Why can Daiyu, who is stinky in Dream of Red Mansions , addict Baoyu for a lifetime?

Because Baoyu likes the kind of poetry and book temperament of Lin Daiyu, they both love to read and have the same three views, so they will attract each other.

Because of Daiyu's shortcomings, they are advantages for Baoyu, and Baoyu is also a very strange person, he has more requirements for women, for example, Daiyu is sentimental, Baoyu thinks she is true temperament.

The two of them have known each other since they were very young and have a good emotional foundation, and when they grew up, they found that they were like-minded, similar in personality, and even had the same interests.

In our eyes, Lin Daiyu is hypocritical and careful, but in Jia Baoyu's eyes, it may be interesting, gentle and considerate!

Although Daiyu has a stinky body, she has a true temperament and talent, so Jia Baoyu is very obsessed with her.

Many people don't like Lin Daiyu because they think that Daiyu loves to be petty, and she is snarky, dustless, and cries at every turn, which makes people unable to love.

Because Lin Daiyu feels very hypocritical, some people don't like Lin Daiyu very much and feel that Lin Daiyu is a very stingy person.

This is because some people think that Lin Daiyu likes to cry more and will give people a more delicate feeling, so many people feel that her character is not strong enough.

Because Lin Daiyu is too weak and has no independent personality, people look down on Lin Daiyu very much.

1, Baoyu falls jade.

Jia Baoyu had a sense of déjà vu when she saw Lin Daiyu for the first time, and secretly said that she had seen this Sister Lin. Then approached Lin Daiyu and sat down next to her to chat, specifically about going to school, reading and literacy. Later, he asked if Lin Daiyu had jade when she was born.

After that, Jia Baoyu: "I don't have that, I don't think it's a vulgar thing, how can everyone have it?" ”。

After hearing this, Jia Baoyu suddenly went crazy, took off the jade, and fell out fiercely. He scolded angrily: "What a great thing, it doesn't choose people to live in, and what do you say is psychic or not" frightened everyone to hurry to grab it.

2. Daiyu funeral flowers.

When Daiyu was playing with the other sisters, she went to the peach tree alone, took the bag, picked up the peach blossoms that had been blown down by the wind one by one and put them in the bag, took the hoe and dug a pit next to the peach tree, and buried the peach blossoms.

She stood under the peach tree, and the peach blossoms flew in a wind blowing. Baoyu in the Grand View Garden saw that Daiyu was gone, so she came to the backyard to look for Daiyu, and saw the soft figure standing under the peach blossom rain, and for some reason she had a sad feeling. Baoyu ran to Daiyu's side to help her bury the flowers together, and the two were silent.

3. Baochai flutters butterflies.

Baochai went to Xiaoxiang Pavilion to find Daiyu, and happened to meet Baoyu looking for Daiyu, in order to avoid suspicion, he came back to look for other sisters, and then saw a pair of jade-colored butterflies in front of him. As big as a fan, dancing in the wind, Baochai then took out the fan to flutter the butterflies, only to see the pair of butterflies wearing flowers and willows.

Led Baochai to tiptoe, followed all the way to Dicui Pavilion, heard someone say that men and women privately exchanged handkerchiefs Afraid of being discovered, he deliberately said that he was chasing Daiyu who was just nearby, evading his responsibility.

4, Qingwen tearing the fan.

When Qingwen was changing Baoyu's clothes, she accidentally broke his fan, and Baoyu reprimanded her a few words, and Qingwen's self-esteem was hurt, and she fought back, making Baoyu "tremble with anger". When Baoyu came back from the banquet, she heard that Qingwen liked to listen to the sound of tearing the fan, so she let her tear the famous fan happily. In the end, Qingwen tore the fan in Baoyu's hand, and then tore Musk Yue's fan before giving up.

5. Wood and Stone Former Alliance.

On the bank of the Western Spirit River, on the bank of the Sansheng Stone, there is a Zhuzhu grass Songpants, and the attendants of the Shenying of the Chixia Palace irrigate it with nectar every day, and the Zhuzhu grass can prolong its life, and later the Zhuzhu grass has been cultivated into a person. I heard that the Shenying waiter wants to go to the lower realm, and the Zhuzhu grass also wants to go to the lower realm, in order to repay the kindness of the Shenying waiter.

When the Shenying waiter came into the world, he became a treasure jade, with a piece of jade in his mouth, this jade is the stone left when Nuwa made up the sky, the stone can be big and small, thinking of mortal dust, a monk turned it into a beautiful jade, and put it in Baoyu's mouth in the nether world.

In fact, Baoyu doesn't love Baochai, and their marriage was an arranged marriage from the beginning, and of course there was no affection in the end.

His feelings for Miss Lin are indescribable, absolutely sincere, but everyone knows about Baoyu that he was born with an infatuation and is incompatible with the world, if you want to tell the truth, their love has turned into ashes after Lin Daiyu's death, and some of them are just a kind of reminiscence, not pure love like before, most of them have become a kind of sublimation of family affection.

