What should I do if I get angry with my college daughter?

It is normal to have conflicts with your daughter, there are contradictions that have to be solved, and you can't solve the problem without talking, the mother and daughter sit down and chat calmly, or use WeChat to talk about their hearts, the mother is for the good of her daughter, the daughter should understand, and the daughter is older, has her own thoughts and needs, all say it, the mother should also learn to think from the perspective of the daughter, understand each other more and be more tolerant, I believe that the mother-daughter relationship will gradually ease if you persist.

If this thing is angry, the reason is because in your case, the father can just pour the money, or leave the army, in this case, the relationship between your daughter and you will be eased.

Find a way to reconcile, call her **, go to school to see her, parents are always the child's subordinates, no shame.

How can there be an overnight feud between mother and daughter? Things will pass, so why bother! There is a solution to everything, what's the big deal, the mother should not overmanage her daughter, the daughter has gone to college, and she will have her own views when she encounters things, and the mother should also understand her daughter, and her daughter has her own ideas when she grows up.

Daughters also need to understand their mother's painstaking efforts. If the mother and daughter have something to discuss, the mother can make some concessions, take the initiative to communicate with her daughter, have a good attitude, and don't force her daughter to do anything.

I am angry with my daughter in college, which is an internal contradiction, but if I am angry, the child has shortcomings, and I have to point out and criticize how to improve it in the future? Why don't you make a similar mistake? Keep telling him that if you don't want to, you have to say, that's like a small tree, if you see a problem, or you have to repair it on a business trip to grow into a tree, a child is a child, and when you grow up, you will know the good intentions of your parents, is it not that your father should not be too angry?

Hurt the body yourself.

You must sincerely apologize to your daughter, talk to your daughter about what is in your heart, and don't talk anything heavy this time. You need time to erase the scars from your child's heart.

Look at where your main contradiction is, solve the problem fundamentally, the mother and daughter will not be really angry, no matter how long they can be angry, just hit the **.

This may be a youthful rebellion, as a mother, at this time should be a little more patient, listen to the child's wishes, and make a little concession at the appropriate time?

Parents and children have an overnight feud, find a chance to have a meal with the whole family, and then reconcile in the middle to find a step down.

What's the reason, there is something to solve. Mother and daughter don't have an overnight feud. Maybe she doesn't know how to talk to you.

Children have their own thoughts, and high school life may also have some learning pressure, so they need to understand each other to find out where the problem is, whether it is a problem in study or life, communicate well, and find a reasonable solution.

If you have different opinions, you also think that they all make sense, try to communicate with each other, or ignore similar things, and your attitude will change over time.

Hope that helps.

Try to communicate and solve problems, understand each other, children also have their own ideas, and they also need respect.

When the child is older, he needs to communicate more.

Understand each other, be considerate of each other, and respect each other.

Treat like friends equally.

Hug her in front of the bathroom mirror, let her vent and ** her performance, and ask her what she needs when her mood is stable.

If it's a little girl, you can leave it alone. Children forget it overnight, just treat it cold.

Promise your daughter that you will play games with her and she will forgive you.

When she is completely calmed down, I try to coax her, say some nice things to her, and talk to her about happy topics.

Just hit her? Two of them at home! ⏪⏪

A woman who doesn't really love you won't be happy if she asks her.

Let your lover do the work with her. You're angry with him. She'll be emotional about you.

The bird that flew out of the cage is accustomed to the freedom and freedom of the university, unrestrained, you are in charge of the head and feet now, of course he has a rebellious mentality, this is the *** of going to college.

The troubles of adolescence may have unhappiness and troubles in other things, and when you go home, you will bring this emotion to your parents, want to vent your temper, and care more about her.

Maybe something didn't go her way in college. Or maybe she absorbs the culture of the big world outside. I think you're all outdated. It's better to communicate with her in a different way.

Nonsense, you must be wrong, it's too outrageous, look at your narrative that no one else in your family likes her, she is a real relative of you, she treats you as a relative, you don't treat her as a relative, you don't seem to like her anymore, there's nothing to say, your daughter is so pitiful, the people in your husband's family will definitely only love their own children, how can you hurt your ex-husband's children of other men, usually you must bully your daughter, and you must ignore your daughter, look at you seem to make a lot of money, and you don't look like a stupid, Why are you stupid, you should send your daughter to your ex-husband to raise.

...Ay. Are you wondering?

Am I wrong. "

Does this still need to be asked? Do you still care about your daughter?

Do you know how wrong you are?

Outrageous to me. I don't know how to describe it.

I want to scold you, but I know it won't help.

Why don't you care about your daughter's words?

Why do you think your daughter's words can be ignored without being substantiated?

