After breaking up, can you still care about her as much as before?

You still love her, don't you? It's because she doesn't love you, right?

You can care about her, but not too much, after all you have both broken up...

Like some valuable things or don't give them.,It's me and I won't want it.,Some small gifts don't matter.,She doesn't want to owe you.。。。

Do you understand?

Brotherly affection cannot be forced!! If she doesn't love you, then what you're doing is in vain!!

If she doesn't have a boyfriend, you can take proper care of it, and if she does, then you can stand on the side, so as not to cause misunderstandings.

Yes, but you're going to get stuck in it like this, and you're never going to be able to get out again.

You can jokingly tell him that breaking up is also a friend, and what help is there to say, try your best to help, care is even more deserved, and you can't deliberately ignore it because of the past.

Hello friends vary from person to person, love is happy and sweet, each of us pursues to have the most perfect love, to get the most satisfying love. But the reality is often not as you want, and once you find that you are not suitable for each other with your lover, the two will break up.

After a breakup, some people will continue to focus on their ex's life, but I don't do that.

The reason why I don't pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup is because there is no relationship between two people after a breakup, it makes no sense to pay attention to each other, it will deepen my emotional pain to pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup, and I should look forward after a breakup and not always look back on the past.

1. After the breakup, the two people have no relationship, and there is no point in paying attention to each other. For two people who are in love with each other, love is the bond that maintains their feelings and relationships with each other. Once this bond is broken, the two people break up.

At this time, there is no relationship between the two people, and there will be no more contact with each other. ......Therefore, it makes no sense to pay attention to the life of your ex in such a situation.

2. Paying attention to your ex's life after a breakup will aggravate your emotional pain. Although two people who are in love may break up rationally because they are not suitable for each other, after all, after falling in love, there will still be deep feelings between two people. ......When two people break up, although they no longer contact each other, that emotion will still remain in their hearts.

At this time, if you go to attack the other party's life again, it will inevitably aggravate your emotional pain, which is very unfavorable to yourself.

3. After the breakup, you should look forward to the doulu and not always look back on the past. Although it is painful to break up in love, when everything is over, we cannot always live in the shadow of the past, let alone always look back on the past and give up on the future.

We should raise our heads, look forward, and welcome our new life in a new state, so that we can pursue a happy life and find our own love. I can only go back and take care of his life. Let him live better.

After a couple breaks up, some people will pay attention to each other's dynamics, but I won't secretly pay attention to his dynamics. I'm really a nostalgic person, but I'm not going to eat the grass because the past is the past.

People who are too obsessed with the past will not have a good life in the future. People should look forward, but it doesn't mean that they can erase everything in the past, the world is so big, so many people can meet, it is fate, and the chance of falling in love is very small. Everyone should cherish this hard-won relationship, and as an ex, they really shouldn't disturb each other's lives.

But it's normal to want to know if the other party's life is doing now, when you are frustrated, the first person you think of may be him, but you don't have the courage to dial his number, because you are not sure that the person who once loved you the most will still care about you now?

Some are meant to be remembered, and he can be somewhere deep inside you. Even if it has hurt you so badly, it doesn't matter as time goes by. It's all about getting a good life. It's good to be happy!

Nowadays, social tools do pose a serious challenge for people to get through the pain of a breakup, which is more serious than many people think. In the past, when information was not so developed, couples who broke up basically lost any contact after breaking up, but now it is really different. People's psychological pressure and burden are even greater.

As it turns out, those who have dissolved any close friendship with their ex are more painful and anxious. Therefore, we simply suggested that some lovers who broke up keep some of each other's social ** contact, until they saw that their name was just a match and number, and they really let go when they didn't have a trace of waves in their hearts.

No matter how much you once loved each other, once you separate, you will leave regrets. And different people will deal with broken love differently. So much so that in the end, they will face a different situation.

To put it simply, if you face it positively, you will be brave enough to face up to all those who have fallen out of love. Carefully analyze this relationship and figure out why it has come to the point of falling out of love. Then, after you have experienced this lovelorn, you will have a better understanding of feelings, and you will gradually form a mature view of love.

The opposite result is that you fail to "eat a trench and grow wise", and you will make the same mistake in the future. Of course, this is a situation that we are all reluctant to see.

It's just that for many people, missing after a breakup can't stop in a short period of time. After all, they have loved each other deeply, and there will still be some attachment in their hearts.

It is precisely because of this longing that there will be some manifestations. For example, after a breakup, I will still secretly look at my ex's circle of friends. This is a very common way of manifesting itself.

So, why such a move? Generally speaking, if you are unwilling, you still want to know the bits and pieces of the other party.

Although he is "unwilling", he also knows in his heart that he has broken up. Therefore, I had to choose to secretly go to the side to watch.

