffering, or happiness, is temporary.

When you are suffering, it is useless to complain about the heavens and others, you have to plant blessings and prepare for future happiness.

When you are happy, don't get carried away and squander, but prepare in advance for the tight days ahead.

Don't be afraid of suffering, as long as you continue to cultivate blessings, the future will improve step by step.

Of course. Unlucky man. Drink water and stuff your teeth.

There must be, but what do you mean by this miserable life? To yourself? To others?

When you are a teenager, there will be many false and unexpected encounters, but those are experiences, not the right path of your life, and you will slowly start to get on the right track in middle age. It's not that you don't want to be diligent and thrifty, but that all kinds of things force you to spend money everywhere, as if you don't treat money as money to live, but it is precisely because of the "blossoming everywhere" and all kinds of efforts in middle age, in your old age, you will naturally harvest your career and family business, and enjoy your old age. This life is the best of the bad, when you are young, you will endure more hardships, take more detours, feel all kinds of different life possibilities, and gradually return to the right path at the age of thirty, gradually enter the best situation, and go back to get better and better.

In the face of adversity, you should not only be afraid, but everything you are doing now is not without purpose, but for the sake of the end of the happy outcome. Don't get too carried away when things go well, your fate will not be much achieved in the first half of your life. Be a good person and do things, be humble and generous, don't worry too much about the gains and losses in front of you, and lay the foundation for your old age.

In addition, this life, the original family does not help much, think more about the return and pay, but don't expect them to understand and thank you for the return. When you get along with your husband, pay more attention to the right guidance, and part of the blessings you can get will be with your husband. There are also children, who are generally more blessed and can be touched by light.

In short, do more good deeds, plant more flowers, and plant fewer thorns. Remember not to expect anything in return, and pay attention to the adjustment of words and things to become soft. Human lives are counted, but the four precepts tell us that there are all certain, and there are also unnecessaries.