Do you know? Although you are trying to save your daughter in this article.

But I read your indifference in it.

I guess that's true. You've grown to dislove your daughter.

In other words, other happiness makes you ignore the love in your heart.

Ay. Bless your daughter.

Your words. It's really poisonous.

I imagined this passage in myself.

It's good that your daughter is sensible. Otherwise. All you can do is a cold corpse.

Other than that. Please help this mother. Help her daughter.

I can't think of any good way.

The words that have been spoken, the water that has been spilled. How can she afford those poisonous words that are so small, if it were me, I would never forgive you for the rest of my life. Making amends with love will help ease your relationship.

And a nanny is a nanny, and when you get money, you should do things. Don't get involved with relatives. I don't like your husband either.

Why don't you think more about your daughter?

Poor girl, I'm about to cry when I see it. To be able to say those words at such a young age is to suspect that you have not enjoyed your childhood and have come of age early.

What is that man If it's your own child, you can beat and scold at will Other people's children Or such a sensitive family combination Why does he scold at will I can only say that he doesn't take your daughter seriously at all Maybe he usually does it like a meeting in front of people I don't know how to treat your daughter in the future.

Poor girl, it's so sad to be such a character!! But it's not your own control, it's your own bad life, you were born in such a family, and you have such a pair of "parents".

A mother like you can really die, my mother divorced my dad when I was three years old, my mother didn't ask him for a penny, she didn't have a job and no diploma, she would rather eat by herself than take me well, he married my stepdad when I was in the 6th grade, and after getting married, she resolutely did not have children, in order to be nice to me, my stepdad scolded me a little and she would quarrel with him, do you think you call your mother? To be so cruel to such a young child, you don't deserve the word mother.

It turns out that there are really the same ones as me.

Maybe I should call you Auntie. Because you're like my mom.

I was really surprised. Why did your husband beat her? Is it that I didn't take you seriously?

What's even more surprising is that you went up to make up for a slap.

You remarried, which would have been a blow to your daughter.

Do you really know your child? Do you really know what they say and do to your children in private?

Do you really think she will be happy to have another "brother"?

In fact, she endured all these things you did silently. She's just a teenager.

Don't say you're a child. Even adults remember it for the rest of their lives.

If you really love herShe doesn't ask for all your love. It's good to be fair. It's like you feel like your husband hit her.

You can also go up and make up for a slap in the face, one slap per person, it's all fair.

I was so touched to see that if my mother had gone online for help because of this, I might have felt crying.

Please, are you a woman, why do you hate so much. I'm your daughter who died early. Communicate with your daughter. Your husband is so cruel. You now know that your daughter is sad and sad. What did you do earlier?

Pathetic humanity, deplorable society.

It seems that there are quite a lot of good people.

Forehead. It's really too much to say that a child is so precocious at such a young age, I don't know how much pain she endured. It's pathetic

Don't be careful about this problem, children are like this, my former friends are like this, but in the future, if you understand more, you won't, anyone has such a rebellious period, this period is over, it's good, and have a good talk, eliminate the estrangement, at that time you yourself have to accept your daughter's clothes, after all, young people think differently, don't impose your thoughts on your daughter, so you will be very passive.

What's the use of you trying to persuade her?

You are simply treating the symptoms but not the root cause.

And you seem to have a patriarchal tendency.

You deserve your daughter to do this to you.

It seems that you and Ben have not fulfilled their responsibilities as fathers.

Your daughter can still take care of you, it's really good.

If I hadn't recognized you, I wouldn't have recognized you a long time ago.

Anyway, if you like your son, then let him be with you for the rest of your life.

Having said that, back to your question.

You made your daughter angry, did you think about what you really did wrong**, you just said that you were too her before.

I'm sorry for her.

But did you really care about her?

Did you give her the love that a father should have?

If you still want to have such a daughter.

Just change your bad attitude right away.

It hurts her so much.

Your actions work 10,000 times more than your verbal apologies.

You are not a failure, you are related to your daughter's growth, but you used the wrong method, and now it is normal for young people to dress up cutely and be trendy, just pay attention to the scale. You should apologize to your daughter.

What do you do as a mother to compete with your daughters, who have the lifestyle of young people. You can only open one eye and close one eye.

1. You are too pampered, and when you grow up, you will not be able to do it. 2. Boys and girls can't be too accustomed to being poor, and they don't care about you when they get angry, so you follow him? Talk about her reasoning with him, don't always talk to her, if she makes a mistake, you say that she will be annoyed over and over again, just say that if you don't listen, you can take some measures, if you deduct your pocket money, if you are strict your partner is always too loose, just give him some comfort on the other, you can talk to her, why she is angry because of school or because of you, you can ask him to empathize!