How did you get through that dark period when you just graduated from college?

I have been working in the private sector for about half a year, and I have learned a lot, I am a computer science major, and I am a geology major in graduate school, and computer science students are able to cope with most jobs. In fact, I can learn a lot of things in the private industry, especially after graduating from school and entering the society, which is a period of long-term knowledge, so I work hard to learn professional knowledge, especially practical ability. It can be said that I was very busy and tired during this time in the private company, but I was very fulfilling, because I did not sign a state-owned enterprise, and I still felt very lost in my heart.

In order not to think wildly, I accumulated a lot of knowledge and skills during this time, which also laid a solid foundation for me to go to a state-owned enterprise later. After about eight months of work, I was successfully assigned to a state-owned enterprise for another two years of grassroots internship. These two years are also a very good tempering of their character, creating a hard-working spirit, I want to say that everyone has their own ideals, has their own ideal job.

Therefore, we should strive to pursue the goal in our hearts, I believe that as long as you have firm confidence and lasting perseverance, you will become strong no matter what platform you are on, so that we can spread our wings and soar no matter which platform we are on! Let's do it!

I feel that learning is useless. Then in the face of contempt and indifference, learn to rationally recognize the world, first know the hot and cold state of the world, the cold and warm human feelings, and then reflect on yourself, let yourself calm down, strengthen yourself first strengthen your heart, and a strong heart must enrich your knowledge reserves. Begin to study again, learn literature and history, learn professional theories, and also learn about human feelings, self-cultivation, erudition, discernment, knowledge, and self-improvement.

However, no matter when or what the situation is, the ideal obsession in the heart has not been diminished, and the process of perseverance is enough to be gratified for a lifetime.

When I first graduated, I failed the graduate school entrance examination and entered an education company in Shanghai by mistake. I told myself that I should be able to support myself independently, collect the scattered heart of my college days, not be unwilling to do this and that, and be clear that I have no experience or experience, that is, I am here to study, and I can't think about travel every day and start working hard for life. When I entered the company, the salary during the internship was super low, and I was basically a cheap worker in the company.

However, I still worked very hard to do my job well, and at the beginning it was all at the stage of "paying tuition". Every day, I try to go to more classes and earn more money, at least I can't ask my family for money, I have to be able to support myself, which is very hard, but I have benefited a lot.

I went out of the society to look for a job, and I didn't have much money with me, so I applied for a job at a company and was rejected on the grounds that I had no experience and hit a wall. I feel a little uncomfortable, but the east is not good for the west, and I believe that there will always be a company that suits my strengths. The second time I applied for the job, although the probation period was one month, but I was fired after the expiration of the term, I went to bed at night and recalled that there was no play, summed up the experience, rested for half a month and then applied for another company, during the probationary period, positive, and was appreciated by the company's boss at the expiration of the term, and was a technician.

Seize this opportunity, work hard, and finally have an outstanding. During this time, it is difficult for others to experience depression in their hearts. It is by believing in yourself that you will overcome difficulties.

A wonderful job in school. was confused, every day in the workshop, what dry and tasteless electricity to do, to put it bluntly, is an electrician. After a year and a half of work.

Seeing no hope, I boasted about my backpack, stepped on the train to the south, submitted my resume every day in the big city in the south, stayed in the hotel, and after more than a week of finding my favorite job, I immediately stepped on the train to the place where I worked, and has been working in the south ever since. About 3 years later, I returned to my place without hesitation, looked for a job from scratch, and found a so-called state-owned enterprise with a very low salary and nothing to do. I went to the education and training industry for half a year, ushered in my first business, established an education company, and has been working until now.

Every day, I work hard to find a job, interview, expect, disappoint, and look forward to it. Then gather with friends like an adult, pretend to be mature and vicissitudes, and talk about the world, ideals, reality, and the future in the party. In fact, my heart is extremely empty and confused.

At first, I didn't know how tired I was at work, and sometimes I didn't get off until 11 o'clock at night. The subway almost got off work, and it was half past twelve when I finally walked to the apartment. Many times only eat one meal a day, go to the restaurant at the beginning of the home-cooked restaurant, cheap and full, then Shaxian, then Lanzhou, and then start to eat in a better restaurant, accompanied by the continuous salary **.

Later, I started to rent a house and pay for rent, water and electricity.

Overall, it was a painstaking and unforgettable toss, my first job after graduation, parent-child swimming coach. My love for my work and my English skills made me improve a lot, and I was soon promoted to coach supervisor and began to get in touch with management. Even though the salary is not much, I feel that I have gained a lot.

Although it is not a very good choice from the perspective of 3 years later, it is really difficult to rent a house to eat at the beginning.

Crazy overtime, plus at work and at home. Buy, read, read, and read books. Look at the case, look at the meeting minutes, look at the project information, and look at all the materials with words that the company can see. Every day I try to make sense of every thing and every message that everyone has to say to me.

Have you ever been confused? I was confused, that feeling that everything was not going well, the whole person was impatient, low self-esteem, I sprinkled all the bad temper on my mother who loved me the most, at that time in college has been relying on the side hustle to make money, there is also a part of the savings, graduation decisively went to another city, and then later started his own business with everything now, looking back, confusion is just a small grain of sand on the road of life.

It's all too common for people in their twenties to feel lost, and many people can't see their future clearly.

First, find the right goal and choose a direction for yourself.

Choose a direction for yourself, the direction of Sakura Xinfeng that you are interested in, plunge headlong, when we pursue the ideal, we can not ignore the practical problems, the most perfect is to be able to combine the ideal with the reality, and find a job you love the most. If you haven't found the job you want to do, then face the reality and go ahead and solve the problem of food and clothing.

Even if it's a job you don't like, do it well enough and then chase your dreams. Don't give up easily until you have to, otherwise the next direction will still be the same, and finding the right goal is the most important.

In fact, it is not terrible to be confused, but the most feared is to linger.

2. Cultivate a positive attitude towards life.

Develop good living habits, insist on reading and exercising, and there is always one thing for body and soul to be on the road.

Go out and talk to people. It is possible to go on a trip and watch a movie. Don't live alone all day, most graduates start to be worn out by work after leaving school, and are robbed of space for the exchange of ideas and communication by busyness, so be sure to keep in touch with a few friends, communicate with each other in a timely manner, and be honest with each other.

Traveling is also a good way to decompress, and thinking on the road will make people feel enlightened. When a person is broad-minded and has a long-term vision, the direction of life will gradually become clear.

3. Dare to try and make mistakes, and don't be afraid to make mistakes.

Dare to face challenges, whether it is at work or in life, if you don't try, you never know how capable you are.

Decisive and brave, just graduated, many people always wronged themselves, all kinds of tolerance, many employers are taking advantage of the weakness of college students' job hunting, low wages, cheap labor, and vigorously squeezing rest time. So if you are sure that there is no future in a company, you should be brave enough to leave and find a better platform, and don't believe the pie and promises of any small company.

Fourth, don't stop learning.

Many college students think that drinking and socializing is the key to drinking and socializing after graduating and entering the society, forgetting the importance of learning, there are always people who work harder than you, and opportunities will always favor those who are ready at all times, so after graduation, first of all, you must delve into the work you are engaged in, when you are professional and strong, it will come naturally. In short, don't stop yourself from learning.

If you are willing to work hard, the worst outcome in life is just a late bloomer.