My husband hit me for the second time! I started beating my husband first, and he hit me very hard

Men hitting their own women, no matter how intense it is, as long as they have three or four times, quickly becomes a habitual behavior. So, sometimes he also makes another mistake unintentionally.

The problem is far from the point where divorce needs to be considered.

Just as he was easily accustomed to in the first place, it was not difficult to change him.

The next time you find out that this is possible, you just need to take some clever measures to avoid it happening again, and he is also willing to get used to not hitting his own woman again.

I believe that women will have many clever ways to stop it.

It only takes one smart choice and you can see a welcome change right away.

Upstairs, how can you veto a man like this, there are many good men in the world, such as me. Just kidding.

Divorce is the best choice, grumpy temper is his character problem, beating women is his quality problem, and harmony is his character problem. The so-called country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change. He is not a kindergarten child, and his personality can never be changed.

Make a decision early. Isn't it despicable for me to say this, to tear apart other people's families. But you have to pay attention to your own happiness.

My opinion is for reference only.

Do you have a baby, please?

If not, use legal means to solve it - divorce, saying that you are young and find happiness again, like a black hole, endless, and more painful days are ahead.

To put it mildly, it's a very cool thing to hit someone to vent when you're in a bad mood, which is what we call a punching bag, you have to vent if you don't have a good breath, and when you finish venting, you will recover when your anger is smooth, so it will be addictive. You forgive him again and again, which will only make him worse, and now women have to protect their legitimate rights and interests, support you, and divorce.

It's not that you have to break up your family, if you have children, you have to think about it, after all, this kind of thing is not glorious, and there will be a shadow in the hearts of children in the future. Let's solve it by proper means.

It is absolutely not to be tolerated, you seriously warn him once, if there is a next time, really don't forgive him.

In fact, don't divorce first, even if this man is divorced, she will chase after her every day, before you divorce, you must first find a man who can protect you and be rich, and take you away from this place!

Choose to leave, such a man is terrible, and he can't marry a man who beats a woman.

A man is like this, he will be very good to you when he chases you, and when he has his hand, he will show his true face, to say that he loves you is true, but have you accepted this kind of love?

Divorce it, such a man is terrifying.

Poor woman, a wounded woman: may I ask if he is the one who can light up your life? Is he the person you miss so much in your dreams?

Can you really feel his real embrace? If you love someone, you will keep paying for him, and you will feel that you will change before and after marriage, but love will never change. A word of advice for you:

Do what you want to do, go where you want to go, and be who you want to be because you only have one life to fulfill your requirements.

Get a divorce now! You can't change it unless you can. One of my classmates was in exactly the same situation as you, but he endured it and the result was miserable.

There is absolutely no first hands-on action, there is a first time and there is a second time.

I want to ask, upstairs, my wife and I have been in love for 10 years now, why did I fight before, of course not very hard (I thought I didn't use my strength, but I had a lot of strength, she said it hurts), why I stopped beating my wife in the last 2 years?

Aren't you too annoying yourself, I don't like to be disturbed when I'm playing games.

I think there is a first there is a second, and with a second there is a third, believe it or not?

Have you ever seen Don't Talk to Strangers?

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I started to beat my husband first, he beat me very hard is you and your husband quarreled, you found him first, he also fought back, and his hand is very heavy, I think the quarrel between the two husbands and wives is generally done by women, once a man does not know how to cherish his wife, because a man does it, he starts harder, it will definitely hurt a lot, and there is a sentence that a gentleman does not move, especially men, should not beat women.

I started beating my husband first, and he hit me very hard

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I started to beat my husband first, he beat me very well is you and your husband quarreled, you found him first, he also fought back, and his hand was very heavy, I felt that the two husbands and wives quarreled generally women do it, once a man does it, it means that this man does not know how to cherish his wife, because a man does it, he is heavier, it will definitely hurt a lot, and there is a sentence that you don't have a year to do it, especially men, you shouldn't beat women.

Expand; Generally, if a man beats a woman for the first time, he will sell it for the second time. If you think that you can't get along with your husband, he wants to beat you, and you can't forgive him, then divorce, in fact, many couples say that divorce is reluctant to have children, but if you don't divorce, is it really good for children? It's not only bad for the child, but it's also bad for yourself, it's better to let go, and you raise together, although you are separated, but the child has the same father and mother who love her.

This must be explained clearly to the child, and I believe that the child will understand it when he grows up.

If a man hits a woman for the first time, he will have a second time. If you feel that you can't get along with your husband, he wants to beat you, and you can't forgive him, then shoot Pang Hong for divorce.

Distinguish the reason and whose fault it is. It's you wrong. Don't do it again next time. If you're not wrong. Just fight him to the end. Until he confessed his mistake. So that you can live well in the future.

There is no husband and wife who do not quarrel and do something.

The noisy chickens fly and the dogs jump, and the people turn over and reunite, and he won't dare next time.

The first time, you must not let it, otherwise, it will become a habit to beat you later.

It's hard to imagine what kind of family atmosphere you have. Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable, but if you have to do it every time, it will hurt your feelings.

Is it important to think carefully about the reasons for your previous quarrels, or is it principled?

