About good friends, a question that has been distressed lately.

Updated on society 2024-06-21
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Think maybe the relationship between the two of you is too good, so it will be a bit like being jealous? If you're a friend, you'll always have other friends besides you, and you won't just be with her, right? Maybe she has a common hobby with someone else or something, but this doesn't mean that she has changed friends, it's just that there is one more person to talk to.

    You don't need to lower your profile to maintain friendship or anything, but you can get a little bit of her hobbies or something, wouldn't it be better? So I hope you can let go a little bit, and don't feel awkward because of this

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    True friendship doesn't require anything to change on your part.

    The so-called gentleman's friendship is lighter than water, and I don't have much contact with my best friend now, as long as the relationship is there.

    If you really want to ask, just ask, you are good friends, it is better to say anything directly, and it feels like there is always a nucleus between you in your heart, so you still say, you asked her, it also shows that you care about her, and it also shows that you care about this friendship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A good friend doesn't mean that she is the only friend in her life, and it's not that she is in love. A real good friend is one who can usually disappear without a trace even if he hasn't been in touch for a long time, and when he gets in touch, he can also talk to you a lot from the bottom of his heart, and when he hears that you have said something bad, he immediately says "You come, eat and live". She'll be there for you when you need someone to keep you company.

    We can share prosperity and prosperity, and most importantly, we can share hardship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are indeed a little sensitive, in fact, there must be a certain distance between friends, there is a distance to produce beauty, too close is not conducive to the longevity of friendship. True friendship is when you are around him or her to be yourself as you please.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it were me, I wouldn't ask! This makes you look stingy, and everyone doesn't have only one friend, it's normal for her to be good with other friends, as long as your relationship is the same!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no feast in the world. Little classmates. There will always be.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friends are like sugar, at first, fresh, refreshing, later, fragrant, soft, and later, greasy. However, you are very good friends, and she may just be a little tired of it, and she wants you to keep a little distance and continue to be fragrant and soft. After all, distance produces beauty.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, there are times when I think the perfect plan is lacking interest in my friend.

    Therefore, I have been bothered by this for a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After many years of affection, it feels like the kind of friendship that will not be forgotten if you don't connect. But now I talk occasionally, and I always recommend some insurance, and I always talk about insurance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because I am an introvert, I am quiet and don't like to talk, and I like to be alone, so sometimes I don't have a topic to talk to my friends, and sometimes I don't know what to say and it's embarrassing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The three of them often play together, but sometimes one person will play with the others, and there will be only two people left to play together, and the one who will play with the others will feel that these two people are isolating her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I want to eat AA system, but I'm embarrassed to say, I'm afraid that my friends will say I'm so serious, in fact, AA system is the best way to have a long-term friendship, but some people don't understand.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Friends don't need to be too close to each other, just like with family members, keep a certain distance in order to get along for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think I have to make it clear with her, otherwise the misunderstanding will go deeper.

    My story: I and a good friend of mine, I am a big person, I forget a thing after it has passed, but my friend is different, she is more delicate, and some things she writes in her diary. One time I accidentally flipped through it, and I realized that we had so many misunderstandings.

    Later, I asked her to go to the playground for a walk, and by the way, everyone spread out and said, in fact, some things are just misunderstandings, and everyone feels much better when it is clear, and many shortcomings will be corrected.

    There is a saying that the friends around you are the people who know you best, and some of the personal shortcomings or deficiencies that we have ignored ourselves, they all see it in their eyes, if everyone doesn't say it, then how to improve it? We are always moving in the same place, not moving forward.

    So explain everything to your friend, without reservation, if she can't accept it, I don't think such a friend should be, because she doesn't have the most basic virtue of helping each other. If she also thinks that there is some misunderstanding, then you can make an agreement with her, no matter what happens in the future, as long as there is a pimple in your heart, you must tell everyone immediately, after all, friendship and love are almost the same, and everyone needs to communicate.

    My good friend and I really have a really good relationship right now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not okay to touch the bottom line, it's not okay to be principled, if you really want to be good with him, other issues can be discussed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People can't get too close, otherwise there will be contradictions, keep a little distance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Good friends also have a distance, distance produces beauty, and the closer you go, the faster you will finish.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It can still be solved face-to-face, take a step back and open the sky.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Friendship is actually very precious, a good friend can help you a lot in your later life, although a friend of wine and meat is not very helpful, but it will always be useful sometimes, multiple friends and many roads, it depends on how you make it, some friends are heart-to-heart, some are wine and meat friends, and some are power and money.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's a friend of the opposite sex, it can only be a friend, because if it's suitable to be a lover, you won't be friends at first.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    See if your good friend is worth it for you to continue dating

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't talk about money with good friends, and make concessions to each other when there is a problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's a good friend, it's not a big deal.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    More understanding, more tolerance. Don't get too careful.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Please adopt me, let me level up,!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Best friends should also keep their distance and be kind to others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think I have to make it clear with her, otherwise the misunderstanding will go deeper.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A little more understanding, a little more tolerance.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Friendly coexistence and peaceful coexistence.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't feel that it's a pity to abandon it, you can't get along, the way is different, stay away.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I paid the phone bill and sent a message, but I didn't see my sister.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Is it a conflict with a good friend???

