Is it worth it to be in a long distance relationship Is it really bad to be in a long distance relat

Hehe, I'm a sophomore now, and my girlfriend is just confirmed

She was my junior high school classmate, and I said "I love you" once, and it turned out that we were in love at a young age, which is a bit ridiculous

Due to the pressure of going to school, I ruthlessly dumped her, it's cheap enough But she was very persistent, she went to the same high school as me, of course she paid a lot of money, we rarely saw each other in school, and even if we were face-to-face, we didn't say anything, because I didn't dare to face her

The other day, I went to her school, and in a very romantic atmosphere, I didn't do anything, and when I was about to leave her and go back to my own school, I actually hugged her and cried, and then I knew that I had always loved her

Before this, I also "loved" others, but I just didn't have that feeling that made me cry Love or not love someone, it's not easy to define yourself, and you only know what you think in your heart when you really lose control of yourself

If you love her and really love her, you can rest assured to chase boldly Don't care about what is worth it or not My girlfriend is so insistent, she understands her love Women are very clear about their love, and men are often unclear, because men are so attentive

Once she falls in love with you, it's hard to change Men are more fickle animals than women

Go for it, pay with sincerity, don't be melancholy, is it worth it, you are very unconfident, you really love, you can't forget it for the rest of your life, what can be the ending?

Hehe, have confidence in yourself, it takes time to prove that you don't change, if you really love each other, don't think too much, there is no benefit,

In fact, some things don't have to be intimate to give. Feel for yourself.

Efforts don't necessarily pay off.

But if you give up like this, what if she is a girl who is really worth cherishing

Have you ever seen it? We broke up together in our senior year. You should be able to understand.

Personally, I think that long-distance relationships are not necessarily bad for many couples, but for many couples, the probability of a long-distance relationship finally making two people go to the end is indeed relatively low, and in the process of long-distance relationship, two people often encounter a lot of problems, and most of these problems are difficult for two people to solve and have to face.

First of all, if the couple is in a long-distance relationship, then it is destined to be less together and more separated from each other, which often means that the woman has to endure more loneliness and more loneliness. As a woman, it is very likely that you can't stand this long-distance relationship, and ask the boy to propose a solution, if the boy can't choose the same city to develop according to the woman's requirements, and end this long-distance relationship, then in this case, the relationship between the two people is likely to break down.

For men, the reason why many boys still do not choose to go to the girl's city to develop in the face of the girl's breakup threat to end this long-distance relationship may be because of the consideration of their own career development factors, therefore, in many cases, long-distance relationship for boys often means that they can only choose one in love and career, so this is also an extremely painful thing for many boys. Even if some boys really choose to go to the city where the girl is located to develop, but even if two people really get along with each other in the same city for a period of time, it is still possible for two people to break up, that is because two people have been in a long-distance relationship for a long time, and their usual understanding is still not comprehensive enough. If these problems cannot be effectively resolved, the relationship between each other will break down, so this will lead to the same breakup of two people to a certain extent.

So I personally think that a long-distance relationship is indeed a great test for two couples, although there are some couples whose long-distance relationship finally came to the end, and the relationship between the two people also gets along very well, but that is very rare after all, for two couples, if the love between two people is destined to be a long-distance relationship at the beginning, then when the two people begin to determine the development of this relationship, they should consider these problems clearly, do not wait for the problems that arise in the future, and let yourself regret it.

I've seen long-distance relationships, and my advice to couples who are about to go into a long-distance relationship is to hurry up and become local. Because there are indeed very few cases of long-distance relationships that have a happy ending in the end. We are always prone to lose ourselves and make the wrong choice.

But no matter what kind of mistakes we make, as long as we have the courage to take them and correct them, it will not be too bad. Buddhism has clouds and a sea of suffering, and turning back is the shore, no matter how much we go, how much we make mistakes, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out. People are not sages, who can be without fault, and making mistakes is an indispensable part of life, life needs to make mistakes, because only when there are mistakes can there be self-confidence and self-awakening.

In this way, we can better grasp and treat life well. Don't go away because of a momentary mistake, deny yourself, and don't deny the life of others because of a momentary mistake, and live a lifetime. It is not because of a mistake that can be changed, don't be easily discouraged and compromised, all the mistakes made today are an essential part of life, and it is also for that more wonderful tomorrow.

In life, there are always good words, a companion is right and wrong, and some things are done wrong in the intersection, don't regret it. Some roads are wrong, don't panic. There will always be ups and downs in the long journey of life, and there will always be no regrets.