I hope that in this way, I can learn more about each other. It's as if the other party is not far from him, and he can still feel his life.

Generally speaking, doing so is actually a comfort to one's own heart. For many couples who have just broken up, most of them will have such a move. And choose this way in order not to add trouble to the other party.

Yes, they have broken up nominally, but I still can't let go of it in my heart. And if you break up, you can't take care of each other as before. You can only choose this way and care secretly.

From a certain point of view, such a move can also be understood.

I think many people who have fallen out of love have experienced this. Because at the beginning, it was really hard to let go of my heart. And you can only give yourself a little comfort in this way.

While this would be a bit inappropriate, there seems to be no other way.

And this "unwillingness" in the heart, although it will fade over time. But in the beginning, it really needed to be alleviated in this way.

I think that's probably why many people choose to do this after a breakup.

I believe that everyone has had the experience of breaking up, some people are forced to break up, and some people are active to break up.

No matter what form it takes, as long as you have truly loved it, I believe it must be difficult to let go of it, especially the first period of time is the hardest.

After a breakup, some people will be immersed in pain and unable to extricate themselves, unwilling to admit the fact of the breakup, and even find traces of the other party still caring about themselves through various ways.

Sometimes, we keep comforting ourselves over and over again, persuading ourselves to let go, but there is such a thing as emotion that cannot be controlled.

I believe that as long as we go through a period of time, we will really let go, time will teach us, and it will also take us through.

Regarding whether or not you will pay attention to each other's dynamics after a breakup.

Let me admit first, I have seen my ex's social **, and even obtained the other party's information through various means, trying to detect the other party's current situation from the slightest clue.

But that's not all, there are no other thoughts, just a desire to keep letting go of yourself in this way.

In this information age, it is difficult for us to be separated, and then we will have no contact at all, even if we do not intersect with each other, we will know each other's dynamics through mutual friends.

Some people will post their own news through the circle of friends and Weibo to gain the attention of the other party, and even cause the other party's current jealousy or suspicion.

In fact, it is normal to have this kind of behavior, there will always be some difficulties in life, and after this stage, I will slowly be relieved.

For couples who have just broken up, their inner feelings are actually still there, but they can't be together because of reality or some reasons.

At this time, our hearts will not accept reality, and even if we are separated, we will miss each other and want to attract the attention of the other party in various ways.

When I see my ex doing well, my heart will be touched, and it will even become unbalanced, why am I so sad, he can live so well.

So he struggled in his heart, trying to make himself better, wanting to prove that he could still live well without him. In the process of this contest between the two sides, I slowly let go.

I once read a study that found that after a breakup, up to 88% of people will look at their ex's social dynamics, and 31% will find ways to arouse the other party's jealousy, such as hair**.

As soon as this data comes out, I believe that everyone will have their own different reasons, some are eager for each other to return, some are curious, and some want to motivate themselves through each other.

Although they broke up, they still care about each other's daily life.

1. It shows that he really loves his ex.

Have you ever really loved, after breaking up, you can see your behavior clearly; In a person's heart, as long as he has truly loved someone, then in this life, he will definitely not be able to be quiet and unable to let go; So after breaking up, people who still love their ex, their favorite thing to do is to turn over their ex's dynamics; As long as you see something sent by your ex, you will be very concerned and care very much; I can't help but want to see what the other party has sent, and I'm very curious; This is a person who has never really loved him, and he will never behave in a way; People who have never really loved each other, as long as they do anything after separation, they will not take it to heart, and they may block or delete each other.

Second, it shows that he will remember his predecessor.

If you break up, it doesn't mean that the love is broken, and the love is gone; There are many people who just change their way to love their beloved; So a person who still looks at the dynamics of his ex after breaking up can say with certainty that in his heart, the love for his ex has always been there, and in his heart, he has not let go, and has been thinking about the ex's manual; Therefore, he will not be able to control himself, and will always look at his ex's dynamics when he has time and time, to understand what his predecessor has sent, so as to comfort his heart; A person who puts down his ex and doesn't think about his ex, he won't take anything his ex does seriously, and he won't take the time to look at his ex's dynamics.

Third, it shows that he still wants to get back together with his ex.

can accompany the person you really love, experience the most beautiful life together, and see the scenery together; This is something that everyone has no control over in their hearts; And if a person, after breaking up, still goes to see the dynamics of his ex, it shows that in this person's heart, he still has illusions about his ex; I always think that one day, I can continue to be with my ex and watch the flowers bloom and fall; And a person who doesn't want to have anything to do with Yuan Hui's ex; Even if you have love in your heart, you don't want to be disturbed by the other person; So not only will I not look at my ex's news, but I may also delete my ex's WeChat, and I feel out of sight and upset.