A relationship that lasted for three years, how should I choose

Originally, there was a saying left by our ancestors: "It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage!" "I'm tempted to say you should stick to it, but after reading your question carefully!

Find, if I say that, it hurts you. Because judging by your words and your questions, you just like your person, but you don't love him! Basically, you don't choose him because you love him.

You are because you really don't fall in love with someone else, and he is very good to you and has a good character. You chose him. Then you shouldn't be unable to make up your mind anymore.

Leaving is your best choice, from your words I see that you like to consume, and you must not have suffered hardship, and your parents should also be more spoiled by you, so you have a petty bourgeois mood in your bones! And his parents will not change, remember that if you get married, then you must be ready to accept all the aspects of his parents that are not in harmony with you. Including lifestyle habits and attitudes towards money.

Originally, the attitude towards money should not be used as a measure of love and marriage. But after all, you are not from a poor family, and your attitude towards money and awareness of consumption are completely different, so it was fine before you got married. After getting married, it is inevitable that the man will have to bear your consumption, so do you think he can give you the life you want?

Of course, I see how empathetic you are now. But as I said, the fact that you can now tolerate your other province is actually a sign of incompetence. If he can earn a lot of money, at least he can have a more relaxed living environment, and you don't have to think about how to get along with his mother, because you can go out to live!

So, your problems are due to your own reasons, which are causing problems between you and his mother and him. But as a suggestion from your standpoint, I suggest that you choose the decision that is good for you, after all, life is short, and the nobility of the spiritual world cannot make you worry about food and clothing, nor can you enjoy the beautiful afternoon sunshine with a cup of coffee in your leisure time; Girls can be selfish, for their own future marrying a man who loves you more than you love him, and has a certain economic foundation, or has a certain potential is the choice you should choose! Good luck!

Hehe, don't you leave and won't have similar problems in the future? So, don't run away, face it bravely, it's not easy for two people to fall in love, it's really not easy to ......

Then why don't you go out and find a job to do and then you two rent a house and go out to live as if you are a princess marrying a poor boy I don't think there's anything wrong with your boyfriend's house It's you who has a problem.

Hey, there will always be problems with people If you think it's enough for him to love you, then keep it If you insist on pulling other people in, mother-in-law and father-in-law can't stand it, just leave It's not a way to force it.

Love is simple, but marriage is too complicated.

There is no wrong and no good, only love and no love.

First of all, calm down and think about why you are marrying him, and still being together for so long, naturally, there is a reason for you. Be sensible, and don't deny him all because of a momentary unpleasantness.

Second, do you think you can completely abandon the dead and alive person you loved in the first place? He is now the only woman by his side, and that's all, it's normal to think of it, and what is abnormal is that you hold on to it.

Thirdly, your mentality after marriage is not correct, you have been thinking about it, and the unhappiness when you got married, remembering this is not good for you. Think about it for yourself.

Fourth, you don't have a job, you still have debts, and the pressure must be high, if it were you, what would you do?

Fifth, you need to have a good talk with him, how to use materials to support this family, how to go in the future, and what kind of way to use it. It is important to use the substance, which is currently important. Don't talk about spiritual love marriage, life is like this.

If there is no material love, just wait for love to blow the wind.

Sixth, put your mentality right, want to continue to live, what the past was not given to you will pass, let go. Of course, if he has the ability and still loves you, he will naturally make up for you.

Seventh, you're both married, and you still can't get him to try to keep that girl in his heart and live a good life with you. Actually, a big reason lies in you, your past aspects, what efforts you have made, whether you are really accompanying him and comforting him.

10. Is there true love between you? If so, why did you become a substitute, did he say it, or did you say it, if you define yourself yourself, then no one can help you.