We should be thankful, because every mistake on the way forward is another growth in life. And we can only find our own right direction through continuous mistakes and exploration.

Long-distance relationships are hard! But long-distance relationships can also be successful, starting from the following aspects.

First of all, both sides need to trust each other. Because of different places, everyone lives in a different environment, and the people they come into contact with are not the same, and after a long time, many people's living habits and their own thoughts will change. Therefore, long-distance relationships will often feel that the other person has changed.

This requires both parties to trust each other very much in order to avoid some quarrels and disputes.

The second is to constantly improve yourself. Whether it is a man or a woman, it is better to continue to learn and improve yourself, and it is better to have common interests and hobbies, so that both parties will have a lot to talk about, and they will not be cold when they are ** or fighting**. After all, improving yourself and investing in yourself is a sure deal!

In the end, the two of them should have a common goal. For example, be realistic, when to save how much, when to buy a house, when to buy a car, when to get married, and so on. When two people work towards a common goal, they will make each other's lives more meaningful.

If you don't accomplish a goal together, you can sublimate each other's feelings once!

Look at people, in fact, the difficulty of long-distance relationships is not distance but people, if two people really like each other, even if they are far away, they can't stop the feelings between you, long-distance relationships should trust each other, communicate in time if there is a problem, believe in yourself and believe in him.

It's not that long-distance relationships are bad, it's just that two people often don't see each other, and the emotional foundation will become more and more diluted, and if you meet someone you like, it may lead to a rift in the relationship and finally break up.

Yes, I have also experienced long-distance relationships, and the distance in reality will make both parties feel beautiful in the short term, but what about after a long time, especially after the two parties have passed the love period? If you are still in another city far away and cannot accompany him when the other party needs you, then the distance will definitely create for both parties. Relationship.

Fade or crack an important factor. I still have some feelings about this, especially when I see my friends sad and sad because of a long-distance relationship, and I have my own deep experience of long-distance relationships.

First of all, because two people are in a different place, many things are inconvenient, especially in communication, because we don't have a lot of time to enhance our relationship, because we are more busy with our own things.

And because two people are in different places, he may not have time when you have time, and you may not have time when he has time, which leads to emotional disharmony between two people, and over time, it will cause two people's emotional indifference.

And because two people are in different places, not seeing each other for a long time will cause two people to be emotionally unfamiliar, even if two people talk every day, this and two people meet to give people a different feeling.

When it comes to sadness and helplessness, that is, when you are sick, your lover may not be able to come to take care of you at the first time, and even you can't contact him at the first time.

And when you miss him very much and want to see him, but you can't go to him for various reasons, or she can't come to see you, and the two of you can't meet, you will feel very sad in your heart.

Because you originally had a lover, but because two people are in a different place, many times it will give you the illusion that you don't have a lover, and this illusion is more of our helplessness in real life.

Personally, if two people can not be in a different place, try to accommodate it, not in a different place, because it is really difficult to be in a different place, and it is easy to affect the emotional development between two people.

I've been in a long-distance relationship, and it's really sad and helpless. The biggest frustration is loneliness.

But long-distance lovers don't spend much time together, and they are often alone, and loneliness is inevitable. The loneliness of a long-distance relationship is completely different from the loneliness in general, and the general loneliness can be found at random for something or any activity, which is easy to dismiss and eliminate, and is not easy to bring people pain that cannot be shaken off.

The loneliness of a long-distance relationship is with the desire for lovers to miss, worry and worry about the disadvantages of the years, but the reality to be faced is that the lovers are not around, and there is no lovers to accompany the kind of helplessness and torment, it is a kind of yearning, expectation and close consciousness and the contradiction and conflict between reality can not be realized, this is a kind of sadness and pain, this sense of loneliness is more obvious and strong, just like the description of the feeling of "cutting constantly, rationalizing and messing", which makes people often in the torment of unstoppable.

In addition to being more uncomfortable than ordinary loneliness, the loneliness of long-distance relationships is also characterized by being more time-sensitive and frequent than ordinary loneliness. People often describe the feeling of separation between the two as "a day is like three autumns", the kind of longing between the two people can be imagined, and the situation of a long-distance relationship is "three autumns", it is difficult to "see" a day, this kind of lovers are more separated than together, then it is conceivable how long the long-distance relationship has to endure when the loneliness is unbearable. In addition, people often use "day and night companionship", "inseparable" and so on to describe the relationship between lovers, and long-distance lovers are more separated from the Pi tribe, so for these lovers, they have to face and bear a lot of loneliness There are many times that are sad and helpless.