If not, it's just some habits or bugs, and it's fine. Because marriage is not about changing a person, but about adapting to someone who will be with us for life.

Think about it again, do you have to be unforgiving when you quarrel? He can't argue with you, so he will do it?

If yes, you have to learn to be smart, give him steps, and make yourself better. There is no hatred between husband and wife, and since he has such bad deeds, you should not give him a chance.

You can see that you love your family and your children. Then learn to be flexible, protect yourself, and be kind to yourself.

As long as you forgive him, he will strike harder next time. It's a rule. I must be afraid of him once, and I will not dare to beat you again in the future.

If you want him to do it in the future, even if he does it, he will only push, pull, and punch him lightly, and allow you to hit him back, he will not beat you more angrily, so it is not domestic violence, just a normal husband and wife fight.

Unilateral beating, and the degree is serious, even if it is domestic violence. If a husband and wife fight each other, but the woman's physical strength is not as great as the man's, and she suffers a loss, and the degree is not serious, it is not considered domestic violence, and if it is serious, it is considered domestic violence.

My advice is: you take the child back to your parents' home and sue the court for a divorce. When it comes to the court mediation stage, he feels that he is really almost divorced, and at this time, he sincerely admits his mistake and promises never to do it again before he can forgive him.

If he does not agree to the divorce, there are two possibilities: 1. He is sincerely remorseful, really wants to redeem you, has a deep relationship with you, and does not want to beat you again in the future. 2. I feel that the child is still young, first pretend to admit my mistakes, stabilize you, and when the child is older and you are useless, I will beat you to death or abandon you.

You can do it!

It's almost impossible to get an advantage in a fight with your husband, so please don't fight with your husband.

Leave this is just the beginning, and it will get even worse in the future.

As long as you do it, it is absolutely intolerable, and you can definitely consider whether to break up.

What should I do if I encounter domestic violence?

1 Intolerable.

If you start to tolerate it, then domestic violence will become commonplace, because men will think that you are weak and bulliful, and they will think that this method is very suitable for you, and you will suffer this kind of torment repeatedly.

2 Can't resist.

The other party is angry, and if they choose to resist, it may cause the other party to become angry, and then they will become more violent.

Only by being humble and calmly can we better protect ourselves.

3 Stay calm.

Stop the other party's violent behavior, tell the other party that domestic violence is illegal, and ask him to admit his mistake in writing and apologize.

4 If the other party does not stop the domestic violence.

Ran back to his room, locked the door, turned on the recording function of his mobile phone, and then asked the other party: Why did you hit me? As long as the other party says the reason for beating you, it means that he admits the fact of domestic violence.

5 Be sure to call 110** to call the police.

Because calling 110 to call the police**, the police must be dispatched.

Secondly, call 110 to call the police** There is a recording function, and the time and place of the beating will be clearly explained when calling the police.

6 After the police came.

A record must be made, and the word "domestic violence" must be written on the record.

If the injury is more serious, you can go to the hospital first. When seeking medical treatment, it is also stated in the medical treatment record that it was caused by domestic violence. Then the injury appraisal will be done, and then the police will do public security mediation.

At this time, there is a question to consider, is it necessary to divorce? Because the goal of a quick divorce can be achieved at this stage, if the result of domestic violence is serious, the crime of intentional injury can be used as a bargaining chip with the other party. If you don't know how to negotiate with the other party correctly, you can contact a professional lawyer for assistance.

If you think that your husband is domestic violence, you can directly contact the Women's Federation to sue him for domestic violence, and the Women's Federation will come forward to adjust, if your husband continues to commit domestic violence, you will sentence yourself and divorce him from the beginning.

If you don't use the law ** to protect yourself, then there are third, fourth, and countless times. Therefore, leaving is the most correct choice.

How long have you been married? It's because something hit you.

When everyone is emotionally opposed, they can be out of control, especially after drinking, this is just a normal friction between husband and wife, and he can only fight back casually in his emotions, and he can't say that he is domestic violence against you, if your lover is really like this, then, it should appear frequently in the early stage, and there is no reason to hit you.

And the part where he hits you is only the arm, indicating that he is still in control of himself, if he is really out of control, or wants to hit you, the part that may be attacked will not be the arm, family relationships are an important part of life, whether you want to face it or not, these relationships have already existed, when you and your mother-in-law have been in conflict, your lover will be caught in the middle by you, so that he feels depressed for a long time. For the bias towards his mother, how to say this, in fact, he can't be biased towards you, if he is biased towards you, it may be regarded as unfilial, this is the traditional concept of Pi Liang, for you, if you are a smart wife, you should reconcile your relationship with your mother-in-law, untie your lover, make him feel more relaxed, otherwise your problems may continue to occur in the future.

It's very simple, don't go to your heart,

Suggestions: 1. Both sides should be more understanding and caring. Whether it is from the trivial matters of life or mentally, they all leave their own private space for each other.

2. According to the analysis of domestic violence cases, many couples have situations like yours. But women often heal their scars and forget the pain after the man's mistake. This time he beats you, you can appropriately make the impact of this incident on you more serious, in short, you must make him realize that he is wrong, otherwise he will be impulsive next time.