In terms of personality, the two people are not particularly suitable, how should they run in?

Many people don't have a good personality with their other half, and if they want to get along well, don't think about changing each other, learn to understand each other, think from each other's standpoint, communicate more, reflect on whether they have done anything wrong, improve their self-cultivation, and if they really can't get along, they will separate. Many people feel that they don't get along with each other's personalities, but they never break up. The two are full of contradictions and quarrels all day long, and there is actually a way to solve them.

When it comes to personality differences, it's because both parties want to change each other and want each other to do what they want. If it doesn't live up to what they want, they think that these two people can't get along. Have you ever wondered why they want to change each other?

Everyone has their own habits and ways of thinking.

Don't try to change each other. You should consider changing the way you do things to keep up with the pace. It is difficult for two people with different personalities to understand each other, however, two people who truly love each other are able to understand and tolerate each other.

Because love needs to tolerate each other, not oppose each other. When two people are together, they are not just changing each other, they are accepting each other.

If you want to get along harmoniously and have a good character, you should think more about transposition and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Think about whether you really hurt the other person and what the other person will feel and think, and more empathy will reduce contradictions and friction. Effective communication is not only an important way to resolve conflicts, but also the top priority of the emotional needs of two people.

Poor communication between two people with different personalities can often lead to big problems.

The point is that when two people have a conflict or quarrel, try to suppress their emotions, calm down, sit together, communicate carefully, discuss ways to solve the problem, and listen carefully to each other's opinions. In fact, we know what kind of people we are, and most of the time, don't want to admit it. Or for the sake of my face and dignity, still talk about each other's mistakes, not admit my mistakes, and force myself to admit my mistakes in the right direction.

When we make mistakes, we should learn to reflect on ourselves and admit our mistakes. When it comes to personality incompatibility, they tend to have lenient demands on themselves and high demands on each other.

Normally, if they can be strict with themselves, let themselves keep reading, be responsible for themselves, and control their bad emotions, they can easily resolve the conflict. There will be no problem of personality incompatibility. Personality incompatibility is caused by one's own lack of self-cultivation.

Of course, some people have a hard time getting along with them, but after all, they are in the minority. These people are stubborn, even paranoid, do not reflect on themselves, do not listen to the advice of others, are paranoid.

I can't get along with anyone. If you meet such a person, you should leave early to protect yourself.

You should run in rationally, you should also change the weaknesses of your character, and you should also learn to learn from each other's strengths. You should also surprise each other often. Communication should be frequent.

The best way to be incompatible is to give in and tolerate each other, two people should give in to each other when they are together, and don't go-for-tat when they encounter problems, but take a step back and open the sky; Falling in love with reason is the most harmonious and comfortable way to deal with it, solve problems when you encounter them, and then tolerate and accept each other's ideas.

In life, two people should take turns to bow their heads, so that they can have a particularly good run-in, and they will not quarrel often in life.

In reality, there are many people who love each other obviously, but after being together, they find that there are many inappropriate things about each other. What should you do when you find that you and your partner are not suitable in multiple ways? For example, after being together, if you find that your personality is not suitable, is it still necessary to be together?

It is said that personality can be slowly run-in, but is this really the case?

Sometimes when two people are together, it is not enough to love each other, but they also need to get along in all aspects, because a truly beautiful relationship is like a gear that can be put together, and only such a relationship will last forever. Two people who can't get along, even if they love each other very much at the beginning, they will feel tired and not in love after getting along for a long time.

Therefore, when many people are looking for a partner, they will want to find a person who can match their personality, and some people will take the compatibility of personality as a prerequisite for two people to love each other.

Of course, there are people with complementary personalities who can be very happy together. For example, some people are more introverted, and some people are more cheerful, maybe introverts will be exposed to cheerful people after spending time with cheerful people, and they will become cheerful?

Unless one party is willing to change his personality for the love of two people, grind off his edges and corners, and make himself mellow in front of each other, otherwise such two people will only have endless conflicts and quarrels when they are together. No matter how much love you have at the beginning, it will gradually be wiped out in the subsequent quarrels.

Therefore, two people with inappropriate personalities are not suitable for being together, don't feel that your personality is inappropriate and you can slowly run in, some people's personalities are innate, and it is really difficult to change. When your partner suddenly tells you that he doesn't feel right with you and wants to break up with you, you should stop trying to keep him, because even if you continue to keep him, it will only bring more pain to each other.

First of all, for two couples, the relationship is not achieved overnight, and it takes a certain amount of time for the relationship between two people to reach a certain level, so that the other party can truly recognize that he has truly felt that he has found a lover who is worthy of his own cherishment and worthy of his own efforts. In the stage of two people getting along, we have to have enough patience and enough confidence for this feeling, but in the stage when two people just get along, each other should not have too high expectations for each other, many times the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, because the real relationship is a gradual process, if the relationship between two people is vigorous at the beginning, it is particularly romantic, but after a long time, this feeling will gradually disappear with the passage of time. will make each other gradually lack of freshness, and even eventually get tired of this royal banquet relationship. Therefore, for two couples, first of all, they need to learn to adjust their mentality, have enough rational and objective understanding of this relationship, and let themselves and their lovers have enough time to understand and run-in, so as to ensure the longevity of the relationship, and to be able to truly understand and recognize each other, this process often requires at least two people to get along for more than half a year.

