What do you think about the sudden breakup?

We went to play together at this time last week, and we were still very nice to me, and when we ate, we warmed up the cold yogurt, and I said, "Cyy, you must always love me, don't leave me, okay?" Then on the third day, we broke up, very handsome agreed, in the middle of the night, I couldn't sleep, so sad, I couldn't help but call him **, the first time I didn't pick up, the second time I hung up, three times I hung up, four times I picked up, I cried, especially spineless, no matter what the problem he just is, no, don't, I'm sorry.

Hang up, we haven't been in touch for four days now, in fact, I really can't understand why it suddenly did this to me, everything was so good and so good before.

6 years in a relationship, 4 years apart, currently single. When you first break up, it's like a divorce. It's just now, when I hear others together, I want to say that I wish to have a lover who will eventually become a family, and when I see someone else getting married, I want to say that I cherish it, and my life is still normal, but just like missing my deceased relatives, I often look up at the stars in the middle of the night, saying that I cherish it.

After breaking up, I was also in love, but I really experienced it to understand what it means to be unable to love hard anymore. I envy you to see each other, but I really don't want to see you again. I don't even want to think about it in my dreams.

I hope that I can at least meet someone who can cherish each other. After all, I still want to live a good life for you.

After 3 years of love, they broke up peacefully. The reason is that the three views are different, and it is inevitable that the moment will come. It doesn't feel like the world is collapsing.

It's just that one night I was so hungry that I fried two eggs. Because I hated washing dishes, I ate it directly on the pan. After eating, I realized that I had hardly washed the dishes in the past 3 years.

My breakup was also quite sudden, I chatted very well a few days ago, and broke up directly a few days later. Probably I called him ** and asked him why he ignored me, and he cried as he spoke, and he directly said that he had talked so much and had never seen such an unreasonable ...... as meAt that time, I panicked and asked him out to meet and talk, but I learned that he reconciled with me because I was too uncomfortable and not because he still liked me. He said he liked the other girl more.

I didn't expect these things, but I was suddenly dumped and asked him several times if he could not break up, but it didn't work, haha. Suddenly, I probably can't accept it for a while, and then I will become more and more aggrieved.

Three and a half years together, from sophomore year to one year of graduation, it was me who took the initiative to confess, and he slowly changed from a cold and dead tsundere at the beginning to a little boy who would be coquettish in front of me. I always remember that when he looked at me, his eyes were full of love and tenderness, and the most obvious thing about liking a person was to laugh, until the last time I saw him, I opened the door and saw that he still couldn't help laughing, the happiness that came out of my heart, I liked to be with him, I liked to stick to him and be coquettish. The breakup was very sudden, because of some external factors had to be separated, I didn't dare to say it in person, for fear that I would collapse and relent, so I sent a message to ask him:

Honey, are we going to break up? He replied to me after a long time: yes, baby.

Then there was no further contact.

Two and a half years of the seven-year itch is a long time, right? I think it's so long, 15-22 years old, all the little couples have experienced what we may have experienced, but we still broke up, there is no third party, no pain, even the tears are just wet eyes and go back, the most painful love is the extreme blandness of love, we are the same, I have thought deeply about the reason why we broke up, I think it is because of each other for too long, and there is no better relationship sublimation (I was in my junior year and she just interned and couldn't think about marriage), when each other grew up and matured, Even the living habits are almost the same, but they only maintain a love relationship, there is no more solid economic foundation and relationship foundation, and it takes too long to change from love to family, and there is no marriage as the basis of the relationship family affection plus two and a half years of long-distance distance, this love collapse is a matter of time. Before we separated, we were left with only a mechanical **, no emotion at all, it was very uncomfortable on the day of separation, but I accepted it very calmly, today is the third day, my life has not changed at all, it may just be one less ** every day.

This relationship is very tired and tormented in the end, I think that the dullness can last for a long time, and now I think about it, it must also be built on the basis of a stable relationship, and we have fallen in love at a time when we shouldn't have gone for seven years, if it was 18 years old, we would definitely get married, but now we are tired of each other.

Desperately convince myself that it would be good for him to be happy, and it would be okay for me to be alone and uncomfortable. At least we didn't break up because of a misunderstanding, it was because he didn't love me anymore. It doesn't divide now, and it won't come out in the future. He's not that good. It's enough to have it, and he's happy now.

If you want to ask what it feels like, my feeling is that I don't feel it! I started to fall in love in the second semester of my sophomore year, I was in a different place for two years when I was studying, and I lived together for four years after graduation, and people all over the world thought we were going to get married, but we broke up at this juncture. Don't say that my brother and I are ruthless, maybe only those who have been more than 3 years can understand that kind of helplessness.

Summary. Ordinary quarrels, if there are feelings and want to reconcile, you can redeem them when you meet alone.

What is the reason for the breakup?

It can be summed up in a convenient way.

Is it a sudden meeting between two people alone or in a group?

Quarrel. Are you a boy or a girl?

Ordinary quarrels, if there are feelings and want to reconcile, you can redeem them when you meet alone.

Man. She didn't know I was going to her.

Do you want to surprise yourself?

How he reacted when he saw me.

In fact, just grasp the problem you quarrel with and solve it.

If you break up, the other party may be a little indifferent when they see you.

If you're in a good relationship, I'm going to be surprised to see you.

Is there any contact after the breakup, no contact.

That's the time to contact the girl before you go.

Let me know. The first is respect, to avoid girls not coming out to meet after they go.

The second is to see what attitude the girl has and whether she is willing to meet.

Suddenly see her. The other party may be surprised.

Because the specific reason for the breakup is not clear here, you can see if you want to meet suddenly according to the actual situation.

If the other party proposes to break up, it may be more indifferent to meet suddenly.

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1.The horoscope is not worthy. Some people break up because they and their target's zodiac signs are said to be incompatible. This reason for judging feelings based on horoscopes is a bit bizarre.

2.The family didn't like it. Some people are forced to break up because their family doesn't like the partner. This kind of reason makes people feel that they have no independent judgment and are too casually affected by the outside world.

3.I like netizens. After chatting with netizens, some people suddenly felt that they liked the old netizen more, so they broke up with the current one. This kind of netizens, who have never met in real life, can make people break up for a reason.

4.I'm bored. Someone who has been with the object for a while feels that life is too boring and boring, so they break up. This reason makes people feel that the object is simply like a toy, and it is discarded without freshness.

5.The gift to Zheng Hanxiao on Valentine's Day is not good. Someone broke up with someone because the gift given by the object on Valentine's Day was too ordinary and felt insincere. This reason for breaking up because of temporary dissatisfaction is really a bit excessive.

The above outrageous reasons for breaking up make me feel that the relationship does not seem to be based on mutual trust and tolerance. Breaking up is like playing a game, once it gets boring or a small conflict arises, it will be over. This kind of attitude may not be able to sustain a long-term relationship.

However, this is just a shout with some bizarre reasons, in fact, everyone's reasons for breaking up are very complex and not easy to generalize. But the bizarre reasons are incomprehensible.