If you marry a wife, you should marry a woman from China

In fact, there is no fixed answer to this in my heart, if you want me to explain the reason, I can give you a little bit of a word.

First of all: it's a place with good girls. People say that there are many beautiful women in Sichuan, which is relatively speaking, plus Sichuan has good feng shui, in fact, Sichuan and the surrounding provinces and cities are basically the same.

Secondly: Marrying a wife is a major thing, which not only depends on fate, but also depends on the joint efforts of two people.

Besides, you don't have to think about such a thing, it's a lot of brains, hehe, no matter where you marry, as long as both parties like each other, that's the best. I wish you a good wife, a good mood, and a good family.

Actually, I think it doesn't matter if the wife of the ** is the best!

The main thing is whether you and she have feelings!

I feel like you're a foreigner, too!

I don't feel like I'm a star, and you're not interested, are you?

There are many beautiful women in China: Jiangsu, Sichuan, and Chengdu!

But the important thing is to look at the feeling!

Why in the stomach think for yourself.

Nigeria.

Nigeria, China's largest project contracting market in Africa. In its capital, Abuja, you'll find plenty of familiar Chinese faces. Nigeria is not poor, it is the second largest economy among sub-Saharan African countries, the largest oil producer and exporter in Africa, and its population reaches 100 million, and it is also the most populous country in Africa.

There are many ethnic groups in Nigeria who practice "polygamy", and there is a very strange custom that men here like to marry more daughters-in-law, and then show their status according to the number of daughters-in-law. In the past, it was mainly to marry local girls, but now it has been upgraded, and only by marrying a foreign daughter-in-law can you express your high status, and among them, the most popular is a Chinese daughter-in-law.

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It's hard for a Nigerian guy to marry a Chinese girl, but it's too easy for a Chinese guy to marry a Nigerian girl. In a country where women work hard for food and clothing, women have a very low status, but they have seen with their own eyes the diligence of Chinese men and the happiness of Chinese daughters-in-law. As a result, in the dormitories of many Chinese migrant workers, local girls come to talk to each other every day.

For this enthusiasm for taking the initiative to come to the door, Chinese migrant workers still maintain considerable calmness and restraint, and rarely take a step beyond the thunder pool. Because they know that the biggest characteristic of these women is that they are lazy and can't afford to pay for them.

In Chongqing, many locals have never heard of jackpots.

In two words, in this regard, Chongqing is definitely at the forefront of the country. Parents in Chongqing do not want bride price, but the man must have a financial foundation.

It's better to have a house and a car so that your daughter doesn't have too much hard time. There is an unwritten rule that if the woman accepts the dowry.

The woman's parents are not allowed to take the initiative to ask for other money after marriage, including New Year's money. In fact, in the rural areas of Chongqing, there are still some places where the dowry is required.

Chongqing is a city where the patriarchal ideology is relatively not serious, and Chongqing's family planning policy.

The implementation is relatively good, and many families will not have a second child even if they are only daughters.

This also determines the relative equality of the status of girls and boys in Chongqing. Married men in Chongqing do not need to be hired. The house does not have to be bought by the man, and it is acceptable for both parties to work together.

I think this fully reflects that the status of women in Chongqing is as high as that of boys, or even a little higher.

I and the people I have met around me have no dowry when we get married. For ordinary people, what is a little strong is that the man goes out of the house and the woman buys a car; A man and a woman with less money buy a house together (or the man buys a house and the woman decorates it); No matter how little you can't afford to buy a house, you get married. There are also some people who will give their children a sum of money after marriage as a family fund.

But the dowry is not mandatory, some are given, and some are not, and no one will come to gossip about how much dowry was spent before and after marriage. However, the banquet at the time of marriage was too bad, and some people would make irresponsible comments. Many people in Chongqing have a view of the dowry as "this is selling women".

For the bride price, isn't it a humiliation for the woman to throw money in the face of others? Chongqing women have quite a high status in the family!

1. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he can hold hands with his daughter-in-law outside, or even kiss him, envying single people. 2. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he can hug and kiss his daughter-in-law at home, or have children, which is reasonable and legal, and no one dares to say. 3. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he can have children with his daughter-in-law, inherit his own genes, spread his branches, and have many children.

4. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he can use the excuse that his daughter-in-law will not let him go, or he can push away a lot of entertainment because he wants to go home and take the children. 5. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he can get back a lot of the gifts and favors he gave before when he gets married. 6. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he will not feel lonely, he will find a daughter-in-law if he wants to talk, and he can talk about any topic, there is no limit.

7. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, your parents feel that you have grown up, and your parents feel more pleasing to the eye, and your parents will focus on your ideas in some things, and your parents will give you the position of being in charge. 8. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, he instantly feels that he has matured a lot, feels that he has truly become an adult, feels that he has a great responsibility, and feels that he wants to be like a real man. 9. After a man marries a daughter-in-law, if the daughter-in-law is from another place, he can see different scenery and people, and he can eat different specialties.

The Book of Rites explains marriage as follows: Those who mourn will be good with the two surnames, go up to the temple, and go down to the future generations. Marriage is the general switch of family and society, and it is also the cornerstone of children's growth and success.

The influence of the family of origin on children is deep-rooted, so both men and women need to be cautious when they get married. Death and life are broad, and Zicheng said. Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.

Ancient marriages are basically doomed from the moment they get married, if they are lucky, the husband and wife are harmonious, if they are not good, they are like strangers. However, there are not so many rules and regulations now, men and women are free to fall in love, and before getting married, you can also understand whether a person's personality is suitable or not. China has a vast land, different marriage customs in the south and north, different diets, and cultural differences, and these differences together form the most distinctive personality differences, so the most suitable woman in China to marry as a wife?

