It s been 14 years, and I can t feel emotional

Actually, I understand you, but I don't support you.

The beauty of memories can't stand easy touching, and you are the same, if you just put each other in the best memories, then everything between you will always be the best memories, but if you touch it, turn the memories out and continue it, but it destroys the original goodness, isn't it?

Even if you don't think so, then you only need to say one detail, think about it, he had a girlfriend at the beginning, but broke up with her and then stayed with you, do you think this kind of man is reliable?

Feelings need to be communicated. If you don't let him know that you care about him.

How could he be moved. Life starts small.

When two people are together, they need to tolerate each other.

Only with tolerance can there be happiness.

Inclusion"I wish you all happiness. People who love each other are always together.

When I can't get it, I always feel that it is the most perfect, but after I get it, everything becomes so natural, and it slowly returns to reality.

This is the journey of your relationship, you have lost it, you have experienced it, when you have it, everything is back to reality, it is not your fault with him, but a problem of each other's personalities. This is also called distance. When there is a distance, people always hope to get closer to see clearly, but the distance has always been between the two, this is a blur, is a beauty that cannot be obtained, but when there is a real opportunity to come together, only to find that it actually has a lot of flaws.

Nor is it perfect as I imagined.

The reason why you are reluctant is because of the distance of these 14 years, and you can't get what you have accumulated in these 14 years"Hopefully"It's like a dream you've been dreaming for years, and once it's come true, it doesn't feel like it's working as well as you wanted. So you will trouble him because of some trivial things, and you will quarrel with him in another city because of some trivial things. Coupled with the fact that you have both had another relationship, where each other will unconsciously use him (her) to compare with each other, I can only say that there is no perfect person in this world, everyone will have their own strengths and weaknesses, comparison is a measure, but also a calculation, always hope that the current is the best, always hope that what you have now is better than before.

It's human desire, you know?

14 years, in fact, this is not just for you, he is the same, judging from the two little things you said, he obviously ate your ex-boyfriend's vinegar, and forgetting his birthday shows that he is careless. Maybe he will always say these unpleasant things on his lips, but this shows more that 14 years is also a knot for him, and you will not let go of each other easily until the end, because 14 years of distance and 14 years of hope have taken root in your hearts.

Falling in love is a kind of happiness, and it is a fate to be together again. You should know what it's like to lose, no matter what it will be like in the future, please cherish the memories of this time, and don't leave any regrets for yourself in the future.

What's the way to get by, the house is down, is it about to get married, since they love each other so much, and they want to be together, then everyone's temper should be changed, otherwise how to live,

You don't know at all, so it's better to change those 14 years to 14 weeks, really, it's not suitable.

He shouldn't be a responsible man, so I advise you to break up.

It turns out that men are also fickle? Ay.

You can sit down with him and talk calmly, talk about your current situation, talk about your thoughts, so it's good for both of you, let him also say his thoughts, the two of you find a solution together, a lot of feelings are both held in the heart before gradually withering, tell him what you think, he will think that this is a kind of trust you have in him, 14 years of feelings, can't you say give up and give up, can you find another man who loves you for 14 years, Can you wait another 14 years, cherish it!

He may just give an explanation of the love he had many years ago, not the real love he is now. After explaining, I found that it was no longer the feeling of the year, so giving up and not being enthusiastic is inevitable, so you can let it go.

To be at peace with what you encounter, that is, to not cherish the woman

He will not break up until the woman breaks up

But when he gets tired of it, he will definitely divide it

Because he won't do anything for a woman who has a room with him, he can only deal with problems without opinion

And then it's just playing

actually imprisoned himself in a circle without feelings,. Maybe he doesn't care, he said that he mentioned that the breakup was not good for the woman, probably to make his conscience more peaceful、

It seems that he may just be more empty, just find a girlfriend, but have no sense of responsibility.

If you don't fall deep, quickly pull back back, such a person is not something you can afford to wait for, he doesn't care about himself, how can he care about you.

If you really don't have feelings, then just do it, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable in the future.

Let go of the relationship! When a man wants to have you, he will please you in a thousand ways. If I hate you, I will toil you.

Such a man is actually a flower. That's how college is, and I have a brother. The university has one class and one from other schools.

And not the sublimation of feelings.

You and your senior don't work in the same time period now, he will also find one when he is working, saying that you are just having fun in college, and it doesn't feel good.

So please let it go! Such a man is not worthy of your love. You need romantic and real feelings in college, please take your relationship seriously, don't stumble into hatred!

Maybe he's a responsible man who can't bear to hurt a woman.

Such a man is not worthy of your crush. Find a new one, give yourself time, and get out of your crush. Just be friends with him.

You don't have to think so much about helping others, right, I also have girls like you around me, you can find someone who is right for you, you don't have to worry about others...

Young people are very hazy and unclear about their feelings, maybe it's just for the need for desire Maybe they feel that two people are happy together There are many possibilities, men Only desire is the most real under the hypocritical appearance, excuse me, what zodiac sign is this man Help you analyze it.

This is a problem in college, for us who have passed this age, it is no longer a problem, I can only advise you in one sentence, such a man is not worthy of your nostalgia.

Some boys like to play like this, either alone or single... It should be regarded as his attitude towards feelings is not attentive enough, as a girl, we had better not catch up with this, and if we do, we will run away as soon as possible.

