Children are poked in love, how can parents enlighten them

The first thing to do is to affirm her charm, tell him that she is the most beautiful or handsome, and let the child have confidence in himself. Can't let him feel like she's a failure in terms of relationships, and that will have a psychological shadow.

There are many reasons why people who are in love can't be together, maybe fate feels that each other is not ready, and the person who is really suitable for him is growing up and becoming mature like a child in a corner, and then fate will arrange for them to meet, love and know each other. Before that, every love is an emotional experience, and after being sad and sad, the child will know how to cherish the next love.

Parents should also make it clear that you will always be there for your child and encourage him. Of course, you can't say too much bad things about the person who makes your child sad, because it will make your child feel that everything you say is to comfort her and him, rather than an objective evaluation, and it will be difficult for the child to believe what you say. If your child still has feelings for that person, the effect is even worse.

Hope mine can help you, I am very enthusiastic about children's education issues and will follow up on your possible supplementary questions, good luck.

Tell him (her):

What the other party loses is you who loves him (her), and what you lose is he (her) who doesn't love you.

Obviously, he (she) has lost a lot, and you haven't met the most suitable person for you, don't worry. ”

Personally, I think that the main thing about a child's education is to learn to be strong.

The family is very harmonious, which makes me think that Lian Xun Zheng Ai is sweet, there is nothing to think about, simple, sweet love. It is always believed that how well the parents of the original family get along in marriage will deeply affect whether the children's "view of marriage and love" is optimistic or pessimistic. Children of families whose parents get along harmoniously will be more expectant, optimistic and confident in marriage and love. On the contrary, when children grow up, they are prone to fear of marriage and love, and suspicion and anxiety about their other half.

The "disharmony of the relationship between husband and wife" will cause young children to be full of hostile "beliefs" when establishing "intimate relationships", and it will be difficult for them to form a "cooperative with others" mentality when they grow up, and it will also be difficult to have "emotional intelligence ability" and deal with "intimate relationships" well. At the same time, there are many "giant baby parents" who often "morally kidnap" their children. First of all, the original family may cause children to be sensitive, inferior, and unconfident, and easy to form an extreme character, and there are two extremes in love, one is to have an overly cautious attitude, dare not try, and it is difficult to accept the kindness of others, easy to self-doubt, self-denial.

The other is to be too lax, want to get affirmation from love, get love, and fall in love frequently.

1. Don't lose your temper, some parents are very short-tempered, and when they learn of this situation, they will yell at their children and use their parents' identity to suppress their children. In fact, this approach has no effect at all, the child has reached this age, and he is not eating a set, and losing his temper will only make the child more rebellious. 2. Don't peek at your child's diary, some children like to write their feelings and their little secrets in the diary.

Parents must not peek, once the child finds out, the relationship will be very stiff, and the child may deliberately go against the parents and deliberately confront the parents. 3. Take the initiative to communicate with the child, if you find that the child has signs of early love, directly take the initiative to communicate with the child. But be sure to pay attention to the way you speak, and the way you phrase it.

Because the child at this time is very sensitive, he is not only afraid of the scolding of his parents, but also afraid of feeling embarrassed. 4. Make an agreement with the child, at this time, you should treat the child as an adult, and talk to the adult way. You can negotiate with your child that if something achieves the desired effect of your parents, such as academic performance and admission to a certain university, you will give your child some freedom, which can be regarded as a delaying tactic.

Summary. 1.In the process of educating children in early love, parents should show respect and understanding for their children; 2.You can educate your child in a gentle way; 3.Parents need to educate their children to properly handle the relationship between boys and girls, and to establish a positive and healthy relationship with the opposite sex.

In the process of educating children in early love, parents should show respect and understanding of their children, grasp the way of talking with their children, constantly embody the "child-centered", and give full play to their children's initiative. Depending on the characteristics of the child, different strategies are adopted. But in this process, as a parent, you should pay attention to the way of education, and don't let your children feel that you are breaking them up.

Make your child feel that you are helping him or her and make him aware of his or her love problems.

You can educate your child in a gentle way; It's not that all puppy love is harmful, as long as puppy love is handled well, it can create "synergy power". In this case, not only will it not affect learning, but there will be greater improvement in grades.

What parents should do about the question of their children's love.

1.In the process of teaching children who are suspicious of early love, parents should show respect and understanding of their children; 2.You can educate your child in a gentle way; 3.

Parents need to educate their children to properly handle the relationship between boys and girls, and to establish a positive and healthy relationship with the opposite sex. In the process of educating children in early love, parents should show respect and understanding of their children, grasp the way of talking with their children, constantly embody the "child-centered", and give full play to their children's initiative. Depending on the characteristics of the child, different strategies are adopted.

