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I'm also a man who loves to nag, I'm not a big man, I think it's a good thing for a man to nag, he loves to nag to show that she has you in her heart, I'm afraid you will forget some things you shouldn't forget, take these things as your own business, I'd rather say more than let you suffer, if one day she doesn't nag, it means that he feels it doesn't matter!
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It may be that my husband is more careful, and he loves himself and cares about his family, and he can also talk to him when he feels annoyed, and the two of them should communicate more.
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Men love nagging is more difficult to accept than women's nagging, you should be kind to tell your husband, because this habit is tolerable at home, and others will not like it outside!
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I'm very happy, I care about you, my husband is at home on the Internet and reading e-books.
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Every time my husband nags me, he says that there is harmony in the refrigerator, you see that you are busy making money and you have to be busy caring about me, don't get angry. As soon as he heard that, he went to the side.
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I'm nagging in our family, maybe out of the same mood as your husband, I don't like anything, and I demand too much from each other. You're either doing what he says, or you're going to have an endless bickering.
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My husband is also very nagging, haha, I'm just the left ear in and the right ear out of the kind of thing, ignore him if you don't listen, hum! Love to nag, tell yourself to go, haha.
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Generally, we women like to nag, you shouldn't have just discovered this problem with your husband, right? I had no choice but to listen.
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It's actually quite happy to have a nagging husband, but when I talk to him, he ignores him.
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Summary. Hello dear, first of all, he doesn't think you are nagging, because he was always nagged by his parents before, and he feels that he is not trusted, and you need to talk to him well.
Hello dear, first of all, he doesn't think you are nagging, because he was always nagged by his parents before, and he feels that he is not trusted, and you need to talk to him well.
Then there is the need for him to understand that your nagging is not because you don't trust him, but because you love him.
In the end, nagging is just caring, but expecting the other party to change, you just need to solve it gently in another way, no one likes to be nagged, try to change, run in with each other, and communicate more.
My husband borrowed an online loan to pay it off, I'm afraid of him borrowing again, he said no, I still don't believe it, how can I say that I can let him live a good life, there are two children at home, I watch the children at home, I can't go to work, he earns his own money to support the family, before borrowing an online loan is also a lot of pressure in life, so I borrowed, how do I say, in order to make him responsible and self-motivated, the main thing is that I don't have a sense of security now, I'm afraid that he still has, I asked him if he has paid it all back, he said it's over, it's all paid off. But I still didn't feel safe in my heart, so I nagged him.
My husband and I paid off the online loan, it was my parents who paid us off the money, he wrote an IOU to my parents, promising how long to pay it off, but I was afraid that he would borrow again, I had no sense of security, how did I guide him, let him live a solid and stable life with me, I was very anxious I never looked at his mobile phone, and I could see how much he paid his salary, and I checked his bank statement, he took screenshots on WeChat every day, I want to say how to guide him to live a good life together, let him be responsible, give me a sense of security, I nagged him and asked him all day if he was borrowing, and he was very irritable.
Calm down, talk to your husband, if there is a conflict in the future, how should you communicate, each of them will say their thoughts, and then find a way that is acceptable.
At that time, when it was paid off, my parents also communicated with him, and I heard that the money was paid back to you and let him live a good life, he said to write an IOU, and my father said that he could trust him and let him live a good life, but I was still very scared in my heart.
I just chatter with him, and it's annoying for him.
Actually, men say this, to put it simply, it's like one of his scars, and then you're unraveling. So he will be impatient.
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It's a good thing not to nag and not to blame. Maybe it's because of his personality, or maybe it's the way he does things, he thinks there's no need to do things differently, he should learn to look at it correctly, so he behaves like this. This kind of chain feels very happy and very down-to-earth.
It's also a state that many people are looking for. Take women as an example, and see what kind of good women you find.
Be a gentle and considerate woman. Men looking for a wife have to live, so when they really marry a wife, men pay more attention to the woman's character, not just her appearance. We all know that there is a common phenomenon, the more successful the career, the more capable men, the wives around them are rarely beautiful as flowers, most of them are mediocre, which also shows that men will not judge people by their appearance.
A gentle and considerate wife can make a man feel the love of his wife and the warmth of the family, and give him a sense of security and happiness. In a family, if either spouse can get this feeling in the spouse, such a marriage is successful and happy.
With a stable family and a virtuous wife, a man can not be distracted, devote himself to work and career, and be willing to work hard for the family. A good woman can bring out the greatest potential to a man, and let a man's ability to earn wealth be brought into full play, and he will naturally become richer and richer. Maybe in real life, I have indeed seen a man get rid of his wife after he has money, but it is rare to see a man who quarrels every day with a lot of money.
