The boyfriend suddenly distanced himself without warning, and even proposed to break up, why is this

directly pointed out that since they have reached the point of breaking up, they must die to understand.

No matter what he thinks, he has an obligation to be responsible for you, even if you are not together, you have to have an account.

You can't indulge him too much, and even want to impress him with your understanding, since he can say the breakup without hesitation, then it is useless for you to bear and pay silently, only by taking out the problem and explaining it clearly can you solve the problem.

Whether they can be together or not, at least there must be an explanation.

You may know what happened to you before, you have deceived him in the past, and you can't let him forgive! And it's about the dignity of the boyfriend, otherwise there wouldn't have been such a big reaction!

Think for yourself!

You should ask him.

We shouldn't be asked here.

I don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is.

If he didn't just say it.

In fact, there is no need for the landlord to pursue that explanation too much.

What can you do if you know it, why throw away your last dignity.

Just tell him that if there is any difficulty, you can work together.

If there is a problem, you can find a solution together.

Ask him if he's really figured it out and give him some more time.

You don't want to chase very close.

If he's really sure, let it go.

Believe me, there are a lot of good men.

Your boyfriend is the same as the one I just broke up with, he treats me like this, I think men will have a lot of excuses to break up But depending on what you know about him The most direct way is to ask for clarification as the one said upstairs, Don't push him too hard If he has shown that his heart is no longer there, then let him go If you really love him, you also want him to be happy and happy, right

I think yours is the same as my him, in fact, I have been thinking about the breakup in my heart for a long time, but I have been looking for the right time to tell you

Remember: Have you ever had any intimacy with other boys before? If it were me, it would be upset to see my girlfriend do this. Also: Are there any rumors?

Break up and break up, "instead of envying the fish in the abyss, it is better to retreat and close the net".

It's best to ask him clearly, so that he doesn't even tell you a reason for breaking up, but you have to be fully prepared!

Could it be that someone framed you and said something to him?

I think he has a ghost himself, and I'm embarrassed to say it

I would choose three because there are so many things that can't be explained.

He chose 1 and 3 as the wrong answer

Actually, the correct answer is second.

You don't love him, you just want to possess!

Pain should not hurt oneself.

Love yourself.

Everyone is different.

Unique.

You have to believe in yourself.

Someone will come and love you well.

Let's finish it early.

Calm down, it doesn't matter whose fault it is.

That's in the past, adjust your mood, there are still a lot of things to do in the future, and a lot of people are paying attention to you.

If he really doesn't love you, then don't think about him anymore, if a person's heart dies, it's really over, look forward, there will always be someone who belongs to you waiting for you not far away!

Yes, it is necessary, in psychology, there must be a ritual for the end of a thing so that our psyche will accept it. Like funerals, that's the case.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and they must be resolved, even if he is estranged from you, he will not tell you anything. It's okay to ask him out to talk, if you don't love it, tell it, don't delay each other, if you love, you have to be responsible for this love, if you can't take responsibility, it's better to get together with each other and disperse! No need to hide from each other!

So I advise you to make it clear to him that if he is a scumbag, then you don't have to turn back and leave him! There are many good men! Think about your own choice!

If you also have something wrong with each other and can communicate with each other and get along as before, then you are giving him a chance. After all, it is not easy for the two to fall in love from acquaintance, it is best to love well, and people's lives pass quite quickly, and they will grow old in a blink of an eye. So don't waste time in the story of love, you can live well, and if you can't, break up and be sad for a while.

It is not clear to ask this question, unless he wants to say it himself, and what he does not want to say may not be a valid reason.

It is necessary, instead of such unclear sad feelings and entanglements, it is better to ask clearly and leave a good memory for the two people.

Of course, you have to ask. Even if you break up, you have to be clear.

Yes, ask clearly, and make a clear decision.

He's like this, there's no need for that.

There's no need for it. You can find something better without him.

There's no need, he will have a showdown with you in his heart.

You can just tell him what you think now.

If it were me, I'd ask, I don't want to be confused.

Yes, ambiguity is the most uncomfortable.

If you want to know, just ask? Maybe you guessed wrong.

It's best to wait, don't worry, you can also continue to investigate the current prospective boyfriend.

Find out the reason from your heart. The two of them are external causes.

More than ever.

Not enthusiastic, indifferent, and unreasonable. **Less, the text message is gone, the morning and evening do not ask the version, and the topic becomes less. Right.

Sometimes you will find an excuse to refuse your request, and you don't care about your life and work. Many, many things, a man loves you you can find out from the details, and when he doesn't love you, he will also reflect from the details.

I'm bai

Women, I want to have a few more boyfriends to exercise myself, so that I can become more woman, not a woman.

Hui is cruel, and the answer is really cruel, he makes us very sad, only if he is promoted will he not be hurt so much. It's not just a use, if you really love, you will definitely love, if you can't love, there's no way, we're not saints, I don't love you but I can't love you because you love me. Men think the same way.

Therefore, only when we women become stronger, including improving our own connotation, will we not become a luxury or plaything for others.

It depends on the relationship between that man and you. If it's a boyfriend, then it's obvious. If it's an ordinary friend or a good friend, then there may really be something, and if that's the case, take the initiative to deal with him.

1. Either there's something going on! One day doesn't say anything. I probably haven't been in a hurry to contact you yet.

2. There can be any misunderstanding between the two.

Observe it, if it doesn't work, just ask directly, what's wrong with you, this sentence is very simple.

Maybe something happened suddenly. Don't decide so quickly that he's ignoring you, and watch for a few more days!

