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Everyone is selfish. Otherwise, you'll want to have something in return, as it says upstairs, if you don't do it for yourself, you will be destroyed by heaven and earth I am like that, and I don't think anyone is like that. What true friendship doesn't ask for anything in return There is nothing in the world that doesn't want to reciprocate.
Who wants to pay blindly. It's friends, it's mutual. You're good to me, I'm good to you, that's going to last long It's too hard to be poor alone.
When anyone is powerless, they are really confused, what to do. Give up? It's so hard what you say to fight for and what to cherish.
So, I think it one-sidedly. If it were me, I'd give up. Why?
I don't need to be so nice to her. My good is not a little bit of a rout, it's not worth it! Since you're a friend, you shouldn't be the next best friend.
If you have a boyfriend, you will neglect your friends. Heavy color and light friends have been like this since ancient times. It's time to forgive, but she shouldn't be so neglectful of your feelings.
I hate being put on the back burner by others. Maybe I'm a bit extreme. But it's true, and it's not necessarily so clear.
Do so clearly that as long as you really love yourself in the world, you have to learn to love yourself. Protect yourself. Don't let yourself be sad and still live your life.
How to be happy and how to do it. There's no need to care too much about other people, there's no need to be nice to everyone. It's worth it to the people you pay very little.
Be sure to watch it. If you want to, you want to be good to her no matter what. Then do it, as long as you want to.
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Meet such people! You should put this friendship on hold for a while! Since I used to go to school!
I'm better on my own! At school with a few of my classmates! Just treat them as if they were your own men!
Let them go to school and call me! It's like I'm the boss! You should listen to me!
Afterward! I don't know how! They don't let me play anymore?。。
Depressed! I was so angry! I just thought!
You don't play with me! I'm going to find some people to play with myself! At that time of 2 months!
I really know! The importance of dealing with people! It's lonely because I don't have friends!
I was playing with some of the other people in my class! Because they know I'm a very bad-tempered person! So they give me time to play!
I can see that they are uncomfortable! Afterward! More than 2 months later!
I'm at home! When you're ready to go to school! Because no one calls me anymore!
You have to go to school alone! That's it! One of my best friends!
That is, the friend who used to call me a lot, and he came to me! Say come to school with me! I couldn't have been happier!
Walk down the road with him, dizzy. ,。It feels strange!
Later, the people who didn't play with me before started to get back together with me as usual! Later a week later! While chatting with a few of our friends at my house!
They all said I was in 2 months! It's not light! I asked them!
What has changed! They said, "I don't want to be as bad-tempered as a cow I used to be!"
I'll say one! None of them can say two! I think no one has played with me in the past 2 months!
I recognized my mistakes and corrected them。。 I think! You should also put a break from this friendship!
But still speak! Don't ignore it! Don't be too nice to her!
Because some people are in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings! There are a lot of people like this! If you continue like this with her!
You're the one who suffers! I advise you to pause!
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Actually, it's a very distressing thing, but the more extreme you think, the more difficult it will be, you should try to give her some space, you are exactly the same as me, I used to be your idea, until now my friends and I don't talk much anymore, and we don't play together anymore. I think every day, what am I doing wrong, maybe we give them too little space, just because two people are good doesn't mean it's good to be together every day, and friends help each other when necessary. Communicate with each other, you think he is a real friend, you don't give up, this is because you invest too much in her, so you always want to ask her to do the same to you, but people are different, you have to learn to do it, I can do it right, no matter what she thinks of me, even if she ignores you, you will feel very distressed.
I don't agree with the kind of person who only cares about her own happiness, don't you see her happy? Think about it.
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People are different from people, don't think that you are good at everything, others are not good at anything, in fact, people are almost the same, there are always seven points of disadvantage and three points of advantages, in fact, she has her advantages, think more about her good places, maybe your psychology will be much calmer than at the moment, if you always think about how she treats her boyfriend and how she treats you, how can this be compared?
You think you must have befriended her because she had certain strengths (such as personality or personality, etc.).
If you really just have a little bit of estrangement this time, then please give each other a little time, I think, after this little bit of time, she also has plenty of room to reflect, and you, you should not be like now, everything feels that she is not as good as you are to her, if there is really a very deep friendship, I believe that time will never be indelible, even if it is God, it will be more or less cherished.
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It is enough for a person to have one or two true friends in his life. Some people say that friends are used for what they do, that is, they are used to use and betray. There is some truth to this.
If you don't think it's a real friendship, it's better to give up, especially because love is more important than friendship, although I didn't think so, but it's a reality. Like I have 2 very good friends! Please believe that the three of us can handle the friendship very well, especially if you are two people!
And what do you mean in return?
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Giving and asking for something in return is utilization, and it is not a real human friend.
If you add up to that, you're going to lose a lot of things, as is the case with most people.
Without a lover, you rely on a good friend.
On the contrary, with a lover, you depend on a lover.
You say that, you should be like him, that's what it is.
A friend is still a friend, and it doesn't matter if he has other friends or lovers.
Don't get it together, so you shouldn't worry about it.
People have to learn to be independent.
Don't always depend on others.
Ordinary people have to pass this hurdle.
Don't rely on anything.
I'm independent, I can do what I can.
Wish: Happy every day!
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yes, I think the landlords are very reasonable.
It's a matter of mentality.
Since you're friends, don't care too much.
Also, as a friend, you can try to tell her what is going on in your heart.
Maybe she's a big personality and doesn't care about any of this at all, so aren't you angry at her? Personality varies from person to person.
Be happy! There is also a generous point.
Your kindness and dedication to her.