Zhang Taiyan, a democratic revolutionary in the late Qing Dynasty and early Ming Dynasty, a thinker, a professor of history, politics and philosophy, he is also a teacher of Lu Xun and Qian Xuetong, as a revolutionary, his thinking is relatively advanced, but after all, Zhang Taiyan is also a person who lived in the late Qing Dynasty, and he has harsh requirements for marrying a wife. His mate selection conditions are also simple, but also complicated, Zhang Taiyan once said: Women in the north and Guangdong are not good, only Hunan and Hubei are the best, followed by Anhui.

As a generation of masters, if Zhang Taiyan's words were to be said today, it would be a black region, so why would he say that? Zhang Taiyan, born in 1868, a native of Yuhang, Zhejiang, belongs to the southern city, has surplus grain at home, is quite a wealthy landlord family, his grandfather taught him to read since he was a child, under the influence of feudal concepts and the old era, Zhang Taiyan also obeyed the orders of his parents and married Wang. Although Wang is a traditional woman and doesn't know a few words, she takes care of Zhang Taiyan's life in an orderly manner, Zhang Taiyan never has to worry about life, and devotes himself wholeheartedly to his career, but unfortunately Wang died of illness when he was 34 years old, and he did not leave a son and a half daughter.

After the loss of his wife, all the famous families also found a matchmaker to come to the door to say goodbye, although Zhang Taiyan did not have many conditions for choosing a mate, but there were few requirements to meet the requirements, and then the matchmaker did not dare to come to the door, without Wang's family, Zhang Taiyan's life could not be governed, Zhang Taiyan published a marriage notice in the "Shuntian Times". He said: The people of the two lakes are very good, and the people in Anhui are the second, and the most unsuitable ones are the women in the north, and the women in Guangdong do not understand the language, such as foreigners, which are the most daring.

Later, some conditions were added, which must be a good girl, must be well-written, must be virtuous and must not have bad habits. It's just that everyone is beautiful and knowledgeable, but many people are in line, but women are relatively advanced in their thinking, and it is difficult to satisfy the virtue of their husbands, not to mention, Zhang Taiyan only marries women from Hunan and Hubei, and from the geographical point of view, southern women are as tender as water. And the Guangdong woman is even more inappropriate, because Zhang Taiyan's Chinese is not particularly good, when he was in college classes, he also asked Liu Bannong to translate, Cantonese he couldn't understand, even communication between husband and wife was a problem, how to live, he studied Chinese studies, the two lakes area.

I think that women in every region of China have their advantages, as long as their personalities are compatible, they are very suitable for marriage, and they are very suitable for marrying home.

Personally, I think the women of Shanxi, because I think the girls in Shanxi are very good at living a life like traveling, and they are particularly sensible, and they are also very filial to the times before the oak, they can dress up, and of course they will make money.

I think women in Sichuan are the most suitable to marry back home. Because the girls here are very self-reliant and self-reliant, and they are also very filial, which is very suitable for wives.

Personally, I feel that the girls in Sichuan are very suitable for being daughters-in-law, because I feel that the women here are very cautious and hardworking, and they are very hard-working, and they are very good at cooking.

As we all know, only men marry wives in the world, but we don't know that there are still women who "marry wives" This "Arabian Nights" comes from Africa. If you hadn't heard and seen it, it would have been unbelievable.

Sudan is the largest country in Africa by area. In the southern part of the country, in the region of Correa, there is a Nuer tribe who live on cattle herding, and about 400,000 people live in a large grassland. To this day, the Nuer people have retained a strange custom that is unique in the world——— women "take wives".

During my work in Sudan, I once drove with my interpreter from Khartoum, the capital, to a remote city in the south to run errands. The men, women and children of the whole village are in high spirits, singing and dancing to the accompaniment of percussion instruments such as dham, which is unique to Africa. Every household slaughters sheep and cattle, and it is very lively and joyful. The two "newlyweds" dressed in fancy clothes, both wrapped in bright wedding dresses and covered with gorgeous veils on their heads, were actually women, and they sat sideways (not riding) on two donkeys.

The donkey is dressed in red and green, and the bells on the neck are crisp, and one after the other, surrounded by many relatives and friends, they walk to the ...... of the "groom".

Later, we learned that the traditional concept of the Nuer people is that a family with a wide key, a prosperous family and a full house of children and grandchildren is a sign of a strong family. Therefore, in order to achieve this purpose, women are also allowed to "take wives" in addition to the normal marriage of men and women. However, not all women are eligible to "take a wife".

The law strictly stipulates that she must meet special conditions to enjoy this right: that is, she must be barren and divorced; Or because of various accidents, he became the only survivor in the family. In this way, everyone sees her as a "man" who can "marry a wife".

In addition to the fact that the gender of this "husband" is different from that of men, the responsibilities and obligations of such "husbands" in the family are the same as those of real husbands. The purpose of her "wife" is also to reproduce offspring so that there will be successors. But how can such a "same-sex" family achieve this goal When it comes to procreation, the Nuer people don't mind blood relations very much.

Therefore, she invites a male relative to have children with her wife. In other words, she is a "nominal husband", and the children born to her wife are the crystallization of "extramarital affairs". Although she was an "illegitimate child", the children took her surname and called her "Daddy".

In this way, the offspring will rightfully be included in the "paternal" courtyard to continue the "incense". The children also respected her as much as they respected the male father, because she was the head of the growing family.

Both. It's called"Door-to-door"^_