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People can't be liked by everyone, as long as the people around them are friendly and kind, it is already a success, friends of friends, not necessarily friends, enemies of enemies, not necessarily friends, but the enemies of friends may be your friends, and friends of enemies may also be your friends, just like the two sides of the river, there must be a bridge to be erected, because there is always a way to integrate and communicate together, someone likes you, and there will be someone who is carefully considering you, of course, there will be no shortage of people who disagree with you.
If each person stands from a different angle and considers different aspects, contradictions and disharmony will appear, and it is not necessarily that they are hated and unaccustomed to it, but just a conflict of thinking.
Hating and disagreeing are very private emotions, and people are selfish after all, if you really hate and can't get used to it, you will directly reduce contact with people and things that make you feel unpleasant, and you will not deliberately contact you just to slander you behind your back. And those who talk about you behind your back are not necessarily hating you or disliking you, they are just expressing their own opinions, and even if they are, you can't stop people's words. Why not be smart?
Do you see that right?
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To do things to this extent, others are not used to it. It's not easy. Be more tolerant, kind, and tolerant.
Relatives don't have to pay attention, after all, it's a little farther away if they are not close relatives. All you need to do is get one of your relatives to speak for you. **If he is elected, he will not be able to have a full vote.
There are several supporters, and it is okay not to isolate.
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Maybe it's just your psychological effect, you may feel that the people around you don't like you, but first of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, and you have to feel like I've done my best, and I've done a good enough job. Say good cheers to yourself!
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There are always some people, they are chirping crookedly when you do everything, but you can't skip eating or sleeping because they chirp, right? There must be personal reasons, but they are the same, who doesn't talk about people behind their backs, they must not be the only ones who can't get used to you.
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First of all, you have to put your mind in shape. Do whatever you think is right, don't care too much about what others think of you.
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For example, if you do something that others are not used to, let us judge whether it is your problem or someone else's problem.
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Is it just one person or is everyone unaccustomed to it? If it's the former, it's not your problem, if it's the latter, then you'll have to find your own reason.
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Your own mentality, in fact, everyone thinks it's still very good! ~
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In fact, you don't have to care about other people's eyes, just be yourself.
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It's nothing, don't care about others, it's enough to be your own with a clear conscience
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Everyone's values, habits, personality, etc., are different, and there are differences in these aspects, and these differences often affect our perception and acceptance of other Danzao people. Here are some of the reasons why we may not be used to looking down on others:
Different values: Everyone has their own values, and when the words and deeds of others are inconsistent with our modest values, it is easy to have contradictions and conflicts.
Differences in behavior: Different cultural backgrounds and social environments shape our behavior habits and behaviors, and there may be behavioral discomfort and disagreement in our interactions.
Personality differences: Personality differences between individuals can also affect how they get along with each other and how they feel, and if two people have very different personalities, there may be communication difficulties or emotional conflicts.
In the face of these differences, we need to keep an open mind, respect the views and behaviors of others, communicate and communicate rationally, and understand and accept from the perspective of the other person. At the same time, we also need to be aware of our own limitations and deficiencies in order to achieve better self-improvement and growth.
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Why can't we see others? It may be because the magnetic field is incompatible, or the three views are incompatible.
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If you don't like others, you have to pick people everywhere because your own realm is not enough.
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In daily work, it is impossible to be smooth sailing, no matter how tired the work is, we must consider how to explain to the leader, but also consider how to make colleagues accept, but these are nothing, arranged, coordinated in place, these will not be a thing, but the following points, no matter how generous you are, no matter how kind you are, few people can accept.
Being denied your abilities by others. I believe that these things, many people have encountered in the work, you have worked hard, tried your best, to complete the work, but others are not optimistic about you, at this time you will not only nest fire, but also make you lose confidence and lose morale. Therefore, once you meet someone who denies your ability, especially your boss and boss, it means that others look down on you, and in their eyes, you are an incapable person.
Being denied your worth by others. I don't remember seeing such a sentence in ** "denying your value is equivalent to denying you as a person", your value does not depend on the negation of others, if you listen to the negation of others, it may ruin your career, and you will keep asking yourself "Are you really in this industry, in this field?" No potential, no value?
In the workplace, you must remember that to measure whether you are worthwhile, is to see whether what you do can bring economic benefits and create benefits. You must firmly believe that "listening to both will be clear, and partial belief will be dark", your value is your decision, and don't let other people's negation control your life.
Being infringed on your interests by others. In daily work, in order to achieve a certain goal, some people with intentions will use some villains' practices to infringe on your interests to achieve themselves. Don't say that you are in pain, at least you can be angry and blushing, the best thing to do at this time is not to quarrel, but to learn some of the articles I wrote earlier about how to deal with villains - go back.
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Well, I didn't get used to it. It's just that I can't get used to seeing others jumping too much all day long.