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    People's feelings are like this, but in fact, the distance and time will not really make the feelings diluted, my best friend we have not seen much for 4 years, but the two of them are quick to discuss with each other, I also have a few good friends too, and then not in a class to meet less, although the time in the same class is only one year, but now the holiday or something will come out to play together, of course, from playing together from childhood to adulthood, the emotional foundation is very solid, understand each other better, and be more considerate of each other.

    You say that your good friend is not by your side when you need company, in fact, if you think about it, as a friend, no matter what, he is not yourself, it is impossible to know what you are thinking about in your heart all the time, they also have their own things and their own lives, it is impossible to pay attention to you all the time, sometimes it is really uncomfortable to vent, you can talk to them directly, they will definitely understand you, of course, it is better to be able to adjust yourself, I'm always bothering people, even if it's a good friend, I think I'm going to get bored, right?

    This is a message from my best friend that I think fits the definition of a good friend

    A good friend is someone who comes to see me for no reason; a man who tells me about the disgraceful things he has done; A person who wants to hit the wheel bucket at any time and tell me that you take a nap; A person who can eat with me, skip class, gain weight together, but can't be ** together; a man who wrote a letter without sending it, but after several days he turned it out and added a crooked poem; a man who has to tell me, whether it is pity or sorrow; A man who cries and laughs when he wants to cry without a mask in front of me; A man who hugged me and slept all night talking on a winter night; Someone who sometimes doesn't talk much to me but cares about each other.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm like you, the three of you, one of you has to quit. Make it clear to her that if she values you more, there is nothing to worry about. Otherwise, either you quit their world.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's okay. It's a regular occurrence among friends. It's just a breath of freshness.

    It's good after a few things. Good things are honed. I hope you don't give up.

    It's only temporary. That's how I lost. I hope you don't repeat the mistakes of the past.

    Stand up for you!!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The longevity of friendship depends on two people tolerating each other and helping each other, not unilaterally paying, but the other side accepts it peacefully and does not pay; Friends are something I can face with you when you are in trouble, and blessings are not necessarily shared, but the premise is that you are worthy of me.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You're a man and a woman, what do you want to do?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The word friend can be said to be indescribable.

    To put it simply: true friends. There are two kinds: one is close friends, best friends, and best friends.

    He is a crutch on your journey, champagne when you are happy, and a sheltered bay when you are tired. There are not many such friends, but they are indispensable. There is also a kind of "good friend", "bad friend", "afraid of friends".

    You may not like him very much, but he may be your Bole, your doctor, or even your backer, influencing the trajectory of your life. Such a friend is something that can be met but not sought. True friends should treat each other sincerely, be open and honest, and treat each other with all sincerity.

    Friends in general. Life is long, life is colorful, and it is impossible for a person to meet many real friends, so we also need another kind of friend, that is, friends in general. In the course of study, work and leisure, we will make some friends, singing friends, golfers, travelers, and even dancers, card friends, drinking friends, etc.

    Generally speaking, these friends can also make your life a little more colorful, a little less lonely, and it is also beneficial and harmless. For this kind of friend, you can't ask others to treat you with all sincerity and share weal and woe. As the saying goes:

    You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. After all, the world is hot and cold, people's hearts are unpredictable, and it is understandable that people have a little mind. As long as there is no malice, no deliberate deception, and ulterior motives, there is no need to be too stubborn.

    When the water is pure, there are no fish, and when people are clear, there are no friends, and it is not advisable to ask too much for friends.

    The so-called friends. Some people have the idea that there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. For such people, it is okay to stay away.

    I don't know what kind of friends you are worried about?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests, and friends are used to use each other, and when you are worthless to friends, you are just like passers-by.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hello child, I am honored to answer your question, and I may be inspired by my views on your question: 1. In fact, the question you said is about whether friendship is important or principle is important; In a society governed by the rule of law, everyone is required to respect the rules, and when you choose who will manage the business for you, do you choose your classmates who see you copying homework for others but don't report you, or choose the team leader who denounces you today? I think you must choose the latter, because he respects the rules, the system, dares to adhere to the principles, has a strong sense of professionalism and responsibility, the person who does not report you may know since he was a child that it is not about himself, he can be confused, and if he can hide it, he will engage in unprincipled unity, then he is older, and his ability to hide from the world must be not small, and you dare to hand over the cause to his mother?

    Unless you yourself want to infringe on the interests of the collective or others as much as he does, do you say? Therefore, I think that the team leader who can dare to stick to his principles is a true friend; 2. But your team leader's approach is very wrong, he should give you a clear explanation, and sincerely tell you that we should not help your classmates so much, this is the reason why you are harming your classmates and not helping your classmates, and give you the opportunity to correct it, if you don't change it next time, he will go to the teacher to complain is completely correct; 3. I think you are good friends, don't be hurt by these little things, you can talk to your friends in private, first admit that you are wrong, and then criticize him for not giving yourself face, everyone will still be good friends in the future, pay attention to each other; 4. Have the opportunity to talk to the classmate who copied your homework, support the work of the team leader in learning, and the team leader should also take care of everyone's feelings, do a good job in the group, and strive to become a benchmark group! Wishing you all happiness and happiness!

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