If you don't know, you have to ask him why! If you can't solve the problem, let's ask questions!

Is there some misunderstanding that touched his bottom line?

I think the best thing to do is to calm down and let go of the relationship and do something else. If he cares about you, he will take the initiative to find you, and if he has given up on the relationship, then it is useless to redeem it. You'd better pack up and go ahead to a new life.

Remember, don't let someone else's fault hurt you.

Let it go for a while, and when your friend is calm, talk to him about what's going on. If it weren't for the involvement of a third party, it wouldn't be a big deal, but it might be a test of your relationship, so don't think too much about it for now.

Good luck to you!

Bitterness is a man's excuse, and when he makes excuses, he may stop loving.

If you can, it's best to get to the bottom of the matter before making a decision. If you can overcome it, you work together, and if there is a third party, you must let go.

Wishing you happiness!

Don't believe him, just divide it, and have a backbone!!

Those who say that they have difficulties are men who are unwilling to take responsibility, and his suffering is likely to be that he is in love with another woman, but he prefers to say that he has to take responsibility for others, maybe the woman is pregnant or something!!

Yes, it's a pure lie, what does it have to do with your breakup? There is only one answer: he loves others.

Since it has been proposed, let's divide it, and the consequences of forcing it are very serious

Don't bother yourself

Let's take a look at it from various aspects.

You can also be friends for a while when you break up.

You talk to him, and see what he's up to, and if you can fix it, you'll be fine.

In fact, people who talk about breaking up directly and don't say the reason are really depressing. There are also men and women.

You just ask him, "When a person dies, there must be a reason." It's okay if you want to break up, but please tell me why, no matter how much it hurts me, I don't care.

I just want to know why. Don't worry, even if your cause hurts me, I still want to know. There is no right or wrong thing about feelings.

I just wish you could tell me why, I won't blame you. ”

I think he'll tell you.

I've been in a situation where the other person ended up telling me that he liked another girl. I smiled and said, "Congratulations, maybe she's a better fit for you than I am!"

I believe that love needs to be suitable, maybe we are not suitable at all. Wishing you happiness! Then I walked away with tears in my eyes.

But I don't blame him, I know that love is such a thing, and two people have to get along, and if they don't get along, they have to break up. Now I've found what I love.

Care more about him, understand what happened from the side, as long as it is not a third party's problem, it can be reversed.

The meaning is very obvious, this boy wants to break up with you because he doesn't want to disappoint you in the future, which is a respect for your feelings and a responsibility for you.

Because I may feel that I don't like you so much, or I may feel that you have a lot of things that are not suitable, because men will always consider rationally in the end, whether two people can enter into marriage and go to life.

He didn't hurt you by riding a donkey to find a horse when he was still with you, nor did he enjoy and take advantage of your good through your feelings for him, nor did he refuse to communicate with you with cold violence, but made this matter clear to you.

Such a boy, maybe losing is a loss, but fortunately you don't love to miss, why care about it for a long time, at least you once had it. I think you'll always find someone to be with.

Subtext, not seeing our future, excuses, perfunctory.

Some people may say that sometimes men say that "they can't see the future" is really not able to see the future, which is not an excuse or perfunctory.

But in fact, the subtext is actually to tell you that you are not his ideal object, you can talk to him, you can ask him, what kind of future he wants, what kind of partner he needs, why does he feel that there is no future with you, can this future be clearly explained by two people and then achieved together?

Of course, if he is still ambiguous and does not give you a definite answer, then he just doesn't want to be with you, if he can give you a definite answer after thinking carefully, then you should also reflect, can you do this, what kind of needs and future pursuits do you have, can you agree with each other?

Because, the people who really love each other, for the future, they will strive to make all kinds of breakthroughs, because the couples who have been together with various tests, and the couples who have faced various tests together have a deep sense of trust in each other, and also have a deep sense of dependence, knowing that it is not easy to be together, then they will also work hard to manage the relationship, and they can live a very happy life.

It's not what one person means, but.

It depends on the attitude of two people, whether you go your separate ways, or you redeem it, or he is reluctant to let you go, resulting in a reunion, different attitudes, different results are possible.

But you have to understand one thing, his attitude is no longer important, what matters is your own attitude, yes, at the moment when he proposed to break up, his reasons, his thoughts, don't matter. If he's talking to you about what your future with you will be together, you also need to pay attention to his thoughts, and he's here to break up, so why care what he means.

Then, be clear about your attitude, you can insist that the relationship between two people can overcome everything, and then pay a lot for him, let him get what he wants, and then get him (generally no one can do it, and there is a high probability that it will be empty in the end, but there are still many people who do it. It's okay to turn your head arrogantly and leave, live your own future, don't conspire with each other, and you can ignore this matter and enjoy life plainly, not thinking about feelings and the like. It's okay, you do what you think, not what others think, what you do.

To be honest, I think the boy's words are already obvious, and you understand that he means to be sad again, so it's better to skip the process and respect your own meaning.

If you insist on explaining the meaning of the boy, it's nothing more than that there is something uncomfortable in your interactions, the future or something, he may not understand what he wants in the future, most people are confused, for the contradiction between feelings and reality, nothing more than to see clearly, and a little more clearly two kinds, how can anyone overcome them all, saying that this is an excuse is good.

You can also say that this may be the result of the boy's deliberation, but, again, the important thing is that you, not the boy, whether his ultimate real purpose is for your good or something else, he is hurting you now, whatever your last choice is, keep some dignity for yourself.