Why is the human heart always so sinister? How complicated is the world? A good friend is not a good

Maybe you are not the only one who has thought about it, everyone will encounter this kind of unpleasant thing on the road of life, but to learn to solve, flexible, I believe that no matter what people do, there is a reason, good and bad are the same, if this reason can convince me, even if you do bad things, you can forgive, because you understand so tolerant, as long as you understand, what sinister and complex will disappear, all this not only to see the surface, but also to see the essence, but no matter how sage people, you will also encounter a few bad people, If it's the essence of the bad, you don't have to be angry, it's yourself who is angry, it's someone else who succeeds, the important thing in this process is to distinguish between right and wrong, in fact, everything is in your heart, as long as you know in your heart, in the face of betrayal, in the face of danger, you will be calm, think about the world simply, and you won't be tired, everything is in your own hands!

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, good friends are simpler than love because you can be friends just because you appreciate each other's strengths, everyone is different.

Have your own bottom line.

Yes or no.

It's hard to find a balance.

Measure who is giving more or less.

Since you chose him, she is your good friend.

You just have to be yourself.

Do your own bottom line.

Reservations are complicated and not complicated.

Most of them are just to fulfill their own wishes.

Because true people do not perish for their own sake.

You just need to know what the other person wants.

Help him get you to be his best friend.

See how much he's worth your effort.

A good friend is not a good friend, the key is how you look at it.

This is the status quo that none of us can change. Whether you call it sinister or say it's beautiful, it's there.

The key is your heart, how to treat people you consider good friends.

Even if he doesn't treat you as a good friend, it doesn't matter, the world is so big, you are not my good friend, there will be other good friends who are worthy of my sincere dedication, it's as simple as that.

I also thought this was the case when I went to college, but even then I had to socialize with people, not too many friends, only one or two confidants, so if I wanted good friends, one or two would be fine, and if others were bad, we would be bad, but don't forget our sincerity.

Time will make us see the durability of friendship, so don't be sad, keep a little distance between friends, and occasionally be intimate and occasionally negligent, maybe you can maintain friendship.

Kindness! I feel the same way!

However, we still have to maintain the innocence and purity in our hearts, and just be ourselves.

I'm sure you'll make real like-minded friends!

Socially compelled to have their own needs and means of use.

The reality is cruel, but don't look at the world with hatred, maybe this friend has done something bad, but have a tolerant heart to tolerate her.

No, we have to believe that there will be good people, as long as we have good hearts.

Friends, probably can only be measured by interests!

Human beings are too complicated, isn't there an idiom: people's hearts are unpredictable, people's hearts are not ancient, and people's hearts are separated from the belly.

In a wide world, there are complex human hearts.

How complex the human heart is, how unpredictable the thoughts.

Don't dwell on other people's emotions, don't torture yourself with others.

Everyone's world is given by themselves.

If you see through it, in fact, the world is clear.

Thank you for this time, which taught me how to calm the turmoil and forbearance.

Thank you for the time that taught me how to walk safely in this world.

It has been said that in a sense, what is in a person's heart, what he sees. The notes of the Song people recorded the story of Su Shi's relationship with Buddha Yin. Su Shi is a great talent, and Buddha Yin is a high monk, and the two often participate in Zen and meditate together.

Foyin is honest and always bullied by Su Shi. Su Shi is sometimes very happy to take advantage, and when he goes home, he likes to tell his talented sister Su Xiaomei. One day, the two meditated together again.

Su Shi asked: What do you look like me? Buddha Yin said:

I see you like a Buddha. Su Shi laughed after hearing this, and said to Buddha Yin: Do you know what I see you sitting there like?

It's like a pile of cow dung. This time, Foyin suffered a dumb loss again. Su Shi went home and showed off this matter in front of Su Xiaomei.

Su Xiaomei sneered and said to her brother, as far as your understanding is concerned, what do you know about Zen people? It's seeing the heart, and you have it in your heart. The Buddha Yin said that if you look like a Buddha, it means that he has a Buddha in his heart; You say that the Buddha seal is like cow dung, think about what you have in your heart!

The heart is more complex than the brain?! The human heart is the sum of the senses and the mind; The complexity of people is exponential, but it can be simple or complex, and the most afraid of being complex should not be complicated, and simple should not be simple;

are all complicated, or the human heart is the most complicated.

The world is chaotic. The human heart is sinister.

The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, you only see the dark side, you don't see the sunny side, don't be discouraged, life is beautiful,

The actions of certain people do not represent the actions of one race.

The world is still very good.

I'm sure not everyone is crowding you out.

There are people who love you overall.

But before that.

If you run away from the world.

If you don't believe in the world.

Why does the world give you happiness?

Please keep smiling.

Facing everyone.

I hope you still have the courage to smile.

Study hard, don't care about other people's eyes, let them say, if you bloom, butterflies love to come, when you become excellent, everything will be better, and then you will stay away from garbage people, people with real moral cultivation will not be like this, they will care more about the feelings of others. I wish you better and better, come on!

In short, the sinister human heart is not only due to personal factors, but also to the influence of unhealthy world practices.

Don't worry too much about external influences, it doesn't matter if others look at it, what matters is how to do your best.

Endure humiliation and be indignant, this is the key to inspiration.

Heroes don't ask where they come from, once you succeed, it's the best proof of yourself.

