I m 20 years old, and I m still a child s mind when things are going to be difficult

I don't think so.

First of all, everyone will encounter annoyances, but everyone's mentality will be different, unhappy things should not be brought to the company, otherwise it will definitely affect your work and other things. As far as I know, in fact, mentality is very important at work, and a good attitude is likely to bring happiness to work. I don't know if you've ever heard a saying:

Mindset determines success or failure". In fact, unhappy things should be dealt with slowly after work, find a reasonable channel to deal with them, see what causes you to be unhappy, and think about whether it is worth making yourself unhappy? Reflect more?

It is not appropriate to not go to work if you have a minor illness, labor is the foundation of survival, labor is glorious, we can find our own value in labor, so that you will be happier. Of course, the body is also very important, if you are really sick, and it is more serious, go to the cure and then come back to work. You should learn to think differently.

Of course not, aren't you aware of this yourself?

Now that you know that something is wrong, let's try to change this perception.

First of all, you have to tell yourself from time to time that you want to be an honest, reliable and trustworthy person.

Then try to make it happen.

The third is persistence. What the current society needs most is this kind of honest and trustworthy people, and those who are not honest and unreliable will be eliminated by the society.

Starting with small things is better than not wanting to go to work when you have a minor illness. Is it because you are physically weak or psychologically that you should rest if you are sick? Minor illnesses, such as colds, fevers, runny noses, headaches, dizziness and other diseases, I basically have no reason to ask for leave, because I am proud, even if I don't take medicine, these minor illnesses will be fine for three or two days, and if I have a severe cold, it will take about five or six days.

I am in good health, I never take medicine for this minor illness, and even for a severe cold. I don't take this minor illness to heart in my heart, and go to school like a normal person. This can be regarded as a diversion.

You also need to do this, don't keep thinking about yourself being sick, the more you feel uncomfortable the body, but you don't think much about it, and you will get better unconsciously.

Psychological strength is also more important. Why some people can be cured of cancer is also a key to their psychological quality.

Of course not

You're not thinking about anyone else at all, you're only thinking about yourself, and it's very selfish and irresponsible

Even if something happens, you have to think about other things, and you're still very immature

You're thinking about something, but you don't.

First of all, don't be afraid, it may not be as difficult as you think, many times.

Also, don't rush, because it's difficult, so it can't be solved in a short time, and the more impatient, the more difficult it is to solve the problem.

Also, don't get in and can't get out, if it's not so urgent, hold it off for the time being, maybe after a while, there will be a turnaround.

Treat it with a normal heart, solve it best, even if you can't solve it, don't let a little difficulty affect your normal life trajectory

The reed is tough as silk, and the rock has no transfer.

Increase your self-confidence and think for the better.

What is difficulty, and why are you so afraid of it? In fact, what you are afraid of is not difficulties, but failure, everyone will more or less retreat when encountering difficulties, this can't blame you, creatures are originally seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages......

You also know that escaping will not solve the problem, but escaping can make you temporarily relaxed, and soon you will find that you can't escape. Difficulties are not invincible, it is oneself that is invincible, and it is necessary to find reasons from oneself and overcome small difficulties, and only then can we have the confidence to overcome big difficulties.

Take on more responsibilities in life, take on some things that you can, then there will be a little bit of pressure, you need to hone it, as long as after a period of time you will not be afraid ......

Happy ......

Not every age can carry any load. Of course, if you can carry it all, it is naturally precocious; will also escape, that is, to grow. Grow up slowly, don't rush, life will be a good teacher.

At this moment, there are only two words to express my feelings: regret.

It was like a piece of lead in my heart.

Hehe. Specific problems are analyzed in detail.

The main thing is to be positive.

Don't always think that you can't do it.

The past is just an experience in life, and it is not a burden that God has attached to you, so let go of the burden and run to a new life!

Happiness! Happy!

— Rainbow reappearance.

Retreating when encountering difficulties is a sign of lack of confidence and strength; And these characteristics generally stem from the psychology of inferiority.

Based on the simple information you provide, there are some emotional problems that need to be adjusted.

Insecurity, anxiety and the need for practical actions to get out of the predicament.

The easiest way is to find your own interests and strengths, do what you want to do, slowly shift your attention, and build your self-confidence and network.

See the modified answer after the landlord's addition: Refusal to fail, in fact, is also refusal to succeed.

So those who care about gains and losses are not people who only want results; What you want is a feeling, about self-awareness and evaluation, you want a sense of security.

And the sense of security comes from the heart, and others can't give it. Only when the heart grows up and is full, can this knot be untied.

If necessary, you can seek psychological counseling and psychoanalysis.

What should I do if I want to back down when I encounter difficulties? Send you a word.

It is recommended that you adjust your thinking and adjust your "overcoming" to seeking "**".

Set goals in small steps and achieve them gradually.

There are three kinds of problems at work, one is the pressure from the superior, the other is the competitive pressure from the colleagues, and the other is from the subordinates who cannot understand your thoughts, and then you will breed all kinds of dissatisfaction and anger in your heart. I don't know if you know a truth in Chinese medicine, when you are angry, your qi will accumulate in your secondary part, that is, when you hold your breath, where you exert force, when you notice that you are going to be angry, you might as well relax that part first, and then take a breath, so that it will return to the surface to relieve your urge to get angry. However, it takes a long process to be the first to do it, and everyone's situation is different, different ages, different occupations, and different genders will lead to different levels of qi in your physical and psychological depths.

To solve the psychological problem, the first thing to do is to tell yourself every day, I like myself, I like my own body, I don't have to destroy my body for a little thing, I have a lot of wealth, I have a lot of happiness, I have something that others don't have, I am unique, I can come up with a result for what happened to me that satisfies me, go all out, don't regret it, don't miss it, because my life is so short, and the things I encounter will be a handfulI want to cherish every day, I want to love all people, I want to love all things, because they are all part of my life, thank you. Maybe you will think that my answer is a bit abrupt, but I think there must be some level of dissatisfaction in your life, which leads to your anger, nowhere to go, and the main reason for the dissatisfaction of the outside world is your own problems, think about some of your recent activities, which make you unhappy, and quickly throw it away.