The relationship with my boyfriend is always very flat, and he advises me not to take it too serious

I advise you not to take it too seriously? Are you in a relationship? Are you sure he likes you?

Forgive me for laughing out loud when I saw this question, do I still need to ask someone else? What are you doing if you don't break up? Is it really that the mobile phone is not fun, the work is too easy, and you have to go to a man's place to find it uncomfortable?

If you're not serious about falling in love, what else is he going to do?

Obviously, this man is just having fun with you, and the days with you are so dull, I'm afraid it's a straight man with a bouquet of roses on Valentine's Day, Tanabata and Christmas, why are you going to have a relationship in name only? This kind of man who is stingy in the process of falling in love to create a little romance for you, and also makes all kinds of excuses to tell you not to take your feelings too seriously, break up early and get rid of it early!

It's not easy to find someone you like, and it's even harder to find someone who can really grow old hand in hand with you. A happy life is too important for a woman, we must not give in, but should uphold the bottom line of preferring lack to abundance to find the other half. If that person is not willing to even have a little romance that can make you happy, how can you expect him to give you happiness in your married life, and what color do you expect him to decorate your already dull and boring life?

Don't dream anymore, the country is easy to change, your nature is hard to change, your days will only get more and more boring, and you will regret your decision after all.

And isn't the phrase "don't take it too seriously" a straightforward expression of his thoughts? People don't take you seriously, maybe they just need your spare tire, they just need a so-called girlfriend, they don't plan to have any idea of having a future with you, why bother with any illusions? Break up early, this is a scumbag, don't keep it for the New Year!

It's just a dull life with him, and sometimes being coquettish can also have a miraculous effect.

My personal opinion on the issue of such a relationship between the two of you would be this:

1.Adjust your mentality Generally speaking, the relationship between male and female couples is very sweet and loving, and the two will stick together like glue. However, these situations are not suitable for all couples.

Some people are just a little more restrained by nature and don't express themselves as clearly and passionately as those people do. But that doesn't mean they don't love you. It's just that these are the ways in which they express their emotions.

It's like why some people are so cheerful and outgoing, very lively and talkative, while others are very introverted, very quiet and low-key, and don't say anything. These are just different ways of expression. Nothing out of the ordinary.

Also, people don't often say that plain is true. Although that kind of vigorous and passionate love is very desirable and enviable, this kind of ordinary and ordinary love life is also very worthy of people's cherishing and love. Originally, ordinary life is the normal state of people's lives, how can there be so many surprises and accidents in life!

So. You really don't want to expect so much from yourself. Don't think so much, it's very unhappy and unhappy for yourself and for your boyfriend.

Don't be so deliberate, don't be so forced. It's good to be real and bland, just be real. Therefore, it is really necessary for you to adjust your own mentality as follows.

2.Add a little surprise to your life In addition to the above I suggested adjusting your mentality, there is actually another thing that you can try to do yourself. In addition to your ordinary life, you can create some small surprises and accidents.

It can be changing into some new fancy clothes by yourself, or preparing some beautiful small gifts and other things to create some fresh feelings and surprises for yourself and your boyfriend. It's good to bring some small changes and changes to this ordinary life.

When you fall in love, you are rushing to get married, and he tells you not to take it too seriously, but it is clear that he doesn't want to be responsible for you, so there is no need to continue. Leave him, he can't give you the happiness you want.

If you can compromise, you can continue to do it, if you can't, you can only break up.