For high school girls, how to stalk, how to find topics to talk about

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
72 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There's a famous saying that if you talk to the same person about herself, she can go on and on for an afternoon.

    Don't start with yourself, she'll think you're scheming. You have to talk about herself first, don't ask too straightforward and private questions, you can ask her if she has any troubles lately, maybe you can help her solve it or something. If not, tell her some gonzo, but it should be in line with the girl's aesthetic and not too bloody or scary.

    Then ask her about her hobbies. Hobbies are generally a person's specialty, people will be very proud of their specialty, you can talk to her more, but the premise is that you have to understand what her specialty is first, for example, she likes tennis, you have to understand tennis. In the end, you can't just say that if you have behaviors that care about her, it will be good for her.

    The highest level of stalking is to invite you into the urn, not to press step by step. Be polite, not too eager for quick success, slow work can produce fine work.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not really, unless you're a reserved boy and you're not good at expressing yourself. Few of the boys in my class had fuel-efficient lamps.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really like it, you can start by saying hello If the girl likes clothes, praise her dress first, and then use these as topics, if you like to read comics, mention the recent new ones, it's natural to talk about it, and so on")╭

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    From his hobbies, to the things he likes. It's best to talk about each other, you have to have friends who know each other in common, and if one day she will always tell her the troubles and anecdotes of the day, that's pretty much it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You shouldn't have been in a relationship before. First of all, do you really like her? What about her character, etc.? Is she interested in you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How many times do you meet to get to know a person?

    How much turmoil does it take to see a person's heart.

    But for the sake of winning or losing, we don't want to go through a turmoil, so we never get to know someone really well.

    The feelings are flat all the way, and there is no intersection, only parallel.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be vague about some of the things you encountered, most high school students go through similar experiences.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you have to know her, to know her hobbies and interests, prepare some interesting **, start with**, but you can't keep sending pictures, send pictures when the atmosphere is awkward or you feel that you have nothing to say, it's best to have something to do with her hobbies, my brother is a person who came over, and I like to chat with female classmates in high school, hahahaha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Find your common hobbies, such as what you like to eat, what movies you like to watch, what anime you like to watch, what you like to buy, etc., if you have a common hobby, you have a common topic.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You need to be humble, and don't tell her what you think

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Start by talking about their homeroom teacher.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Stupid, find a topic that interests her, what she likes, you won't know.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell me about your school, and you can also talk about what activities you have.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Learn about her interests and find out what interests her. Just talk to her. Or coax her to say.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then talk about learning, or say that you have some problems that you can't solve

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't think about it so much, just start pulling it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he loves you, he likes to talk about anything.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's handsome and nothing to talk about.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Pay more attention to his little things, if necessary, you can stop in moderation, don't embarrass you too much, which will cause girls to dislike you, and you must be eye-catching, but not too crazy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, appearance: dress up, don't be rustic, like a rural person, so that girls will look down on you Second: Speak words and words to respect others' words There is a good saying Respect others and respect them You speak politely and respect others, and naturally others will respect you Girls will have a good impression of you Third, study hard Be a man with capital and have everything A person who doesn't learn countless people fights all day long, girls won't like it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Look at the face era, hair and dress a little trendy, humorous, preferably play basketball cool look, talk about the piano, or can sing, can coax girls.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't talk about love when you're a student, high school classes are too busy to get into an ideal university. To repay your parents for their nurturing grace, don't affect others if you don't go to university.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you must have talent, which is the most attractive to girls! Then there is the high morals and charisma! It's not a question of whether you're handsome or not, you have to look like a man!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    will care about girls, will communicate with girls, will comfort girls, will be handsome, can be humorous, can be funny.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Handsome, rich, good at sports, good at reading, clean, courageous, and righteous.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, in the future, you will find that when you get to university, you can chase as much as you want, and at that time, you have time to study as much as you want, and now, if you can't get into a good school, then, what I said at the beginning, will be in vain.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In high school, I have good grades, good sports, and I can wear clothes.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First, try not to be alone, second, take the initiative to pay for a girl's dinner, and third, pay more attention to what girls like.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At least one aspect should stand out, such as looks, such as playing basketball well, such as studying well, such as being able to wear clothes

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Take the initiative to win the favor of girls, be very good at communicating with people, and be able to joke.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Playing basketball well, writing well, eloquence, and dealing with people well, these points are all done well, and girls prefer .........

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Dressed up and tasteful. Serious, with a little humor. Responsible, harmonious relationship with parents and friends.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Be good to everyone, careful, generous, tolerant, know how to speak, and will not discriminate against some people who are not very good.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Get their attention first, then use humorous words to increase the favor, and then another romantic night to confess.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you are a rich second generation or something, others will value you with this temperament.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Be nice to her, dress cleanly, and behave elegantly.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not good to stalk girls will be annoyed A man's total ink who will be happy To be relaxed and moderate When you should be on it You have to be lustful and indulgent You can't be in a hurry to chase girls You stalk for a while and then let her go for a while You don't pester her anymore He will think why don't you pester her Love is like a handful of sand, the more you try to grab it, the more you can't catch it Remember to be relaxed and give her a sense of freshness Of course, be cheeky It is necessary to take the initiative to speak But don't stalk !!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Oh no, I don't think chasing girls needs to be done like this.

