The choice between filial piety and marriage, filial piety and marriage conflict?

I think it's wrong for you, you think, you have to beat your wife at every turn, it's good if he doesn't divorce you, what else do you want, besides, she has to go to work, it's very hard, your mother has nothing to do, do some housework, help you with medicine. You're still sick, and your wife hasn't left you, I think it's already good, anyway, I'm not very optimistic about a man like you. Every morning when we get up, we often see the mop at the door, and it is my mother waiting for us to get up and mop the floor for us!

Can't you get up first? Are there many things you won't do yourself? If you want to heat up the drug, you're not a child yourself, so why don't you do it yourself.

Besides, I don't see anything bad about your wife to your parents.

In fact, for men with high emotional intelligence, filial piety and marriage do not conflict.

Filial piety is the son's business, the daughter-in-law should not be forced, when the mother-in-law feels that the daughter-in-law is not doing well, the son should be the first to stand up and say that he did it, since the son did it, then no matter how bad it is, it can be forgiven, not that I said to her, but she just didn't listen, such a shirk of responsibility will only make the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more acute.

And every once in a while, the son has to take the initiative to tell his mother-in-law what his daughter-in-law has done for her, such as the daughter-in-law saying to give you some money, or buy you something, and after accepting the other party's kindness, he will be embarrassed to say anything.

In front of her daughter-in-law, she naturally has to say more about her mother-in-law praising her.

Women love to listen to good words, even if the mother-in-law says bad things, it is better for the son not to pass on the words, just digest them by himself, and if he must say them, then turn the negative into positive.

For example, our mother said that you have done too much housework recently, too hard, or you are too tired at work, let you rest more, as for the housework, the man can do it by himself a few times, the daughter-in-law sees her husband do this, the mother-in-law is considerate of herself, naturally embarrassed, and will do it, and the mother-in-law sees her son do it, and it is not easy to say anything.

In short, although it is very difficult for a man to be caught in the middle, remember that if you don't say bad things, you must not say them to the other party, and if you want to make a request, you should say it from a positive point of view, not bad words, which will only make things worse.

Filial piety and marriage are not in conflict.

I will choose filial piety, because only by honoring my parents and respecting my elders will the family be harmonious and the relationship between husband and wife will be stable. In our country, marriage does not mean that two people live together, but the integration of two families, so "filial piety" is the pillar of a stable family, if the word filial piety is discarded after marriage, then there will inevitably be many contradictions between husband and wife, so filial piety is very important in a family. And there are three reasons why I chose filial piety.

Marriage and filial piety complement each other, couples and children can only be regarded as a small family, and the family with parents is a complete home, is the big family, if the big family is messed up, then the small family will also be affected,Therefore, when both husband and wife can put filial piety in the first place, the happiness index of the whole family can be doubled. And if both husband and wife can treat each other's parents as their own parents to honor, there will be very few contradictions in this family, because people with filial piety will always put the family first, so such a family is the most harmonious, the happiest, and the most ideal family.

Filial piety determines the upbringing of childrenThe children raised by a loving family are definitely excellent and very educatedBecause children have been exposed to what their parents do since childhood, children will also be responsible and responsible like their parents when they grow up. Therefore, if parents can put filial piety in the first place, it is very important for the growth of children, so based on this consideration, marriage and filial piety are the most important.

Filial piety will make you more respectedIf a person can understand "filial piety", then his (her) life will not be too badBecause such a person can honor his parents and elders at home, and he will definitely respect others outside. And since he (she) can handle the relationship with the elders well, then he (she) will definitely handle the marriage well, and will not put pressure on the other party, so people like this who put filial piety in the first place, whether they are outside or at home, are very respected by others, so compared with marriage, I will be more inclined to filial piety.

I will choose filial piety, because to be a principled person, marriage is a joint decision between you and your lover, but your parents are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, and filial piety makes you better.

I chose marriage, because it is the other half who can accompany me through my life, but my parents can only accompany me half the way, and two people who love each other enough will not make themselves in a dilemma, nor will they let you fail to be filial.

Choose marriage. The only thing that cannot have both with filial piety is divorce, otherwise no act can be an obstacle.

In the face of marriage and filial piety, I will balance marriage and filial piety, and I will be particularly reasonable, without any favoritism.

This is very simple, the elders are willing to help the juniors, the juniors are filial to the elders, and it will be good for everyone to live happily in a family; But if there are conflicts in the family, it is better to keep a certain distance, not only to maintain your marriage, but also to visit during the New Year's holidays.

It depends on the severity of the matter, the situation related to life I will choose my parents, the grace of nurturing is greater than the sky, and the health of the elderly cannot be ignored, but if it is about the difference in the outlook on life of both parties, I will maintain the family.

The difficult choice I found after marriage, in the face of marriage and filial piety, I will not blindly choose one of them, after all, the two are combined, and you have to choose according to the actual situation.

The relationship between daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem in history, and no matter what this man does at this time, it is difficult.

Marry far away, too far away from your parents, and you can't come back for the New Year's holiday.

Both of the above are problems that we may encounter, and mine is now trying to earn money and then raise my parents.

The most important thing in every parent's heart is, of course, their children. As a child, the word "filial piety" comes first, and it is also our unshirkable responsibility and wish. So what is "filial piety"?

It is filial piety to be able to buy clothes and houses for parents with their own ability, it is filial piety to be able to make their parents worry about food and clothing, it is filial piety to smile at elderly parents, it is filial piety to listen to the nagging of elderly parents, it is filial piety to accompany parents, and it is filial piety to be patient and intimate with parents. In short, filial piety has a variety of manifestationsThe greatest manifestation of filial piety is to make parents feel at ease and at ease. Children's stability and happiness are the greatest wishes of parents.

The beginning of marriage may be because of love, but the essence of marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Love can be a matter for two people, while marriage is a matter for two families. Whether you are marrying someone or marrying someone, it is not only the other person who you have to accept and adapt, but the sum of all the social relations of the other person.

It is often said that marriage is the second "reincarnation", and a good marriage will nourish people and make people better and better. And a bad marriage will only consume each other. A suitable marriage may not be the best you imagined, but the right marriage must be a practical life.

A family is prosperous and everything is prosperous, and a suitable marriage will definitely be based on "harmony", and only when a family is stable and harmonious in the backyard can it have the possibility of moving forward. A suitable marriage will have less quarrels and fights, and more excitement and tranquility; A suitable marriage will save people a lot of tears and increase a lot of laughter; The right marriage will give you a little more smile on your face and will make your brow less tight. A suitable marriage will be more eyebrow-raising, and there will be more discussion, rather than disputes, prevarication, and accusations; A suitable marriage will have fewer chickens and dogs, and chicken feathers.

A suitable marriage is not necessarily to exchange mobile phone passwords with each other, but it must be with you, I feel at ease。I believe everything you say. Believing in you is like believing in myself.

With you everywhere, you are at ease, and when your heart is at peace, your parents' hearts will be at peace.

Some people think that this is the way to get along, but I don't agree with this, children's marriage has nothing to do with filial piety, parents should not interfere, should bless their children.

A suitable marriage means that there will be few possible contradictions between each other, and the values between the two are similar, they can get along in harmony, and the harmony and stability of the family is the greatest filial piety to their parents.

Choosing the right marriage, mutual respect and love in life rarely have contradictions, so that parents will not worry about our children. They will also live very happily in their old age.

If your marriage is more suitable, there will be no contradictions between the two people, then as parents, you will not worry about you, worry about you, only let your parents worry, is their filial piety.