How to face confusion at the age of 20

There is too much pressure on young people in their twenties to figure out and understand the direction and meaning of their lives. But the reality is that some people in their fifties and sixties do not dare to say that they understand their lives. Therefore, for young people in their twenties, there is really no reason to put too much pressure on themselves early.

If you are in your twenties, I hope you find the following points helpful:

1. Take risks and take the biggest risks.

It's debatable to start going "conservative" at an early twenties, especially if you're debt-free and relaxed. At the age of 20, at such a young age, the first thing you should focus on is the most risky things and behaviors in your life at the moment.

I have found that many young people are depressed because they live a life of "putting the cart before the horse". As soon as they graduated, they found a stable and realistic job for themselves, and they did it generously in front of their parents and friends. In this case, it becomes impractical to get them to quit their jobs, because they need the income from the job to support their high expenses.

If young people in their twenties are no longer looking for a job based solely on income, stability or reality, but are willing to take on a certain amount of risk, it means finding a job based on whether they can make themselves happy. Maybe after you change your standards, you will choose to live in Bali for a year after graduation, or you will start trying to enter a completely different direction and field than what you are currently working in.

2. Between a $12 an hourly job and a $25,000 annual salary, dare to choose the former.

For the people you want to try to be, if you can get the opportunity to work for them for free or at a low salary, then you must seize this opportunity, and on this point, I will never waver. Because if you can get the opportunity to work for the people you admire, then they will "help" you, invisibly improve your level and level, and change your entire career. For example, if your idol is baseball star Alex Rodriguez or rapper Chance the Rapper, and now you get a chance to run their social network** for $12 an hour, there's no doubt that the job is better than a job that pays $52,000 a year.

Be humble, patient, and strategic, don't care what others think of you, and explore the future of life based on your own interests and needs, so that you can create an incredible future for yourself.

At the age of 20, there is confusion, and there is confusion at the age of 30, and we must have a good attitude to face it.

Do you think 20-year-olds and 30-year-olds are confused?

I asked a lot of friends, and they all said that the same thing is, they are all confused!

Another friend said that when I was 20 years old, I was confused, but I would feel that my future was not a dream; At the age of 30, I am confused, but at the same time, I am a little more afraid.

At the age of 20, there is no sense of crisis, and there are many possibilities in the future; At the age of 30, it is slowly set, and there will not be so many opportunities. I would like to say that it is better to be confused than to be a foregone conclusion, after all, confusion also means possibility.

I'm 32 years old this year, and I've experienced both 20-year-old confusion and 30-year-old confusion.

When I was 20 years old, I was in my junior year of college. When I entered my junior year, I felt that I was already the eldest person in the school, and the next year will be my senior year, and I will start to face the major life events of looking for a job. When I think of this, it is as if the blue sky that was still clear just now is suddenly covered with dark clouds and about to rain heavily, and my heart is extremely heavy.

I studied education in a normal college in college, and my future career direction is to become a teacher, so what is there to be confused about?

But what I would be confused about was that I didn't want to be a teacher, I chose this school and major under the "coercion and temptation" of my parents, I didn't like this option, I longed for a job like a translator who could go anywhere. But what I'm worried about is that I can't do it, and what I'm confused about is that I don't know how to go to work, is it a first-tier city in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, or a third- or fourth-tier city near my family?

I am both yearning and afraid of the future, and in short, I am confused! Fortunately, there is a faint voice in my heart saying: Don't be afraid, you are still young, and there are infinite possibilities in the future!