A love is always a little warm in the green, and there is sweetness in the warmth. Love is a medium that brings two strangers of the opposite sex from not knowing each other together; Falling in love is a way to release the hormones that two people match each other to the optimal ratio; Love is a kind of emotional release that can always accompany you even if you are incompetent. Compared with the flirting of couples or newlyweds, the flirting between old husbands and wives is not the same.

So much so that the heavy taste of flirting has developed to the level of pranks, even if the husband and wife can't cry or laugh, they won't get angry, let alone annoy Zhenyin. The most common prank is that the husband and wife have the intention to fart, and the two parties have tried to let each other smell it, which will not only increase the mood of life, but also increase the interest of life.

1. The essential character of an individual is difficult to change.

As the old saying goes, "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change", and "three years old is set for life", which all means that a person's character has long been formed with his growth and educational environment, and it has been solidified, and it is basically impossible to undergo fundamental changes. Therefore, when falling in love, it is unrealistic to want to turn yourself into another person with the opposite personality, even if there will be changes in the short term, after a long time, it will inevitably be difficult to change your nature.

Second, people's three views are also not easy to change.

The formation of a person's three views is also formed by a long-term growth environment and educational environment, and it is not easy to make major changes. Because of the major differences in the three views, it will lead to a relatively large leakage and conflict when the two sides encounter a big relationship in the future, and the contradictions will be difficult to reconcile, thus burying hidden dangers in the feelings of both sides.

Third, some small details can be changed.

Some small details, such as where to start squeezing the toothpaste, and then such as the problem of the weight of the taste, these small habits can be negotiated to solve several bends, or one party changes slightly to accommodate the other, as long as you are willing to change for him, then it is not impossible to make some concessions.

It's good when you fall in love and hold love, but everything after marriage is a disadvantage. This is because falling in love is unprincipled to change too much for each other and cannot be insisted on after marriage. Therefore, when changing yourself to cater to the other person, you must think clearly about whether you can change for a long time or for a short time, and talk about it later.

For the long-term harmony of love and marriage, it is usually encouraged to be true to oneself, actively run in, and seek common ground while reserving differences, so that both parties can have both integration and independent space, and will not lose themselves and true selves.

In fact, the two of them run into each other in terms of personality. It's very simple. As long as both of you can tolerate each other.

The Ant Tomb thinks about each other more. Discover more of each other's strengths. And don't talk about some of the shortcomings of the other party's posture.

Then your run-in time will be shorter and shorter, and the run-in will be very good.

The personalities of the two people can only be more and more similar, and the run-in is different, uh, I won't do this.

So did these two people have the same personality or were they different at the beginning? Is it different and still need to be run-in?

Human character is innate and difficult to change completely. As the saying goes: the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change, and this is the truth.

But as a boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife, if you want to have a good relationship, understand each other, accommodate, seek common ground, keep small differences, and gradually adapt, this is crucial.

Differences in personality are often the trigger for contradictions. There will always be some friction if there is a lack of tacit understanding and different concepts. At this point, mutual understanding is required.

In friction, there is always a need for one side to compromise, often this person will be a man, if he really loves you very much, then this compromise will still be. After living for a long time, they will always influence each other and change each other, as long as you know each other, you often put yourself in each other's shoes and think about the problem, so that many contradictions will be dealt with.

In life, everyone has their own personality, and the characteristics shown are not the same, however, people's character characteristics are often associated with their own quality and self-cultivation. Therefore, in order to pursue a harmonious personality, the prime minister must start with the self-cultivation and quality of the progress itself.

In addition, to seek harmony and divergence of personalities, you must start with yourself. Don't try to change others in the process of pursuing change, but first of all, you must change yourself objectively, and use your own exemplary role to promote the transformation of objective things.

The personality is too different, the three views do not match, and it is an unwise choice to be a lifelong partner. Hehe, at the same level, the heart can be connected, the heat has been lost, the gender gap is large, the run-in is a big trouble, and repeated forbearance will make me lose myself. Transitional condemnation loses the meaning of the run-in.

When choosing a lifelong partner, the most important thing is that the three views match. Losing the heat of love, is it too difficult to run in after marriage? There should be a person on both sides who learns to compromise reasonably, otherwise they will have to say goodbye in the end.

At the same time, rare ignorance is also a good medicine in character running-in. In the case of the great criterion, inadvertently ignoring or giving up is completely possible to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Two people should consider the problem from each other's point of view, and should tolerate some of each other's shortcomings when encountering things, don't always quarrel because of some small problems, and two people should tell each other their ideas, so that they can slowly run in the habits and personalities of two people.

First of all, you should understand the habits and character of the other party, and after knowing the habits and character of the other party, you should learn to respect, and you should also choose to take a step back and choose to tolerate the other party.

The personalities of two people in a marriage cannot be exactly the same, and the focus is on running-in. The process of running-in is the process of mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. In the process, it will make the two more intimate.

Both people should have some more changes, two people should be more tolerant of each other's shortcomings when they get along, two people should also have a peaceful mind, and when they encounter problems, they should also communicate deeply, so that they can run in.