My mother died. Where should filial piety cards be worn? Can I wear it to work?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    0, my mother died, I should take it on my arm or chest after work, I think you can't take it to work, because you go to work, you can't take filial piety with you, so that the boss will not be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After the death of the mother, the filial piety card should be worn on the left chest. In ancient times, the filial piety card was worn on the left chest, and then the hemp crown was worn on the head, which was to express respect and mourning for the deceased. You can't wear it when you go to work because it may affect communication and communication with colleagues and customers, and it will also give people the impression of disrespect for work and unprofessionalism.

    In addition to not wearing it to work, it should also be avoided when participating in public events, banquets and other social occasions, because it is necessary to show a dignified and professional image in these occasions. When other elders in the family pass away, the way and color of the filial piety badge are different, but they all need to follow the corresponding rules and etiquette.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is generally worn on the left arm, and it can also be brought to work for about a month.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, you can bring, male left, female right.

    If you want to wear it on the left, you can see that the mother has died, because the laughter shows the heart from the outside. Therefore, those who are alive should be filial piety.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a new era, my mother has passed away, and generally speaking, I wear a scarf on my arm to express that I miss my mother and go to work, so there is no need to bring it, because when you have been off for three days, just bring it to commemorate your mother, and there is no need to bring it to work.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't bring it to work, because you died in front of you, you should enjoy the funeral for her, but after the funeral, the enjoyment card should be put away. You can't take it to someone else's house.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The death of a loved one at home is more sad, you can do it according to the customs of your hometown, now is a fast-paced society, we don't wear it when we go to work here, and we can't go to other people's homes for a month.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The custom of the Chinese is that men are left and women are right! A ...... that can be worn even when you don't go to work

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In our case, the old man died, the children wore filial piety cards, and the mother wore the right side.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In the case of the male left and the female right, if you are a male on the left.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This kind of question is done according to local customs, ask more elderly people around you, and really help you look forward to it

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How long does the filial piety card be worn after the death of the old man, and the son of the stove and the woman have to keep filial piety for their father and mother, and they have to keep filial piety for three years in ancient times. Modern times should not be less than a year. During the period of filial piety, children are taboo to wear brightly colored clothes, wear heavy makeup, and drink for fun.

    Customs around the world, some have been worn for a year, some have been worn for five or seven, and what the general manager says when holding a funeral at home will be explained. You can't bring a filial piety badge to work, and you can't wear it when you go to a home with an elderly person. It's the first seven to bring, and then.

    Three. VII.V.

    Seven, seven, seven seven these three days also brought. But there is still a wear.

    A year's.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at the local customs and personal life.

    Before, of course, you had to wear it for three years.

    Now, the stool roller is a personal decision, busy with work and even working in the field, and after the funeral, he will remove filial piety.

    Generally, the rough destruction is seventy-seven, or a hundred days of filial piety.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This depends on the customs of your side of the silver withering, a long and defeated banquet is worn until the old man dies, if he does not pass away, then he will always wear it, because this is the last thought of your grandmother, your grandmother will be very happy to see you wearing their ** in heaven.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The customs vary from place to place, and we generally wear them for a year, and we can't wear brightly colored clothes during the year. The Chinese New Year does not stick couplets for three years.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can wear it for a longer time at home, and you can not wear it when you go out to work.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Generally, it takes three months to wear it, and there is also a saying of 7749 days.

    Remember. 1 day. It was the day of the burial.

    The old rule is that my father died and took filial piety for 2 and a half years, and my mother died for 3 years with filial piety. Others decrease according to the distance of relatives.

    The traditional custom is 3 years, and now it is generally 7 7 days, which is 49 days.

    3 years old, but now they advocate science, so you can do it at any time.

    In the past, it was necessary to serve filial piety for three years, but now it is generally 7749 days and 7 days.

    Before the burial, you must wear filial piety for your aunt, and then you can not wear it, and your children must be filial piety.

    At least 7 days. This should depend on the customs of each place, and we are here for 7 days of hail.

    It takes three years for sons and daughters who are not out of the cabinet to keep filial piety for their father and later for their mother, who died with their father. If the mother dies before the father, the filial piety is only required for one year. This is the highest level of decay in the five suits. The grandson belongs to the second class of Qi decay, and only needs to keep filial piety for his grandfather for one year.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After the death of his parents, the filial piety card worn on his arm was worn for no less than one year. In the forties and fifties, it was generally worn for three years, but now it is mostly about a year.

    During the period of filial piety, children are not allowed to wear brightly colored Lu Nianhe clothes, wear heavy makeup, and drink for fun. The customs are different in different places, some places wear it for a year, and some places wear it after five or seven, and the specific time is subject to local customs. During the period of filial piety, you can go to the home of the elderly, but you can't bring the filial piety card. Gao Dan.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. When the elderly die, they can wear filial piety for three days, five days, or seven days.

    2. According to traditional customs, the elderly are generally parked at home for three, five and seven days; Then carry out the burial. After the old man's burial is completed, the filial piety cloth can be removed, and the filial piety cloth needs to be "torn" open and "burned" with fire. "Burning" it with fire is to "drive away the sneaky; Because, sneaky afraid of fire.

    3. Traditional customs believe that the baby will not leave the mother's arms for three years after birth, and always needs the care of his parents. Within three years of mourning, the filial son cannot live at home. Need to guard the grave for your parents.

    Build a small shed in front of your parents' graves, wear filial piety clothes, sleep on straw mats, pillow bricks and clods, and express your nostalgia for your parents.

    How long do you have to wear a filial piety armband:

    It should be worn for at least 49 days.

