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In adolescence, you must control yourself, know what you should do at this stage, and don't be hot-headed. In fact, there will be no certainty in the relationship at this time, and there are very few of my classmates who are still together a few years after graduation, so don't let yourself waste your precious time on such fruitless things. Someone confesses to you that you may be better, and you should use your existing resources to make yourself better, and then think about relationship issues.
Don't do what you should do in the fall at the age of spring, in that case, you will put the cart before the horse. If you are also interested in each other, the two of you can support each other and progress together. If two people can be admitted to the same university together, or if both of them go to university, they can be together again.
Don't think about these questions now, liking someone is wanting to progress with the other person.
I listened to Jay Chou's "Waiting for You to Get Out of Class" in Netease Cloud** before, and I saw such a sentence in the comments, "When I was the most beautiful and incapable, I met the girl I wanted to take care of the most, but I could only wait for you to get out of class, I want to wait for you to get off work, the second half of my life, and wait until I have the ability to take care of you", "For more than ten years, Jay Chou sang: 'The day you skip class, the day the flowers fall, which classroom is there, how can I not see it. Today he sings
Three years of high school, why am I, why don't I study hard'". If you really want to be with each other in the future, you need to know what you should do at this age.
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In fact, adolescence is also a rebellious period, and during the rebellious period, parents are most afraid that your relationship between men and women is not very legitimate, so teenagers in the rebellious period often choose to fall in love because they want to confront their parents.
That's how I am.
So I fell in love a few times when I was an adolescent, usually in junior high school and high school, and I was still very well-behaved in elementary school, although grades 5 and 6 can also be called adolescence.
I think if you really like her, you might as well accept it, and having a campus romance when you're on campus is worth remembering for a lifetime. My roommate in the lower bunk regretted that he was too good a girl when he was in school and didn't fall in love in high school.
In fact, puppy love will not affect your academic performance, only a crush will, puppy love may make two people better, so you might as well give it a try.
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Adolescence is something that we all go through, and in this period of ignorance, a lot of ridiculous but very beautiful things happened that make us think about it today, and we were very simple and not so stressful at that time.
Adolescence is the most unbearable thing for us is the emotional problem, many times we are full of good feelings for the opposite sex at this time, many bold children begin to confess to the opposite sex, we will also see a lot of couples in adolescence, but everyone is just out of superficial like, and do not know what real love is, so today we think it is funny but also very cute.
If you are told in adolescence, you will definitely not be able to agree, because the main task at this age is still to study, I have seen a lot of people who have delayed their studies because of their objects in this time period, and they can't fully distinguish which is more important, whether it is a crush on someone else or someone saying goodbye to you at this time period, it is a smile, and you can only bury it in your heart.
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When I was an adolescent, I had low self-esteem, I didn't think I was good-looking, I was still dark and smooth, and I wasn't very thin.
At that time, when someone in junior high school and high school met someone who liked me, I thought they were teasing me, I just thought that it might be a few boys who bet, and then deliberately looked at me to make a fool of myself, so this mentality led to me not being young, except for studying is studying, and then, when I met such a person, my approach was to beat him.
Sounds funny, that's what I did at the time, because I just thought he was laughing at me, how can a girl like me have a liking, at that time I was extremely inferior, I would hit anyone who approached me, and no one could beat me at that time.
But now I think that if I do it all over again, I will be confessed in adolescence, I will definitely put my mind on my face again, and I want to make myself worthy of such a simple confession, so don't worry about being confessed, it's just that there are more people who appreciate you, just accept it calmly.
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Actually, it's better not to talk about it, because Ma Ma told me that boys in junior high school are all short, good-looking boys are easy to become disabled, and bad-looking boys will get uglier and uglier. So, it's better to study hard and be admitted to a good university, where there are many good-looking blue students.
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If you can't go down with you until you get married, you can't accept it. It's better not to.
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I was confessed once in the second year of junior high school, and the boys at that time were very naïve, and they didn't tell me what was going on in person, but they went behind my back and said "he likes me" to our classmates one by one?? What else did you say about the holidays that you want me to go out??? If it weren't for my best friend telling me that I didn't know at all, she would spread it without my consent in the first place, which would make me very pretentious???
Secondly, he is shorter than me, and he is only the fifth or sixth grade of primary school in the second year of junior high school, and I don't like particularly naïve boys, so I feel super disgusted??? I haven't said a word to him until now, and the impression he gave me was really disgusting.
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Refusal, many times, I have two words.
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??How about a slap in the face.
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Adolescent liking is not love, and I like a boy in my class right now, but I will control myself sensibly and keep my distance from him. And studying is the most important thing now, so if someone confesses to me, before college, I should refuse (my parents don't give me early love, and I'm also helpless).
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I found that it was impossible to fall in love ( just do my own looks.
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emm physical education class, it was very cold in the rain, I was wearing a very thin dress, he came to put clothes on me, and the classmates of the two classes watched! I was so scared that I ran half of the playground and finally shouted in a hurry that if you chase me again, I will go to the women's toilet, and finally he couldn't resist me, and left sadly, and his brother said that I was cold-blooded....They all look at me with that kind of cold eyes...I was really scared silly, and I felt guilty for hurting him...It feels like they never think about my feelings.
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Originally, they were very good friends, but it was embarrassing to confess like this, and they were very young, and their studies came first.
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If it wasn't particularly annoying, I would accept it, but with my family behind my back, after all, my family is very much against early love.
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It's okay! Try it out and feel it, I'm working on it right now.
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The ugly ones are thrown aside, and the beautiful ones are kept as firewood.
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Blind? Took a fancy to me.
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I didn't accept it, but I felt very annoyed (needless to say that I was too much, he forced it).
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Me: Are you blind, don't you see that I have a soft spot for studying?
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Haha, my parents have already vaccinated me with this face!
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When is puberty.
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Dear, someone in adolescence confesses to themselves badly First of all, are you interested in each other, if you feel that you can't have a love relationship with the other person, and you can't go on the path of a lover, then you'd better let the other person understand this. For example, you can belittle yourself and say that you can't give the other person the life you want. Although the refusal of your liquid pants will make the other person unhappy, it is better than you keep procrastinating.
Those who refuse to confess will not be hurt Sorry, thank you very much. You are very kind and reliable, but now I don't think I can start a relationship. I want to have my own business first.
Thank you for your love. I'm grateful. But life is always full of ups and downs.
Always on a first-come, first-served basis. Unfortunately, you're late. I already have someone I like.
I hope you find your true love as soon as possible.
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