    Dating requires men and women to have a good impression of each other, first, if you do this, how will others see you?

    Second, your image will diminish as you behave.

    Third, thick-skinned people will always be annoying when they do things.

    Fourth, it's not bad to take the initiative, it's about how you use it.

    Fourth, if you want to chase girls without losing your domineering, you must first change your behavior. What you said.

    The true love found by stalking is definitely only in the play.

    The condition must be to be yourself, you have the power to attract, and naturally there are women who are interested in you or add points.

    That way, even if you don't take the initiative to talk to them, they'll come to you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Courage is essential, and speaking is half the battle.

    It's also important to be careful, and to look carefully at what she needs, it's a lot of brain.

    You must also have thick skin, and you can't be discouraged because you are rejected once.

    Finally, the first law of wife search is that lovers are born from the side. Be sure to see each other more often, and eating together will quickly enhance the relationship.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's not good, people are too active, they seem to be impetuous, impatient, and immature.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Okay, opportunities don't wait for anyone, only take the initiative to have a chance, although it can't be said to be 100% successful, but there is always a harvest.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Generally speaking, you can, but some girls don't like guys who talk too much.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Okay, but also if you leave.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    That way people will only hate you more.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There must be an appropriate timing. It's annoying to keep pestering.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's all like this, this is the basic responsibility of chasing girls.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It depends on how you look, how you behave, and whether she feels for you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Accompany her a lot, and fall in love with her for a long time.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Learn to care for her, understand what he wants and what he doesn't want.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's getting more and more annoying, it's better to help, don't always look for it.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    In addition to completing their own study tasks, to enrich their spare time...

    The growth of life is also constantly surpassing oneself! In addition to learning knowledge and skills, we must also recognize our weaknesses and overcome our weaknesses.

    You can try to communicate boldly in a small circle first.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Communication requires transcription.

    Question, especially with people who are not familiar with bai, so there are a few Du points:

    First of all, your own psychology, too shy, afraid of jokes and other dao mentality is the biggest obstacle, first relax yourself, start from the simplest, first say hello to the person you want to communicate, no matter what the occasion, you can simply wave your hand, or nod, or say hello. It doesn't take much action or words. After a few times, the mind will gradually open up.

    Don't care what others say, you just want to say hello.

    Secondly, enrich your horizons, pay attention to several real-time focal points in order to respond to a certain topic, you don't need to participate in the whole discussion, and sometimes you don't need to master the topic to join the topic, just give your own opinions.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Some boys are born with a girl's relationship, but some boys are not.

    So don't look too much at who is good, everyone has their own advantages, people's lives are not absolute, you can't talk to girls now, but it can't be said that it won't be in the future.

    I think it's better to go with the flow!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    First of all, the skin must be thick.

    Secondly, it's not a shame to be thick-skinned, don't care too much about what others think of you.

    Finally, take the initiative to say hello to the girl.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Everything is difficult at the beginning, listen to the topics they talk about, and if you understand, go and talk about it together. But let's be honest, let's talk about interesting things when there is no topic.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I think the premise is that you have a topic to talk to, so that you don't feel embarrassed to talk to her, and you say hello often, so that they will take the initiative to talk to you, and treat you as a friend or a good friend.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Talk to others and try to keep up with other people's topics.

    I have a chance to talk, I am a girl who has been outside her personal life since elementary school answered, and then came to the field in college, met a netizen who said that he is not good at words, the same as you, but I also chatted very hi, so I think your character is on the one hand, more you have to contact extroverted people He will take you interested, so that you can't help but talk, occasionally make a joke, the opposite sex will be more attracted to you, girls like humor, if you don't know how to do it, Just find a girl to talk to more than you can talk to find topics, and slowly you will know how to get along with girls.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    You can't be shy, you're too timid, you have to be tough to chat when you meet girls, and you have to have humor.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If you are more introverted, you can try to talk to the girls around you who grew up, and then slowly change.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Maybe it's because you don't call that girl, but if you meet the kind you like very much, you'll have a lot of conversations. It's true.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    I don't know what to talk about when I talk to guys, except for games and games. If the guy doesn't know how to play games, and I really don't know what to say, you can try to ask the girl about her hobbies, or ask her what zodiac sign, and then if she says it's xx constellation, you can probably say that the personality traits of that zodiac sign or something...

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Any topic can be, life planning, life perception, it is best to have some positive energy stories, and in addition, there must be a sense of humor, just talk and laugh.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Ever-changing, brothers, it's just, or talking about what happens every day. Or some interesting stories from childhood, things from childhood are more resonant.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    For example, ask her what hobbies she usually has, what movies she likes, what she likes to eat, and assume that if the world is over, what would you most like to do.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    When you meet a girl you like, do you have a lot of things you want to say but can't say?

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    Reach out to the opposite sex a lot, and over time it will be.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Look at her interests and do what she likes.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    You can ask the girl what her interests and hobbies are.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    If you have emotional problems, please send a private message to Yu Lian Emotional Su Yu.

  70. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    It's best to reflect your sense of humor, and a lot of girls like guys like you.

  71. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    Don't dwell too much on this, face it with a normal heart, be natural, if you can, it's best to do what you like, take the other party as the center, and say something positive and positive, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort!! I wish you success!! 1

  72. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    In your studies、、、 I wish you early success.

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