    49 days is also the time for the deceased to be exceeded, and after the deceased is sent away, the armband can be removed. In different places, there will be some deviations in customs, it is better to ask the local elders, and in some places it is better to wear filial piety for 100 days or three years.

    The armbands that have been carried cannot be discarded casually, nor can they be given away, or they can be burned in a random place, which is too disrespectful to the deceased. After wearing it according to the time, when it is time to pay tribute to people again, they will be brought over and burned.

    Do you have to wear filial piety's armband when you go to work:

    It still depends on the company, and different companies have different regulations.

    If the company doesn't have a rule, and you don't think there's anything yourself, then you can still wear it.

    Although that being said, it is not recommended to wear it, after all, work is the place of work, and personal matters and feelings should not be brought to the workplace.

    Wearing an armband is just a formality, as long as your heart arrives.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When you are alive, you are worthy of him, people die like lights out, and it doesn't matter if you bring filial piety or not.

    To wear filial piety to the deceased old man, what color is the filial piety card on the arm according to generation? How many days do you usually wear it?

    According to tradition, there are generations of mourning and filial piety clothes, and there should be no mistake about it: white cloth - the deceased's peers, maternal relatives Linen cloth - sons and daughters-in-law; Xuanbu - grandnephew Light cloth - great-grandchildren Yellow cloth - great-grandchildren Red cloth - direct great-great-grandson (because the great-great-grandson is a descendant of five generations, the red color implies the meaning of laughter and mourning) Adults wear straw hoops made of mourning cloth, and children wear hat-shaped bags; Men wear straw sandals and women wear cloth shoes. The division of filial piety is the male with the left wrist filial piety ball, and the female knot on the hair; And men are more divided into white, blue, blue, yellow, four colors, to be removed after the color in turn, in ancient times called filial piety.

    Today, everything has been simplified. It mainly depends on the different customs of various places, and is generally divided into three days, seven days, and one hundred days.

    The old man passed away, and the filial piety card should be taken for a few days.

    It is male or female, and it should be determined according to local customs, there is no unified norm for this, you ask the old people nearby, it is the old people in the hometown, and it should be in accordance with the customs of the hometown.

    How long does the filial piety card take when the father dies.

    The old man's saying is that after five or seven, it usually takes 35 days, and now it is not so particular, and it is generally not brought for 10 days.

    How long does it take to wear the filial piety card after the death of the grandfather.

    Generally, you should wear enough "first seven".

    In the absence of form, as long as there is filial piety in the heart, it is enough, and now the requirements for these things are not so strict. After all, there are a lot of things in life, and I think your grandfather is in the spirit of heaven, and he shouldn't want you to delay your normal life in order to keep filial piety. The activity is meaningful, this is the greatest filial piety to the elderly.

    After the death of the parents, how long do you have to wear the filial piety badge on the arm.

    According to the old law, it should be worn for three years, the middle law will be seven, and the new law will be three days.

    How long do you have to carry the filial piety badge on your arm after the death of a family member.

    The traditional custom is 3 years, and now it is generally 7 7 days, which is 49 days.

    Grandma died, should I bring that black filial piety card? How long do you want to bring it?

    Now this kind of thing is not so traditional, and generally speaking, it is okay to wear it when attending a funeral.

    My mother has been dead for more than 100 days, and how long does it take to wear the filial piety card.

    Generally speaking, it can be removed after five or seven (35 days). After 100 days, of course, you can do without it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no provision for this, and it is generally taken to the elderly for burial, and some are brought to the elderly for cremation. After the death of the elderly, the children should ask the monks to spend time for the old man on the third day after the death of the old man, and the monks who have exceeded the time should recite sutras for the old man. The ashes of the elderly after the excession are generally brought back, can also be placed in the temple, or buried in the mountain.

    After the death of the elderly, within three days, ask the monks to overtake the old man, and the ashes of the old man after the excess, if you want to take them back, they can also be placed in the temple or buried on the mountain. If the old man dies normally, the children should wear a shroud for the old man, and the material of the shroud is generally made of cloth or paper, and the shroud is generally the last clothes worn by the old man before his death. After the old man wears a shroud, the children should put on the old man what the old man loved to eat during his lifetime, and if there are conditions, the children can make a mound for the old man.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Wearing filial piety cards should be noted to last for 100 days, male left and female right.

    After the death of their parents, children are expected to be filial to their parents. The filial piety card is a new type of funeral supplies in recent years, and the grandchildren and great-grandchildren are red and yellow trimmed respectively, and they are also worn by men on the left arm and women on the right arm. The wearing time of filial piety cloth is after the funeral, you can take it off, burn for seven days, burn for 100 days and still need to wear it, and do not wear it after 100 days.

    The wearing time of black yarn and filial piety is 100 consecutive days, and when the ancestors burn it for 100 days, they can be taken off. The taboo thing is that you should not go to the moon room and the cave room within 100 days with filial piety, and if you must participate, you need to "remove the service". You can't wear filial piety to go to other people's homes, and if you have to go to someone else's house to search for manuscripts, you also need to "remove the clothes".

    Funeral considerations

    1. Clothing. Men and women should wear dark clothing such as black or blue, men can wear white shirts or dark shirts underneath, women should not wear lipstick, and scarves in bright tones should not be worn.

    2. Jewelry. Try not to wear jewelry, if you need to wear it, you can consider the dull and plain jewelry world code filial piety or try not to leak, do not leak to wear**, this is a great disrespect to the deceased.

    3. Condolence sentences. Care and comfort are very necessary for the relatives of the deceased, some excessive lifting such as crying should be avoided as much as possible, and attention should also be paid to the wording, as a condolence sentence, it is generally possible to say: "I am really sad that something like this happened, please mourn." ”

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