Unsociable. What to do 30, unsociable. What to do

Actually, everyone has a different personality, and although I don't mean that I am unsociable, I like someone most of the time. The first thing you should do is to always smile when you are with others, this is the first thing, even if you don't speak, at least people feel that you are a kind person who is easy to get close to. The following thing is to be good at listening to others, is it not to add your own opinions, it is best to follow what others say, do not argue with others fiercely about some meaningless things, different points of view you know in your heart, the chat master requires a relaxed atmosphere.

Usually pay more attention to the news, current affairs, watch some jokes and interesting stories, these are all talking points with strangers... One step at a time ... Start with a smile ...

It's nice to put down your body, but this rarely happens to people who don't fit in.

Try to participate in the activities, communicate with the people you know, be happy in your heart, and be natural. Nothing else.

Some people say that a person who does not fit in is not that he is not good, but that he is not suitable for the environment he is in.

Chat with friends and listen a lot, some people like to be complimented and don't like to be retorted.

Change your attitude towards others and be more humble with others.

You can point more and mix together.

Change your introverted personality.

People don't accept you, or you don't accept people.

Some small experiences to share with you.

1.Don't overthink it in the first place. After all, everyone has their own life, and not everyone can notice your emotions all the time, and there is really no need to fight with them for problems such as the little friends described by the subject who didn't call themselves when they went out.

After doing this many times, not only will others get bored, but they will also feel very congested.

2.Don't live in the eyes of others. If you deliberately try to please others in order to be gregarious, there is no need to be accommodating, accommodating when you should be willful, being willful when you should be willful, and being your truest self.

If the relationship is very good at the beginning, and in the end, you find that your personality doesn't get along, and then you start tearing up or something, it's really uncomfortable, so it doesn't matter if you meet such a so-called friend or not.

3.Don't take yourself seriously. After seeing this sentence, I felt very touched.

Wouldn't you feel tired if you didn't take into account your feelings because other people didn't take into account your feelings at all? If you don't fit in, try to change from a little thing, and you can pay attention to their space, Weibo, or something, cultivate some common hobbies, and like and comment from time to time to brush up on your sense of existence. If they are in trouble, try to help as much as you can.

And then the most important point is to try to be a tease, people who like to laugh will not be too unlucky, and integrating into a small circle as a comic should be the fastest effect, at least that's what I think. Brush Zhihu when you're fine.

Pay attention to the witty answers above, maybe you can talk about something you need to complain about.

I always remember a poem by Zhang Chonghe: I am very cold and confidant, and I spend my life in a song. There are not many friends in the essence, and the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, if you really don't fit in, you might as well change a circle, after all, this kind of thing also needs fate.

If you don't fit in, you can turn to others in life and work.

The relationship between people is based on the fact that you need me and I need you. When you encounter difficulties, you will not only give others a sense of accomplishment, but also get your gratitude, and the most important thing is that he may come to you more naturally next time he encounters difficulties, because he has helped you and believes that you will help him, so that the relationship between the two is established.

First of all, don't think too much, do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't get together in order to be gregarious, and secondly, you can broaden your horizons and pattern, don't be limited to the current development of a small circle, you have to change your mentality, communicate with everyone more, you can find a group that suits you, and choose to be in a group with like-minded people, such as having common hobbies and the like.

Being unsociable means not being able to integrate with friends and colleagues around you, but it is not necessarily because you don't like them, it may also be caused by not knowing how to get along with others or personality problems.

Generally speaking, it is difficult to fit in with people who are depressed all day long, so if you want to be gregarious, you must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, so that there will be more and more friends, and you can integrate into everyone.

Generally, by cultivating their own hobbies, such as painting, singing, dancing, etc., they can help to integrate into different groups.