I found that my boyfriend was having an affair with someone else while dating him

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's talk to him first.

    If it is true.

    If you think it's worth it.

    You can give him a chance.

    After all, it's not easy for two people to be together.

    If you don't think it's worth it.

    Just give up. He doesn't value you.

    That's his loss.

    We can love ourselves more.

    Fate has arrived. Your own happiness will come.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If there is no single-mindedness.

    It's better not to talk about it at all.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not worth listening to me, I'm from the past, it's yourself who suffers, it's yourself who suffers, it's better to let go, choose better, cherish your own, at least you won't betray Feelings are loyalty, without loyalty, it's going to be very hard, and everyone will suffer!! Don't say you can't let go, that's an excuse, forgiveness will only make him more uncherished, more unscrupulous.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone should have a little bit of their own personal space. Talk to him. If they're really friends, don't mind, and if he can't explain it clearly, forget it. At this point, you should be able to feel the change he has made to you. I wish you happiness!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's separate! After a long time, you will not be able to let go. Besides, such a person is not worth paying for him at all, and it is not worth being nostalgic anymore!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Men's concentration in this area is already very poor. The difference between good and bad lies in whether there is a sense of responsibility, and a person like your boyfriend who is irresponsible for his feelings is not worth entrusting for life, and the longer it drags on, the deeper the damage will be. Find someone who is willing to treat you wholeheartedly and give your love again!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This man's man is not worth paying his affection for, nor is it worth being nostalgic, so leave

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not worth it, do you think he can be entrusted for life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What do you think? However, it cannot be ruled out that sometimes it is unintentional. Let's see if he's good to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you should have a good family talk with him and see his attitude, because the last thing a man deserves to believe is a lie, he can lie to you once, and he can lie to you n times.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on whether you love your boyfriend or not, whether he is worthy of your love for him, and whether you will be sad and sad if you lose him.

    Choose carefully, but I still hope you leave him, a person who is attentive will be attentive for a lifetime.

    Nature is hard to change...

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For this kind of thing, you must be calm.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since he's made all the choices, I think you should pretend you don't know, and if you continue, he's wrong, after all, he's corrected, and it's worth forgiving.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men are biological animals.,It's not strange to do this kind of thing.,Especially a man with strong blood.,If you can tolerate it, you can tolerate some genera.,If you really can't bear it.,The method said on the first floor is not impossible.,If you can do it.,Of course, there's another way to choose to leave him.,But if you want to do that.,,It's estimated that you won't post to solve your troubles.。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It can also occur after marriage, and the solution is to end the separation of the two places.

    Otherwise, just break up, the relationship can't be realistic, and you are destined to separate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Men steal fishy normal! But if you are a perfectionist, this stain will follow you for a long time or a lifetime, so you weigh it! If you can pass your own level, then forgive him If you can't pass it, then break up, and save more harm in the future!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you can tolerate it, continue with him, and if you can't bear it, you will break up, and people can't only love one person in this life When it's serious, it's too late.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Needless to ask, you have been betrayed, so just one word: leave.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love and sex can be viewed separately in some cases.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's still up to you to bear it, if you really love, forgive me, but let me go, I'll stay away from him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Give him a chance, but only once.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You also have a body deal to see if he can accept it and not joke.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This kind of man can't want.

    That's it for now.

    What a treat to you when you're married.

    Just learn to forget about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Take a knife and hack him to death to relieve the hatred in your heart!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's me, I don't want him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Men are all the same.

    It's up to you to accept it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Take a step back and open the sky, there is no need for this.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't get along with him for old age and death, so that your family will be happy, tell your husband about it, and make your husband feel that you love him and respect him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really love him, you can talk to him, after all, it is not easy to find a true person, youth is not eternal, don't delay yourself, in my opinion, your boyfriend does not know contentment, you really love him. But there is still a reason for this, since he is hiding it from you, maybe he doesn't really like you, and wants to try to find someone who loves him more and he loves more. Such a man belongs to the immature category, it is recommended to talk to him and ask him if he thinks he is mature enough?

    Have you fulfilled your responsibilities as a man? Part of the reason may be you, it may be that you have neglected him recently, lack of care and consideration, this is also the responsibility of women, men are like this, if you are very good to him, he will rely on you and cannot do without you. It is possible that he has another woman who knows how to be a woman better than you this time, and if you do it properly, he will find that it is still better for him to communicate with other women, so he will settle down.

    There is also a kind of man who purely belongs to the heart of the flower, this kind of man is actually very pitiful in life, and the existence of this kind of man is harmful to the happiness of other men, so that those who want to love dare not love, and those who want to talk dare not talk. In fact, don't think so badly of all men, it's just that there is a lack of communication between you and a lack of understanding of each other. If he doesn't really like you or is a pure man, don't hesitate to leave her immediately, keep your youth, and find one.