Hehe, maybe they have feelings, it's just that the man didn't tell you the truth. Because he probably knows your crush on him, he doesn't want to lose your affection for him. Or maybe there was a relationship at the beginning, but then the relationship faded, but the relationship happened again, and the man was embarrassed to say that he broke up, so he dragged it like this.

I advise you not to have illusions about that man.

First, Huaxin, if you have a girlfriend who still wants to hook up with you, you just don't want you to die to him, and second, a man is an animal that thinks in the lower body, and when he is energetic, he has a valid reason to open a room with his girlfriend....Third, irresponsible, I don't want to get married and open a house....Hooligans! Fourth, selfish, don't think that he didn't say that he broke up because he was afraid of hurting her, he just didn't want to bear the infamy of abandonment! He just wants to see others after the breakup and complain:

She dumped me .........Wake up....Such a man is unreliable and not worth relying on!

This is the irresponsible person, or maybe both parties are in a blank period of affection, so they are looking for an alternative factor, and this kind of thing in college is not strange.

Irresponsible men, irresponsible men. If he doesn't love her, he shouldn't open a room, you know?

It shows that his relationship has not yet been positioned, and he doesn't know what kind of girlfriend he needs.

Some people are like this, incomprehensible!

It means that you are still young, and it means that you are still young.

It is only during the youthful years that there is such a deep love.

But this kind of love is easy to lose oneself.

Take advantage of it.

Dead and alive! Hurt yourself and hurt the other party!

Such love is harmful!

Typical people who have to be confused by love. Losing your mind. Loss of confidence. Loss of affection. I lost the feeling of life.

Does he love you? Not loving is crazy! I was like that!

It's been 10 years and still love! But he doesn't love me! It's hurt!

Harm to yourself! I'm sick! If he does the same to you!

Congratulations! Blessed is this life!

That's when your heart is fragile ... Painful feelings.

Feelings that are carried away by love.

The dependence in the heart, love is reasonable, but it depends on the other party's attitude towards you.

One thing is for sure, you love him very much. And your feelings for him are also very deep. But there may be another factor, you are a person who is biased towards dependency and is very dependent on the person you love.

There may also be a tendency to be infatuated, where you are so infatuated with him that you become emotionally dependent on him. I don't know what kind of situation you are, if you really love someone so much, marry him, congratulations!

I can die for him, but I can only live for you. It's pretty much the same as you said. One more comparison. It's this kind of relationship that will only live for you, live and die together.

It's an irrational feeling!

Feel like we're used to the air, get used to? It's not just a habit, it's a life

If you can let go, being together or not being together is not a burden. Because of one-mindedness, because of greed, you always ask the other party to treat you, so you always care about what he does to you, and only think from your own point of view, without thinking about the other party. So the two of you will be tired together.

And because he is greedy and obsessed with his love, he is also very tired of parting. So tired not because you are apart or not, but because you both ask too much of each other. I can't let go of my persistent greed and obsession.

In fact, you know how to make trade-offs in your heart, but you are just reluctant to do so.

But the original intention of love is not to hurt each other, but to make people feel at ease.

If it's determined that the two are not suitable, then let it go.

Find out the reason for the two of you, if it's really a small thing, usually awkward, you can communicate more, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps and bumps after a long time, and if something goes wrong, you have to interact with each other, and two people should get along with each other more relaxed, the stage of love. If you feel that you have tried a lot of hard work or are still a little pressured, then I advise you to let go of this relationship, feelings are equal, no one owes anyone, no one has the right to pay for anyone before marriage, some are just the degree of love, the degree of investment in this love, these are destined, from the first glance at you. Talk to your boyfriend more, don't let the past affect your thoughts, don't procrastinate, be a little sharper, improve yourself, and be a noble woman.

When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. Personally, I don't like to drag, I like to cut through the mess quickly. It seems to me that you are doing this to torture yourself. It's better to break it off quickly.

Why don't you face it in another way, find out a new feeling, don't be like a donkey can't get out of that lap, because the two of you are still disconnected

If you are together, you will come, if you are not together, you will go, and the feeling of reluctance should be clear whether you are reluctant to recall, reluctant to pass, or reluctant to this person. Whether it is suitable or not, you yourself are the clearest, whether you can go on, rather than thinking unilaterally, it is better for both parties to calm down and work together**, the feelings are on both sides, please separate because of understanding rather than missing out on suspicion and misunderstanding.

Both of you should think calmly about what kind of love and life you really need, and don't break up easily, because it is often said that two people are used to breaking up, and in the end they become numb, it doesn't matter.

Such a long time of running-in and splitting and merging has not made you feel that the other party is the one who suits you, you may not be suitable, you are not talking about boyfriend and girlfriend now, I think you just feel that this is a half-habitual and semi-familiar thing, what you can't accept is the fear of the unknown future, so I think it's better to break up, and go on bravely alone.

When you break up, the long pain is better than the short pain. If it's not suitable, it doesn't make sense to consume each other.

Our situation is about the same, I am reluctant to leave him, but both of our personalities are relatively strong, I want him to listen to me, he wants me to listen to him, I think that if we separate, there will be no him in my world in the future, I am very scared, but I am worried that after we get married, we will have more and more contradictions, and I am really entangled.

I don't know what you've been through, I don't know what you've been through, but I just want you to see each other's hearts clearly, whether you can't bear each other, or you can't bear those memories.

It may be more tired in the future, but if you really can't leave each other, there will definitely be a reason to be together no matter how tired you are.