Some of the boys are really naughty;

Don't pay too much attention to what they say, if you care, you will fall for their tricks;

High school is an important period for facing the university entrance examination, so don't be general for these people who have no ambitions;

Applaud your efforts and keep it up, good.

You are too inferior, and poverty is not your fault. They are actually children, they have no sinister intentions, they just like to use others as jokes, and most of the Chinese are like this. Don't adults still like to watch other people's jokes, deliberately persuade and force people to drink, and when people get drunk and look foreign, they laugh?

You don't have to be upset, they are jealous of you, which means that you are better than them. You study hard, go to university in the future, and then find a good job, and you are jealous of them.

This story tells us that there is a use for reading, and there is a waste of money and spiritual baptism.

Go your own way! Don't care what others think! Only make yourself stronger! Only then can we really get rid of the world's eyes! I hope you will work harder!

Did you encounter any difficulties?

Bad guys can't die, so you need to face up to the problem and change your mentality. Their purpose is to provoke you and annoy you, so why do you want them to achieve their goal? So for the sake of a group of people who don't know and don't care, why bother to break God?

So many people you love don't have time to pay attention to and love, don't let others punish you for their mistakes, and don't let other people's boredom disturb you. Adjust your mindset and focus on what makes sense, use your success to silence them completely, and when they feel out of reach of you, they'll disappear. Hehe.

Remember that you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people!

That's what this society looks like now.

Be careful in the future.

Bless you!

It can only be said that you haven't found a good friend yet, people's hearts are sinister, you must be careful in the rivers and lakes, there are still good ones, you, in the future, you must know that these people should stay away and avoid them, this kind of thing is still very good, with a lesson, next time you will be cautious.

Walking in the rivers and lakes, these experiences are not the experience of your life.

I feel more and more the complexity of society, and the more I think about it, the more terrible it becomes, what messy pictures are intertwined in my mind, chaotic!

Brother Li Yu, I have to borrow your sentence to express my mood at this time: "Cutting constantly, rationalizing and messing, it's society"!

The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds! "Society is complicated, everyone and everything!

In this way, your own naivety and innocence will become more and more obvious, and this kind of society will not allow you to be simple. "Things are natural selection, survival of the fittest," simple people are destined to be harmed. What a contradiction!

Simplicity --- imply that you can have a good time, but you will get hurt; Mature --- can relatively avoid some harm, but psychological vigilance will make life a lot more colorful. This phenomenon can be said to be a contradiction caused by the complexity of society.

Alas, such a society makes people too insecure. I think this "sense of security" will become another "lack of resources" in the new century.

People's hearts are inherently very sinister, for example, girlfriends betrayed, and then they still told others everywhere, and stabbed them in the back, and they also disliked people who were ugly on the surface and had a very kind heart, as well as people who worshiped money, looked down on people who had no money, looked down on the poor, looked down on rural people, and laughed at people without money, so people's hearts are like this.

People want to adapt to the current material era and want to gain a foothold in society! Then you have to learn to treat different people or things differently and see them differently! Learn to play different roles!

Make yourself sleek and sophisticated! Social rereality! No matter how sinister the human heart is, so what!

Laugh it off! You're ruthless, I'm more ruthless than you! You're sinister, I'm more insidious than you!

You are kind, I am kinder than you, and the grace of dripping water will be reciprocated by a spring! Doubling the way of others to the body of others! Others are good to you, you are doubly good to others!

If others treat you badly, you can tolerate it three times first! People must know how to be grateful and forgiving! But there should be a degree of tolerance!

If he doesn't know each other, he'll die! It's just my principle of being a man! If you are satisfied, take it! Thank you!

Because everyone in the world deserves to die.

No, as long as you are kind, everyone has a kind side, they are not innate, they are all nurtured by other people's words, as long as you pass on kindness to others, do your best, I believe everyone will be infected by you.

Don't ask for flowers like danqing, only wish flowers to fill the garden with fragrance. Don't expect too much, you won't be disappointed! Be yourself, understand is maturity!

When you start to wonder if he really loves you, it means that he doesn't love you anymore. It's like if you're sitting around a fire, you don't think about what warmth is.

Besides, there are some things in this world that are not clear, and it is better. It's sad to be clear, just look at the point, everyone will experience these things.

What kind of friends have you made, not what you think.

This society is a big dye vat ... No matter how simple a person is, as long as he enters this big dye vat, he will be dyed. Because, it's to protect yourself. Otherwise, it will be eliminated.

Now no matter how complicated the human heart is, it is useless, simplicity is good, and there are many things that those complicated people can't feel. Anyone who is simple understands it!

It is precisely because many people will have such thoughts and cannot insist on self-assimilation, and this "environment" precisely reflects their own "state of mind".

You can live a simple life, but you can't expect others to be like you. Because the world is different in everyone's eyes, and everyone's understanding of happiness is also different. You think society is complicated, maybe it's just that you're too simple.

You want to live a simple life, maybe you just can't live as complicated as others.

Physiology determines psychology, and humans are not single-celled animals, so how can they be so simple.

Why not change your perspective, change your vision, why can't you live a simple and simple life when others are sinister, just for yourself and not about others.

Simple but not naïve, mature but not sophisticated, indifferent to the world, complex and simple.