How to be a human being, what is the ultimate principle of being a human being

To be a man, there is a give-and-take. Relax in case of small things, and do not be nervous in case of big things.

Try to keep a low profile, be aggressive, and have a sense of shame.

Scheming and kind. Don't be too simplistic.

You can be confused, but you also know what you're doing and what you want to do. What do you want.

You can be sad or crazy, but you know how to adjust yourself for a certain amount of time.

Work is work, life is life, love is love.

Do you know the meaning of human life?

To live is to strive for the sake of pursuing one's own goals.

Whatever you do? As long as it is what you like and desire, you must find a way to do it according to your own ability. The result is not important, it is the overweight. Because you're going to be happy and sad and grow out of it. That's life.

To be a human being is not to be seen by others, but to be yourself. It's enough to be a down-to-earth person.

The two people who say you are your real friends! I'm just like you, introverted, don't like to talk, don't want to appear in crowded situations, and just want to play with people I know! In fact, there is no reason to be a man, just go out more and see more of the outside world!

The most important thing is that you must be confident! Don't forget!

If you read the book "Square and Circle", you will understand what it means to be a person and what it means to live in the world.

Many things need to be transformed slowly, not overnight.

Believe in yourself, you are the best, as long as you have a clear conscience every day, every day you have to work hard to live.

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The truth of being a man:

1. Be a man who should talk about right and wrong, but don't care too much about the interests and disadvantages; Do things with stakes, but don't be too afraid of right and wrong. For people, we should think about the benefits and look at the strengths; For things, think far away and look at the big picture.

2. Be a man: First, we must be strict with ourselves and lenient with others. Second, we must be humble and beautiful, and let more and fight less. Third, we must be kind to others and avoid arrogance. Fourth, we must use righteousness to squander wealth and help the poor. Fifth, we must treat people with integrity and stay away from right and wrong.

3. Don't act recklessly, there must be a way to move; Don't talk nonsense, words must be reasonable; If you don't ask, you must be righteous; If you don't do anything, you must do right. To be a man: to be reasonable, to be a governor, to know people, to be informed!

4. Complacency, arrogance, and credulity are the three major reefs of life. Pride, jealousy, and greed are the three Mars of life. Say bad things.

Tell lies. The power eye is the three major disgusts in life!

5. To be a man, we must rely on the "two rites" to govern the world, and the "three laws" to determine the country. The so-called "two courtesies" are: polite and reasonable; The so-called "three laws" are: ideas, views, and practices.

6. The most important thing in life is personality, and the connotation of personality includes knowledge, affection and intention. Knowing is perception, knowledge, wisdom; Affection is emotion, emotion, sentiment; Meaning is the mind, the consciousness, the will.

7. The bones should be strong, the qi should be soft, the ambition should be big, the timidity should be small, the heart should be empty, the words should be real, the wisdom should be increased, and the blessing should be cherished. To be a man is to communicate with courtesy and righteousness, and to discipline oneself with honesty and shame!

8. Self-esteem, self-knowledge, and self-control are the highest levels of life. Respecting oneself, respecting others, maintaining dignity, and being responsible for one's own behavior are the basic qualities of being a human being!

9. Snooze, sleepiness, fear, anger, laziness, and procrastination are the six evils of human nature. Self-control, silence, order, determination, frugality, diligence, sincerity, integrity, self-cultivation, neatness, tranquility, chastity, humility, prudence, and agility are the three crosses of life.

1. Don't lose your temper just because you're close

When we go out, in the workplace or other places, we are always polite to colleagues and strangers, and when we go home, we like to lose our temper at our closest family members, but we don't know that everyone returns home to unload the fatigue of the day, and many parents like to lose their temper at their children, but children who go to school for a day are also very tired.

Don't lose your temper casually just because you're close, the more you lose your temper with someone close to you, the more damage you will do to him.

2. Respect every service provider

The network is becoming more and more developed, and almost every shopping platform or ** has added a customer service mechanism, and there are many customer service in Huahua Preferred**, which is responsible for helping flower friends answer the questions of various plants they buy.

Plants have different temperaments, ever-changing, each plant is not the same state after receiving the express, some flower friends did not slow down the seedlings, open it to see that the plant is dying, and then scold, the anger is very heavy, indiscriminate, and vent the anger to the invisible customer service.

Every service provider deserves to be respected, and if there is a problem, negotiate and communicate as soon as possible, but be sure to remain rational and have something to say.