She'll understand.
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Well, sometimes I think that too.
Feel that friends pay.
It's not equal to the emotion I'm giving.
But I always wanted to. If we develop friendships.
Just for the sake of the equivalent exchange of the sense of **.
Then it would be too superficial.
Friendship is something we cherish for the rest of our lives.
This is because. True friendship is selfless.
Selfless, great, not easy to do.
But we can at least give without complaint.
Don't give up. This friend of yours may not yet understand the meaning of friendship.
But one day she'll understand.
You give a lot to your friendship.
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I guess all I can say is that she hasn't grown up yet, or that she hasn't really discovered the value of your friendship.
Wait until you're with your other friends and take her off for a while.
If she figured it out one day, she would naturally come to you.
If you haven't figured it out.
It's not your fault, and there's no need to keep it, friendship can't be forced.
There will be new friends in the future, and she can only be a certain intersection point in life, intersecting and then contradictory.
It's better to have your own unique experience, and there's no need to force it to stay.
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Everyone's efforts are expected to be rewarded, but she is your friend, you love her relationship, are you willing to give up this friendship???
If you're a friend, don't worry too much. The one who is most unhappy is still responsible.
If you don't want to make a few more friends, your circle of friends is bigger, and you won't care about being ignored by one or two friends occasionally.
Happy to you!
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You and I are a bit like my personality, you always think about your friends, think of them as you do, in fact, in many cases, you tend to be disappointed! But it can't be said that there is no real friendship in college, as long as it's the right person, it's fine, hehe.
Maybe she's not the type of friend you want!! And you know, people in love often only live in a small circle with only each other!
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I agree with you. As long as you keep doing this, one day she will realize it, and you have nothing to lose, you have gained the sympathy of some other people besides her, as long as you have always cherished your friendship with her, one day, you will also harvest her belated friendship, really, you are great.
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Actually, I'm in the same situation as you, but I'm still a high school student. She's the kind of person who has a very straightforward personality, and she's very negative, and when I'm unhappy, I often wonder if he's worth it, but then I think about it, and when we're good, I'm actually quite happy, and she said to our dorm room: Friends are not as important as boyfriends, because friends are only together for profit
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If you feel unhappy, give up this friendship, making friends is all about making friends, you see that you are so unhappy for him, it means that you are not suitable to be friends.
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There is a saying: women in love are mentally retarded. (I didn't mean to scold my fellow women).
True friends understand each other and trust each other. Perhaps, she still doesn't understand or is possessed by love.
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If you don't like him, why do you care, as long as you have your own path and go well, you know. Do your best, you can help, how to say, friends have been for so long, can they disappear all at once. Can you bear to watch him in pain?
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I think friendship should be about whether people are good or evil.
If you care a lot about that.
You will live a very tired life.
Maybe you should communicate more and understand more.
I am confident that your efforts will not be in vain.
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Making friends is also fate, if you treat her well and she doesn't know, then it doesn't have to be like that. People must have a conscience, and people like you say can't be delivered!
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Having life is a kind of happiness, and no matter what happens in life, we should have a grateful heart!
There is no end in the world for relationships, what ends is just a relationship, not a lifetime of love, and sometimes the end is another beginning.
The same goes for friendship!
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I think she may not be a more delicate person, she can't think about her friends everywhere, maybe she can't think so thoughtfully, you should be considerate of your friends, and you should do a good job in some things. That's right,
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True friendship is not about reciprocation, but about selfless dedication! (Of course, it's worth it!) )
Good luck!
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Hehe, you are not satisfied with her "forgetfulness".
Most of the time, though, friendship still has to give way to love
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Haha When she grows up, she will understand your hard work The so-called road knows horsepower The most important thing in being a man is to be happy I wish you good luck.
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That's right! I'm also very nice to my friends, but I don't see them being nice to me and bullying me all the time.
Hey, it's hard to be a good friend!
Sometimes I'm nice to them, and I don't think I'm gay, and I can't think of my friends as too important!
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No, it's just that she only has a boyfriend in her heart now, so she will be like this.
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You just have to think that what you're doing is not wrong, right?
It's not good to think too much!
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Maybe he doesn't have you in his eyes, but he has you in his heart.
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If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.
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If friendship is an evergreen tree, then it must be watered by the spring of the heart; If friendship is an undefeated flower, then it must be the sun that rises from the heart. How many laughter are evoked by friendship, and how many tears are dried by friendship. The harbor of friendship is warm, the breeze of friendship fills the sails, and the journey of friendship is full of blessings.
Friendship is like a cup of ancient tea, light and fragrant, mellow and cool; Friendship is like a jar of old wine, with a sweet taste and overflowing aroma; Friendship is like sunshine, illuminating the darkness and rediscovering the light; Friendship is like a jewel under ......the sea, dazzling and colorful
Friendship, two people are really together, two people can always think of each other, happy for each other when the other party is happy, sad for each other when the other party is in pain, and it is to give you comfort and care when you are sad and helpless; When you are disappointed and hesitating, give you confidence and strength; Share your victories and joy in your time of success and joy. In the journey of life, despite the ups and downs and bumps, having friends can give you encouragement, give you care, and help you get through the most difficult years. The concept of friends is really big, and different people's thoughts can be used to outline different friends.
Friends are mutual, friends need help when you have to stand up, "for friends in the ribs" is to be friends care for each other. Give care to friends, help friends, keep friends away from loneliness, let friends forget depression, and don't let friends be depressed. A friend is not someone who sends you flowers when you are successful, but a cornerstone that keeps you grounded.
We must cherish our hard-won friendship.
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