But in this process, as a parent, you should pay attention to the way of education, and don't let your children feel that you are breaking them up. Make your child feel that you are helping him or her and make him aware of his or her love problems. You can educate your child in a gentle way;

It's not that all puppy love is harmful, as long as puppy love is handled well, it can produce "synergy". In this case, not only will it not affect learning, but there will be greater improvement in grades.

But if you don't handle it well, it will seriously interfere with learning, because when you fall in love, your heart will involuntarily think of him (her), because you think about the person you like all day long, naturally you don't have much heart to study, feel that as long as there is him (her) in your life, it will be difficult to concentrate in class. Let the child clearly understand the dangers of early love, and use reason to overcome this immature feeling. Every adolescent boy and girl, with the gradual maturity of physiology, will have interest in classmates of the opposite sex, and hope to understand them and associate with them, which is a normal psychological phenomenon.

It is necessary to educate children who have early love thoughts not to be overly sensitive, not to think that the opposite sex is kind to you is in love, and not to express love to others at every turn. Parents need to educate their children to correctly handle the relationship between early love and normal interaction between boys and girls. It is to build a positive and healthy relationship with the opposite sex.

If you are in early love, you can't stop it too harshly, because you will force the opposite, you have to take your time and prescribe the right medicine, as long as his academic performance does not decline and his character does not deteriorate, there is basically no problem.

It's okay to be in love, but you have to tell him that you must first have the ability to love someone, and no one will follow one.

The version has no right to do anything.

In order to be qualified to love someone, they must study hard and find a job that can support themselves and their families. (Don't talk about it from an educational point of view, when the child is older, it's better to treat it as a man in the family and talk freely on an equal footing.) ）

Love is bai

What a good thing, for du

What else is there to "educate" him?! It's hard to say that you forgot how you felt when you fell in love as a teenager? Your son now has a girlfriend, that doesn't mean he's attractive!

We just need to tell the child the innocence of love, let him be responsible for his love, and teach them sexual knowledge (this must be done by parents, and the school will not teach him this), as long as we stay away from sex, children's love is very beautiful! I really don't understand why these schools and parents should oppose early love, children in Western countries, if they haven't been in love in high school, their parents have to worry about their charm and sexual orientation, our old Chinese society, girls become mothers at the age of fifteen or sixteen, and there is no such thing as "early love". I really don't understand, you all learned these things from **.

Actually, to put it bluntly! If he's a junior high school student now, let him talk! Then you tell him that it's okay to fall in love, but you have to study hard, and when he tries to fail the high school entrance examination, he will know that the mistake is **! When the time comes, just educate him!

I think it's better to communicate with him rationally and help him analyze the pros and cons. Zhi every child has reached a certain time.

There will be someone you like or have a crush, and you should guide him well and let him deal with it correctly. My brother was in love at that time, my method was not to tell his parents, nor to suppress him, as long as he can handle the study and emotional things, he is qualified to do what he wants, that girl will occasionally chat with me, I will also listen to her patiently about their affairs, in fact, I think children are sometimes more sensible than we imagined.

Children in the adolescent period are eager for love, this attack is very common, if you use bai to force the hand to stop, this may bring harm to them, it is not good for their growth, it is better to let the children explore the pros and cons by themselves. As a parent, what you should show when facing this is to understand and tolerate your child, and don't let your child get farther and farther away from you.

Let him go if you're in love, and sooner or later it will be anyway.

But you have to tell him to take care of his studies!

You can't talk to plagiarism in a tone of lessons, but you must be calm, just like a friend talking to your heart, and you must stand in a friend's perspective and persuade him (or her) from his (her) standpoint. Let him (or her) calm down and think about what's wrong with being in love.

In fact, I am a child and I don't know much, but I know that it is very common for children to like each other, but they don't know what love is. If your child is older, he should be assertive, and it won't work for you to go head-to-head with him, maybe it's good to let him (or her) taste the hardships. But it's much easier if your child is very young, because he (or she) doesn't understand what liking is at all and mistakenly thinks that the little affection he has for her (or her) is like.

You just need to tell him (or her) that love is a mutual relationship, long-term together, two people care for each other, protect each other, and can go through any hardships together to be happy together, and that kind of love, only when you grow up can you feel it, the most important thing now is to study, otherwise, if you don't study well, what's the use of being handsome and beautiful. (Don't ask me how old I am, because I'll tell you, I'm in my natal year, so I should be 12).

I advise you not to erase the good memories of your children.