3. Be responsible for your own conservation

Huahua took the elevator home yesterday, stopped from the basement to the first floor, opened the door and found a big golden retriever, the owner pulled the rope, and said to Huahua, "You go up first." After saying that, he kept comforting the dog: We'll go up later, there are people in the elevator.

There are also some flower friends who know that it is dangerous to put potted plants outside the balcony for maintenance, so they build the outside of the balcony tightly and do not give them a chance to fall. Take responsibility for your own maintenance, no matter what you can raise, and let people see your upbringing.

4. Don't bother others with your own entertainment

5. Ask for other people's opinions

If you are involved in a matter with others, even if it is a meal together, you may wish to add a sentence at the end of your decision: Is it okay? What do you think? Show yourself respect for others.

Summary. Hello, there are two things in the world, one is to be a person, and the other is to do things. To be a man is to be a man, and to do things is to do things.

There is no necessary interdependence between the two, but there is a relationship of mutual influence. Don't be domineering, don't be stingy. To be a man is to stabilize the state of mind from the entanglement of restless emotions and desires; What we pay attention to in doing things is to sort out the clues from the chaotic contradictions and the interweaving of interests.

To be a low-key person is to be calm, calm, steady, and peaceful, but you can't be low for the sake of being low, and deliberately being too low is pretentious. Low-key is not a fear of heights, but a healthy mentality that is good at doing things, and it is a harmonious realm that chooses to fight back and return to the truth after seeing the mountains at a glance. High-profile work is a kind of mentality, a kind of invincible momentum, and a kind of invincible domineering, and there is no difficulty or failure in the eyes of this kind of person.

After going through the wind and rain, I know how to be low-key and calm, and what is needed to overcome difficulties is confidence and courage. The stronger the person, the more he likes to challenge difficulties, and when he is weak, he is strong, and when he is strong, he is stronger. The weak will not do things in a high-profile manner, they will only calm things down.

Be a low-key person, and you will be more stable every time; Do things in a high profile, and you will be better and better <> each time

What is to be a person and do things.

Hello, there are two things in the world, one is to be a person, and the other is to do things. To be a man is to be a man, and to do things is to do things. There is no necessary interdependence between the two, but there is a relationship of mutual influence.

Don't be domineering, don't be stingy. To be a man is to stabilize the state of mind from the entanglement of restless emotions and desires; What we pay attention to in doing things is to sort out the clues from the chaotic contradictions and the interweaving of interests. To be a low-key person is to be calm, calm, steady, and peaceful, but you can't be low for the sake of being low, and deliberately being too low is pretentious.

Low-key is not a fear of heights, but a healthy mentality that is good at doing things, and it is a harmonious realm that chooses to fight back and return to the truth after seeing the mountains at a glance. High-profile work is a kind of mentality, a kind of invincible momentum, and a kind of invincible domineering, and there is no difficulty or failure in the eyes of this kind of person. After going through the wind and rain, I know how to be low-key and calm, and what is needed to overcome difficulties is confidence and courage.

The stronger the person, the more he likes to challenge difficulties, and when he is weak, he is strong, and when he is strong, he is stronger. The weak will not do things in a high-profile manner, they will only calm things down. Be a low-key person, and you will be more stable every time; Do things in a high profile, and you will be better and better <> each time

It's better to be a person and do things realistically.

Hello, we insist on proceeding from reality in everything, which is the starting point and foothold of thinking about problems, making decisions, and doing things. If you detach yourself from reality and do things, that person's character will definitely be vain and unreliable, and the results of the work will only be "castles in the air", which will not last long, or it will be "bonsai decoration", which has no practical value. Therefore, no matter how you are a person or do anything, you should adhere to the criterion of seeking truth from facts, do practical things, and be a reliable person.

First, it is inexhaustible; 2. Blessings cannot be exhausted; 3. The rules cannot be exhausted; Fourth, good words cannot be exhausted.

The momentum cannot be exhausted, the words cannot be exhausted, the blessings cannot be enjoyed, and the rules cannot be exhausted. If everything is too exhausted, fate and potato liquid will be exhausted as soon as possible. 」

Buddha monk. At the beginning of the Shuzhou Taiping. Etiquette of the five ancestors.

Zu said. Dafan was hospitalized. There are four who take precepts for themselves.

First, there is no end to it. The second blessing is not exhaustive. Third, there is no end to the rules.

Fourth, don't say enough good words. Why. Good words are easy to say.

The rules are as good as they can be, and everyone will be complicated. If the blessing is exhausted, the fate will be lonely. If so, disaster is coming.

