I feel the dark side of society, how to face it, there is always a sense of insecurity

Relax and refresh, after more experience, you will know how to deal with problems, and your parents, brothers, and sisters are also like this. I really feel insecure, so I beware of the people or things around me and keep an eye on it. That's not a bad thing either.

You can't have the heart of harming others, and you can't have the heart of reassurance. Find some motivation to refresh yourself, I prefer to listen to classics, and when I listen to classics, I can always feel good things and be full of enthusiasm. Say too much now, you haven't experienced it, you still don't understand that feeling, society will force you to face more tribulations, just grit your teeth and persevere, believe in yourself, good things will always be seen after your efforts.

It is important to adjust your mindset. Establish a correct outlook on life and values. Know the path you want to take in the future, and make up your mind to take it well.

Read more books. Knowledge can enrich your experience, and you can choose a partner who can make you a friend who can learn. Darkness is everywhere.

But there should be a measure in your heart. There are some principles of being a person and doing things. Keep a good heart.

The darkness is everywhere, you can't escape it, you should learn to accept it, look at how many of you have lived so long, they are all examples for us to learn. It is not easy to live a lifetime, and if you stick to it, you will suddenly open up in the future.

The whole society is like this, we can't escape it, we can only adapt to it.

The principle of life: the heart of harming people must not be had, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable.

Everyone will feel the dark side, it depends on what kind of mentality you use to face it... All I can say is that you just need to adjust your mindset when you encounter something like this

It is worth fighting for the incomplete

What about darkness? Is it that when it is dark, man cannot live?

Psychoanalysis: I understand your feelings very well, now that you are in college, you are about to enter society. Like a small sailing ship, about to sail to face the dangers of the sea, it is a fear of the future, of the unknown.

Regardless of whether the boat goes to sea or not, the sea is always there, and the boat also needs to rely on the sea. But try: turn the unknown into the known.

This can help you overcome your fear of it. Chat more with your classmates to learn about the employment situation and the direction of the industry. Make more friends, and in the process of getting along with friends, to understand human nature.

It's not society that's scary, it's the complexity of human nature. You, too, have the complexity of human nature, so, in terms of hardware, you don't lack anything more than others. You mentioned that you have a softer personality.

Is it possible to understand "soft" as giving up what you insist on for the sake of harmony and the expectations of others? Society is based on people, and everyone is an individual. We have to think about what I want, what I want to go, what resources I have, what abilities I need to get ......In the past, you may think that you belong to your parents, listen to your parents, and obey their wishes.

However, independence means that you are only yourself, and your parents may only be able to provide you with support and resources. As for the harm of others, this may need to be seen in detail. There are some things that you can think of as hurt, or you can think of it as a treasure that makes you grow.

Everything depends on how you see these events. When you have the goal you want and focus on achieving this goal, this process will bring you a huge sense of accomplishment and make you grow rapidly. Hope the above helps.