Should I focus on my career, or should I listen to my parents and get married early

In fact, you can do many things when you are young, including getting married, but it depends on what you are pursuing, whether it is a warm haven from work fatigue, or the joy of a good harvest when your career is successful, you are not very old, only 23 years old, I just graduated from college at the age of 23, so you are not at the age when you have to get married, you can talk to your family, I believe they can understand.

It is best to marry with a person you love, in fact, this feeling of heart collision is the most precious, don't force yourself, let alone delay others.

I'm a girl who advises you to focus on your career, you're still young. Emotional things are unavoidable, maybe you will inadvertently meet someone who will stay with you for a lifetime when you are busy with your career, if you listen to your parents to get married first, maybe you will regret it when you have a successful career.

I'm also facing this problem, the salary is not high, and I want to wait for the job to be on the right track, that is, to talk about love after it has stabilized. In my mind, it costs a lot of money to get married, and if you work like us, there will definitely not be any successful woman who wants to marry me, so you can only find a girl who is similar to yourself, get married and have children, children's education, firewood, rice, oil, salt... At that time, it was not a matter of one person, but a family matter, facing parents, wives, sons, and wife's parents, we had to bear too many responsibilities, if we got married hastily, I think it would be bad for these people, and they would definitely be too tired to live.

After the age of 30, the standard of marriage will be difficult.

At that time, it will be not a career but a marriage.

Contradictory yes. People just want to be plain, if they want to fight their own world, it is also very solid to have the silent support of a virtuous wife.

As for the mind without the concept of marriage, it will affect the career in the process of thinking before marriage, so you should consider it carefully.

After all, your parents will respect your opinion.

Hahaha, I don't bother, I'm still a child.

Personally, I believe that men's careers come first.

When I was young, I didn't go to see the outside world of flowers, and when I got married, I had more limitations.

There are a lot of things to worry about.

The elders should convince it.

Of course, both things are important, you can fall in love while working, it's not that you only fall in love and don't work, and then these two are not wrong, haha

When love conflicts with career, it is advisable to choose a career.

Now is the time when love and career matter!

Pity all the men in the world, including me, and hope that everyone can find their own belonging!!

I'm only 23 years old, so I'm not in a hurry to get married, just play for a few more years if I can.

Everyone depends on the situation, and if someone is willing to work hard after the rear is settled, they will choose to start a family first. Otherwise, after a certain amount of achievement in your career, you are thinking about lifelong events. If you reach a certain age, have no career success, and are more embarrassed, you will basically have an unhappy marriage.

For before, after a man's career has achieved a certain amount, there will be a woman. If the man treats her well, and the other half he chooses is also a down-to-earth life, then go back to the wedding hall. That is, it is better to have a career first and a family later.

In the past, the premise of starting a family first was "the words of the matchmaker of the parents", and most of the reasons for starting a family came from the supervision of the parents. But now, many people are willing to have a career before considering starting a family, and if they have a wife and children, they will be fettered.

The so-called thirty and standing, is to build a family first, in the establishment of a career, the rear behind the man is unstable, how to talk about starting a business, I think with a stable family, men will rest assured to break into their own careers. Although career is also very important for a man, if he succeeds, how can he be happy, let alone happy.

Although as a man should focus on the career, but it does not affect the management of a happy family, can not always be the cause of the prevarication of the family does not pay attention to the family, men as an important part of the social system, but also the pillar of the family, to deal with the relationship between the two.

A man with no economic foundation, even if he gives a woman all the love she can do, it is still not enough to move a woman for a lifetime. Sometimes, a man's love needs to be escorted by an economic foundation, and this economic ability is also one of the best ways for a man to bring a woman's sense of security.

In fact, sometimes I think there is nothing wrong with starting a family first and then starting a business, if you want to focus on your career, then wouldn't it be better to have someone with you?

In fact, which one is very important, that is, to see what you met first, if you met your career first, the development in this area is not bad, and it is on the rise, don't interrupt him because of marriage, if your career is not very energetic, you can find a partner while doing it. Not contradictory.

I think that if you have a career and then a family, if you have a career and get married, the quality of your family will be very high, if you don't have a career, after you get married, you have to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, then the quality of life is definitely not high.

Personally, I think that career is more important than family before marriage in career, only if the career is stable and there is an economic foundation, then there is not so much pressure when it comes to the object, at least there will be no economic pressure, now many people have unstable jobs and want to get married or something, the room is a kind of irresponsibility to each other, but after marriage, it is still necessary to focus on the family.

If you reach a certain age, it is best to take care of marriage and career, and many people are delayed because of their careers. When we are older, it can be a little difficult to educate or raise children.

Both are very important.,I think it's better to stabilize your work first.,When the time comes, there won't be less people looking for a partner.,I'm so good I'm still afraid of finding a partner?,Now it's excellent.,The future life will be good.。

According to what you think, I feel that people live a lifetime, or according to their own ideas, if you want to start a family, if you want to have a career, then concentrate on your career, and then fall in love when you have money.

I think you should start a business before starting a family, you will face a lot of problems after getting married without a certain foundation, and you don't need to worry about the financial problems of the two after you get married with your own career foundation.

Don't let other people's persuasion sway your heart, if you don't meet the person who makes you want to get married, then don't get married, because you get married for the sake of marriage, and you will harm others and yourself.