    Note: Women need to find someone who truly loves you, and men need to find someone who they truly love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If he really loves you, he won't be dating you and other girls at the same time, don't believe such a man! Men say one thing and another behind their backs, don't fully believe it, such a man is not worthy of your liking at all, leave him very quickly.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ghost only believes, let the man with a heart die, they will always be retributed, women must have backbone, there are many good men.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't believe it. If I really love you. How can you pedal two boats?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, you've known him for a short time, and you don't know who he is. Moreover, those who met online did not have common friends or common social circles. It's hard to really understand him.

    Maybe he's married, and you don't understand. It is recommended not to contact it. If you really want to get married, it's safer to introduce yourself to a friend.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Resolutely let go, how many feelings can be known online, and there are many sincere people online.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Touching with heart is nonsense, because of the family environment, dating history, cultural differences and other reasons, everyone has different principles in this regard, love and marriage, can only adapt and tolerate a person, it is impossible to change who wants to change, even if it is temporarily effective, it is only a bigger landmine.

    Ask yourself if you can accept her approach, continue, if not, end, or play as a different character.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Absolutely not! Believe me, I've met women like this before, and I finally chose to give up! Later it turned out that I made the right choice! After she was with that man, she was with another man at the same time!

    I repeat, this kind of woman can't be wanted! How can a woman who is not single-minded want it?!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course I can't accept it, love is a matter of two people, the family orders a person and a man, your girlfriend knows that it is impossible to entangle with that person and not take into account your feelings, she is both cheap and disrespectful to you, she doesn't love you at all, why should you be sad for this kind of woman? Long pain is better than short pain, so you should turn back to the shore as soon as possible.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can't have such a woman, so let's give it up!! Although you may feel reluctant, she hurts you far more than the pain you lose her! Let's separate!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I advise you to give up, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, she and her boss must have a plan, she should be a selfish person, just like what was said upstairs. If you want to avoid harm, give up. Unless you can give her everything she wants.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course you can't ask for it! She is an unscrupulous person for the sake of the end! She loves only herself!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It depends on whether your girlfriend has a scale problem

    First of all, yes you have to give her space because everyone is free, and if your girlfriend does something sorry for you, then it's better not to maintain your relationship!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Resolutely don't, what you can't give up is your love in your heart, look at him, it's not for you, he wants to gain and lose, and he wants to be rich

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Think about it calmly, give her a little time, and maybe she'll understand. She is actually very conflicted and painful. She herself knows that it will be fruitless to talk to that boss, so she is unwilling to give up on you, give her a chance, and give you a chance. I think you can reconcile!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Such a woman still has to say, of course I don't want it, because such a woman will hurt you in the end, believe me, break up with her quickly.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    An affair?? What is the concept of your affair???

    She's her boss's lover?

    Or something else??

    Maybe you misunderstood her.

    Maybe the relationship between you and her boss, ordinary bosses and subordinates may be that you care too much about her.

    Thinking too much. If it's really to the extent that she and her boss go out to open a room, I think you might as well give up as soon as possible...

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Brothers! Are you a gentleman?

    She's cuckolding you!?

    You marry her as a wife, and when you have children, don't forget to do a paternity test. The provincial helpers raised their sons!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't, if you want it, don't ask for it, just play with her.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't have any illusions, you can't ask for it! Otherwise you will be miserable for the rest of your life.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Do you still need to ask what to do with this kind of boyfriend, since you found out that he was cheating on you, and you also found out that he was having affairs with multiple women at the same time, and before you found out, he kept pointing out that everything was your fault, this kind of person is a feeling**, it should be said that he is a scumbag, in this case you should decisively choose to break up with him, and at the same time remind other girls if possible. What's even more terrifying is that you also find out that he has violated the law, since he dares to break the law, then what else will he not dare to do in the future. Therefore, I advise you to fight against him immediately to avoid more troublesome things in the future.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you're a girl, let your dad stay with you, or your brother with you, or your relative's brother with you. Do they know what these men are going to do? Men understand men's psychology best.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Call the police directly, there is no need to be soft-hearted.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    How to do it depends on your own decision, and I personally think it should be done officially. How to do it depends on your own decision, and I personally think it should be done officially.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Does a person like him have self-esteem? Why save face for him? Why feel guilty? Kicking him straight up is not worth your nostalgia.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Let me say what is good about you?

    If you have a high realm, you will disappear directly from his sight, and even the sentence I don't love you is redundant!

    If ordinary people scolded him, they would scold him, and then blackmail him in various ways to have a good time.

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