What should I do if my marriage is incompatible, and what happens to people who say that they are in

I'll take a look at the year of birth.

People who say that they are not in harmony before they get married can still live happily after they get married.

The judgment of relevant rituals before marriage is actually just a superstitious product left over from the feudal era. The main purpose is to judge whether two people can live happily together in the future, and it is also a blessing to them. There are also certain reasons why this feudal product came into being.

In the feudal era, most women's marriages could not be decided by themselves, and had to be decided by their parents. The fate of women in the feudal era was very tragic, and they had no right to choose for themselves, but could only make compulsory choices about their lives through their parents or husbands. This leads to women being very pitiful in the process of life, and judging whether they can live happily in the future life before getting married is also produced in this era.

The main reason is that women want to pin their hopes of happiness in their married life, because in that era when they can't choose their own marriage, they can only rely on these feudal superstitions to place their hopes.

If the attributes of the ordinary family are not compatible, it means that the married life will not be happy, and the two families will not agree to the marriage of two people. Therefore, parents will also choose marriage for their children according to their physical judgments, and their daughters will look forward to their married life more when they hear these news. These words are like a reassuring bone that directly determines whether the child is happy in the marriage or not.

In this way, the children's fear of marriage is also dispelled, and these products are only to comfort these women who have no way to make decisions about their marriage.

In today's society, men and women are on an equal footing, and marriage requires the consent of both people to get married. For this kind of feudal product, there is no need to do it again, if the result of the judgment is good, it can be regarded as a blessing to the marriage, and if the result of the judgment is not good, it can also be regarded as not heard.

After getting married, most of the people quarrel every day, either they are separated, or divorced, or they don't get along with each other.

The most important thing about marriage is that the relationship between two people should be good, in fact, it has little to do with the physiognomy, in fact, there are many people around me who are not compatible, but the two people also belong to free love, and they are very happy after marriage. However, people who care too much about the zodiac tend to have some resentment because of the incompatibility of the zodiac, and as a result, the relationship between the two has become worse and worse, and now that they have entered the age of science, many people actually don't care about this kind of thing.

A friend of mine fell in love during college, because he was a young man, so he didn't look at any of the phases, when he got married, his parents suggested to take a look at the phases of both parties, and it turned out that the genus was incompatible, and his parents suggested that the two people should not get married, but my classmates liked each other very much, and the two people also had deep feelings, and they didn't care about these genera and still chose to get married, it has been many years, the relationship between the two people is still very sweet, and I can feel it when I eat at his house, this is a happy family, Married life is very comfortable and happy.

What I want to say is that the phase is just a feudal concept in the past, with the continuous development of society, we must change our own concept, the most important thing after marriage is the mutual respect and understanding of two people, in fact, it has nothing to do with the phase, even if it is incompatible, but two people can stand in each other's perspective to consider the problem, and pay for each other wholeheartedly, then such feelings will become more valuable.

There are many people who live unsatisfactory, always complain about the problems of others, and the result is blamed on the incompatibility, I think this is a kind of shirking responsibility love is not as simple as we think, it is necessary for two people to pay together, rather than blindly taking, after marriage, two people should learn to manage the feelings of two people, what problems to bear together, there may be some contradictions and disputes between two people, but to learn to take the initiative to apologize, to ease the relationship between the two parties, so that the relationship can go on in the long run.

Now things are generally good, because after a long period of contact, they found that each other is also quite good.

After getting married, they should all get divorced, because they are incompatible, in fact, the personalities of the two people will not be too harmonious, and they will encounter a lot of disputes and quarrels.