Bow down again and retreat. Translated into vernacular:

Zen Master Fojian was invited to be the abbot of Shuzhou Taiping Temple, and before leaving, the five patriarchs instructed him: As an abbot, there are four things to pay special attention to: first, power cannot be exhausted; Second, the blessings cannot be exhausted; Third, the rules cannot be controlled; Fourth, don't say enough good things. Why?

If there are too many words of praise, the human heart will change; Strict enforcement of rules forces people to go to the left side of the door; The benefits are exhausted, and the hand reed is bound to be isolated; Expand your power indefinitely, and disaster will surely happen. 」

Later, it evolved into the Four Precepts of Dharma Performance:

It is impossible to exhaust it, and if it is exhausted, disaster will come.

Blessings cannot be exhausted, and if they are exhausted, they will be lonely.

You can't say everything, but if you say everything, it will be easy.

The rules cannot be exhausted, and everything must be complicated to add:

The meaning of the vernacular is almost like this, and it is explained by extension: when a person has authority, he must not use his majestic power to coerce others to do things, and he must not do anything to achieve his ends, otherwise he will definitely suffer the consequences

When a person is blessed and happy, he should share it with others, and he should not enjoy all the benefits himself, otherwise he will be envied and isolated by others

When talking to others, good words, criticisms, and suggestions should be reserved, and steps should be left everywhere to maintain people's face, so that the relationship between them will not be boring or changeable

There must be rules of conduct, but we must understand how to be tolerant, strict with discipline, lenient with others, and do not care about everything, otherwise people will be regarded as a cumbersome and difficult person to get along with

The so-called Five Ancestors Dharma Performance here is not the Five Ancestors of Zen Buddhism, everyone knows that the Five Ancestors of Zen Buddhism are Master Hongren, because the Dharma Performing Zen Master later became the fifteenth abbot of the Dongshan Five Ancestors Zen Temple, a unique thing.

At that time, he operated the Five Ancestors Temple, so it was known as the Five Ancestors Law Performance.

The truth of being a human being is:1. People are always like this, too demanding of those close to them, and too tolerant of strangers.

2. If a person wants to live, he must always be able to do something.

3. When a person is in love, he doesn't need guidance from others.

4. There is no more precious friend in the world than a friend who is both sincere and wise.

5. To achieve a big cause, we must start from small things.

6. Please don't get angry casually, because you can't be right or wrong. I don't know how much you care about him.

7. Having a healthy body is more important than anything else.

8. Now I know that what I am most afraid of is that the person I want to see the most will never see me again in his life.

9. There is right and wrong every day, and if you don't listen to nature.

10. Everyone has imperfections, and they are happy to accept themselves.

11. Whoever works is the master.

12. A person's shortcomings seem to be a continuation of his advantages. If the continuation of the advantages exceeds the limits that should be performed, and the performance is not the right time and not the place, then it will become a disadvantage.

13. Don't talk too much, please think carefully about what you do or say before you say it.

14. There are two things in the world that cannot wait: one is filial piety, and the other is good.

15. Reading a book every day is more meaningful than going out to play.

16. Some things have been lost for too long, and naturally they don't want to have them.

17. Work is actually a very tedious thing, but you can't help but do it.

18. Every profession is not easy.

19. The age is slowly getting older. The courage is getting smaller and smaller, and slowly I don't dare to love.

Don't be in a hurry to make judgments when encountering problems, so that you can be calm in every major event, and avoid impulsiveness making big mistakes.

Use your brain more in everything, look at the essence of things, don't be blinded by appearances, use your brains more when encountering things, think twice before acting, and think twice before speaking.

There are no rules, everything must be done according to the rules of the game, in any era, on any occasion, in any place.

Deal with things calmly and steadily, deal with complicated things simply, and don't complicate simple things. Different things are handled in different ways, as the saying goes, there is a way to succeed, and there is a reason for failure.

To understand the meaning of money, only the part that is spent is really your property, but you must also know that people are heroes, money is courage, and it is difficult for a hero to go everywhere without money.

Treat those who love you with sincerity, never deceive other people's emotions, and know how to be grateful.

To be a tourist in life, be kind to others, convince people with virtue, stay away from the long and short, and rely on the family to be closer, you will have peace of mind and comfort. An optimistic attitude comes from tolerance, from empathy, from being free from the world, and from being rigid if there is no desire.

Be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner. Treat others and things to correct your own status, don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take yourself seriously, everyone in the world is living their own days and moons, you don't have so many audiences.

Look at people and recognize people, people who lie to you once will not give up the second chance to lie to you, don't have any illusions about **.