As for the reason why Baoyu became a monk and Lin Daiyu is absolutely there.

But there is also a part of Baoyu who experienced the change of the family from prosperity to decline, and only after seeing through the red dust did he choose to escape into the empty door and no longer contaminated with vulgar incense.

So it's a pity that the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu has ended in the waning period (to add, Baoyu later fell in love with the second woman that Lin Daiyu really loved, that person was Shi Xiangyun, and finally he and Shi Xiangyun held the hand of the son and grew old with the son) And I want to add: It's not that Baoyu owes Daiyu anything, it's just that Daiyu's predecessor was a Zhuzhu grass, and Baoyu is a messenger of Shenying, because the messenger of Shenying irrigates the fairy grass with fairy dew every day The fairy grass was formed, so in this life, Lin Daiyu came to the mortal world to repay the grace of the fairy dew of the messenger of Shenying, Baoyu, and she was determined to repay it with tears in her life, so the tears were gone.

If it is misinterpreted as Baoyu, he is a ruthless person who snubbs Daiyu's feelings.

That also distorted Daiyu's noble feelings of repaying her kindness.

Do you know the song "Lifelong Mistake", which is to write that Jia Baoyu still does not forget to carry the dead Lin Daiyu after marriage, and writes about the false name of Jinyu Liangyuan but in fact he is lonely for life. The title of the song "Lifelong Mistake" contains this meaning. This song was written by Cao Xueqin, and he laid the groundwork for the ending.

Gao E's writing is against Cao Xueqin's meaning.

I like it very much, at that time, Baoyu knew the story of their previous life, and he had entered the empty door, and there were deletions in the TV series, you should take a look at the article, he didn't treat Baochai well, he didn't take Baochai seriously at that time.

This was written by Gao E, perhaps not Cao Xueqin's original intention. Gao Yi is very feudal. Besides, he is going to be a monk, so he will leave a descendant to the Jia family so that he can continue the incense.

This was not Cao Xueqin's original intention.

Cruel as it seems.

Actually true. Even Jin Yong empathized with other loves.

The second wife died sadly.

Of course, people like it, Bao Dai and the two are a couple, otherwise why would Baoyu become a monk in the end.

On the surface, he and Baochai are eyebrows, but in fact, it is difficult to calm down, Baoyu said it when she dreamed.

I must like it, Jia Baoyu became a monk for Lin Daiyu.

Of course I like it, otherwise how could there be such a tragic romance**.

In the same way, Daiyu is too pitiful, and it is Baoyu who bears her.

Baoyu is the attendant of the gods of the fairy world, and Daiyu is the pearl fairy grass on the side of the Sansheng Stone, but even if they don't have this relationship, Baoyu will unswervingly love Daiyu:

Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud

When Daiyu first entered Jiafu, she was just a little girl, and in the ancient society that attached great importance to the great defense of men and women, the place where they lived was just a partition, which showed that they were not too old.

Baoyu also once said to Daiyu that the two of them have eaten and lived together since childhood, and the relationship is deep and extraordinary, so when Daiyu played a little trick to Baoyu, Baoyu took out the posture of a big brother and said to Daiyu: "You are such a clear person, don't you even know that 'relatives are not separated, and then they are not the first'?" ”

Baochai is later after all, although her temperament and temperament are very much in line with everyone's appetite, but in Baoyu's heart, Daiyu has already occupied an irreplaceable position.

"Aunt and uncle" is a closer relationship than "two aunts".

Under the ancient patriarchal system, even if they are all relatives, different relationships, and the degree of closeness is also very particular, among which the saying of "aunt and uncle, from generation to generation" has been circulating even in modern society, but in comparison, "two aunts" is slightly farther away.

Daiyu's mother is Baoyu's aunt, and between them is her aunt and uncle, which in ancient times did not shy away from the era of close relatives marrying, it is the best choice of kissing and kissing, the new daughter-in-law in the ancient poem, isn't it her father-in-law and mother-in-law called aunt? In the ancient poem, there is "The red candle was stopped in the cave room last night, and I will worship my aunt in front of the Xiaotang." ".

Baoyu and Daiyu cherish each other

Baoyu and Daiyu's temperament is also very similar, Baoyu just doesn't like to go to study to gain fame, thinking that it is the behavior of Lu beetle.

Baochai once persuaded Baoyu that he should study hard and get in touch with more characters who are slaughtering officials, but he made a shame in Baoyu, but Daiyu never said such "bastard words" to Baoyu.

In fact, I think it's because of the personalities between them, because boys generally prefer quiet and gentle girls, so they like Lin Daiyu very much.

Because Baochai is more scheming, and he often harms others, and Lin Daiyu's words are more gentle, and she herself is very kind, so I think it should be like this.

The reasons for loving someone and hating a woman are the same, there is no need for any reason, love is love and hate is hate.