Be a smart woman. As long as a smart woman is of the same mind as a man, she will always be a good helper for a man's work and career. After all, a person's wisdom is limited, and with such a woman as a wife, a man will be more satisfied.
Whether at work or in business, a man will always get good advice and strategies from his wife to help him avoid risks and start his career. As the saying goes, behind a successful man there must be a good woman. In the family, the role of the wife is not only the man's partner, but also the man's friend and career assistant.
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If you say that the time of the beginning of the relationship, you are in this pattern, then it is very likely that you are not suitable for yourself, just two lonely souls looking for someone to accompany you. Now that he's starting to dislike you, it's better to stop the loss as soon as possible! The deeper a woman gets into a relationship, the more it hurts.
But I don't think you would have been like this when you first got together, otherwise you wouldn't have agreed to be with him. You should have been in love, had each other's little sweetness, had little surprises, but after being together for a long time, many things are not so careful. So the sweet love turned into a dull one.
Maybe all feelings will end up flat, because we say that what is ordinary is life. But two people who really love each other will not change their feelings of caring for each other, but will care more and more the longer they get along. The romance of the form decreases, but the act of poking the heart increases.
But it's clear that the two of you are not in this state, and the relationship between the two of you seems to be about to run out, and now it will dissipate as long as there is a little wind and grass. The two of them have no loving interaction, a little concerned and irritable, and the answer is already obvious.
I think you yourself should be well aware of your relationship state, but you just don't want to face reality. Regardless of whether he has two minds or not, these actions already show that he has no mind for you. It doesn't matter in his eyes anymore, and you have nothing to do with him anymore.
He doesn't care how you feel, and he doesn't care if the relationship can go on. If you really want to be together, the two of them will find an opportunity to have a good chat and solve this problem. Otherwise, it's better to break up early and find someone who really cherishes you.
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Of course, you will continue to nag, because when men dislike your old love to nag, most of them are complaining rather than disgusting.
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Try to control your emotions and tell him calmly, I can not nag, but you have to be conscious of doing things yourself. If you can do it, then there is no need for everyone to be angry. If you can't, then you're going to have to accept my nagging.
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Then you don't nag, be concise and to the point, only say every sentence once, of course, in a better tone, and never like quarrels and fights.
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Try to control yourself, men themselves like to be quiet, when you want to nag you find a place to be quiet, so that you can go on permanently.
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Try to think about it before you speak, and don't take care of everything, some things are clear in your heart, and everything is on your lips, which is the easiest to make others feel annoyed or nagged.
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Then I won't nag, and I won't nag me anymore, and I won't nag when he begs me to nag him again.
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Then correct it. Just say the general things once, the important things still have to be said three times, and don't mention the trivial things in the past.
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Break up with him, so that everyone is relaxed, he won't feel that you are nagging, and you won't be annoyed. Some boys just don't want girls to take care of it.
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What men seem to hate the most is that women nag, endlessly, and one thing can be said over and over again, so it's best for you to stop talking about one thing to the point.
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Try to nag in front of him as little as possible, and if you really can't help it, then go outside for a walk, or go dancing with a few sisters to divert your attention.
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If you meet a very nagging husband, then what you can do as a wife is to listen with the greatest patience. There seems to be no other way than to listen. Of course, when a very nagging husband meets a very nagging wife, then these two people are definitely a perfect match!
Life after marriage is estimated to be much more lively...
In fact, there are many kinds of nagging husbands, sometimes when you come home from work, your husband nags you about things at work, maybe the pressure of this day's work is too great, and you feel uncomfortable in your heart, and it is much easier to find someone to complain. Then as a wife, you might as well cook a good meal, wait for your husband to come home, accompany him during the meal, chat while eating, or quietly listen to him whin. Help him guide him through the maze if necessary.
Help him relieve the pressure of work, even if it can't help anything, at least he can get some comfort in his heart, so that after a meal, the complaint is over, the meal is full, and there is no resentment in his stomach. Rest comfortably for the night before taking on the challenges of the next day.
There is also a kind of husband's nagging, which belongs to the wife's own problem. For example, if you break a bowl today and a plate tomorrow, there is no reason for such a wife not to let others nag, if you don't nag again, it is estimated that this family will ruin you! Haha, so as a wife, you should reflect on yourself:
The husband's nagging originated from himself, and his purpose was also for the good of the family, in order to help himself get rid of these bad problems. Isn't it much more comfortable for you to think about it this way? Do you feel that the fault is all in yourself?
Isn't it time to fix your bad habits? Then, start from yourself, do things seriously, be more solid, and your husband's nagging will be cured.
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