My family won t promise me and my girlfriend, what should I do? Help me

In fact, in the end, it depends on your own determination not to be together, if you really want to be together, then persevere, there is no parent who does not want their children to be good, just afraid that they will be hurt, I believe that your parents are also for your good. But if you really love each other, you might as well bring her to your house and let your parents see her good, such as her filial piety, his virtuousness, her generosity, etc... Your parents will naturally like her when they see her good, and if your parents like her, it will be natural for you to be together...

Look at the 38 episodes or so of the Living Buddha Jigong, that story is the same as your situation, what is good in all aspects is not necessarily suitable for you, and you may not be happy and happy. Although your current girlfriend is not in good economic condition, it is not necessarily not suitable for you, and besides, there is a sentence that is not said as long as the problem that money can solve is not a problem, my parents and I were also against it when we were not married, but we persevered, as long as the two of you think it is appropriate, you really love each other, and everything else is not a problem, I hope you have a lover and eventually become a family, come on brother, don't do anything that makes you regret it in the future.

ps, my wife and I are very happy now, both parents are also very good, and our baby is 6 months old.

I wish you happiness.

No one can help you with this thing, and you don't have to calculate what will become of it in the future. Now that you like her, just know this with your family, so that everyone can also know that your ideas and positions, of course, are better to support.

Tell your parents solemnly and sincerely that you love her.

If your parents really love you, you will be with her in life and death, and they will agree to you being together, after all, it is their own children, how can they bear it? Say whatever you want and be flexible.

I wish you lovers to be married.

Don't cut it first!! You can continue to be together, I don't believe you two are 30 years old, and your parents still don't agree.

Whatever I say, I don't think anything has any effect.

When the time comes, your parents won't be able to answer.

As long as you love each other, it's worth talking to your parents!

If she is pregnant with a baby, she will be able to get married, but she will definitely not be happy in the future.

How big of a deal? Communicate with your parents, what you should say, and communicate in a timely manner.

You have some concerns, maybe your parents gave you a welcome gift when they met your ex-girlfriend, right? In our rural areas, boys usually take girls home to meet their parents, and the parents will give the girls a meeting gift. Even, your love funds are given by your parents.

If so, then you should make it clear to your parents.

Regardless of the family's economic conditions, no one's money comes for nothing. If you tell your parents about it, then, next time, you won't easily take your daughter home with a scattered child, and your parents won't give the money out easily.

You can find a time, such as after dinner, when everyone is empty, to talk to your parents about your breakup with your girlfriend. After all, both parents are from the past, and there will be some life experience more or less. By chatting with your parents, you can also sort out your own growth and shortcomings in this companionship or relationship, and humbly accept your parents' teachings.

Through such an open and honest communication with your parents, you can also let your parents understand your love mentality and let them know what you really value in your relationship, so that in the future, such as when helping you find a blind date or introduce a girlfriend, they will consider your requirements and ideas more and help you screen.

On the other hand, by understanding your breakup, parents will also have an understanding of today's young girls, then, they will also understand that in today's young people's emotional world, they can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Usually, a boyfriend invites his girlfriend to dinner, buys clothes for his girlfriend, and a little meeting gift is nothing. And, perhaps, as your parents, you already feel that you have spent a lot of money on the matter of your love, but according to today's standard of living, maybe, other girls think that it is just a normal exchange of courtesies.

I think that during your relationship, your girlfriend herself also spent money and bought you gifts, and it is impossible for you to be responsible for all the expenses.

Further, you can also ask your parents that you will be responsible for the cost of falling in love in the future. Just let them take care of themselves. I still say the same thing, don't do porcelain work without steel diamonds, if the boy himself doesn't have a certain spending power, why make a girlfriend who burns a lot of money?

Talk openly and honestly with your parents, let them understand the situation you are facing to have a girlfriend, and let them stop spending money in vain. Getting a girlfriend and finding a life partner is not a trivial matter, let's go and find the person who lives in a down-to-earth manner!