The pressure of life made me uncheerful and narrow minded

1. Adjust your life goals, if your goals are too high, you will be prone to low self-esteem and irritability.

2. Develop the mentality of going with the flow, pay attention to the process of life, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and focus on health and joy.

3. Find yourself, know yourself, understand your own strengths and weaknesses, and develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses; Seek a way of living, working and studying that suits you; Be a down-to-earth person and do things.

Fourth, adhere to appropriate exercise, develop a regular life, positive good habits.

5. Listen to relaxed and happy **, and often watch healthy and uplifting movies, books, and information.

As long as you stick to these five and adjust for a while, you will get better.

I wish you happiness, joy and all the best!

Then go crazy hi hi it for a few days; Completely relax and go under stress. Then sprint again to life with a new mental outlook.

The existing conditions for finding happiness are better than anything else.

As the saying goes, people are more popular than dead, some people live well, some people live badly, this is everyone's blessing is different. Therefore, you must learn to be content, as the saying goes, "What is not enough is more than the top, but what is more than what is below."

You must maintain an optimistic, cheerful, and calm mind, and be good at relieving all stress and eliminating all worries.

Know that pessimism, annoyance, narrow-mindedness, resentment, and lethargy are not good solutions to problems.

Wishing you happiness and good health!

It's something that men have, and I don't believe that every man likes his woman to play with other men! Work exceptions! It's easy to play out feelings when playing like this, and it's the same with how to say good friends, it's easy between men and women!

Believe it or not, the first person she confides in when she argues with you must be another him, and if they break up one day, she will have a 70% chance of being with that him! So it's not your fault to say brother! If she doesn't hang out with the guy, you shouldn't think too much about it!

If so, you'd better keep an eye on it! Good luck bro!

You're normal.

Your girlfriend is abnormal

But you should still trust each other.

Is love based on believing?

When appropriate, you can give those who often play with him a dismount Hehe, don't go too far

Maybe you care too much about her.

She's older than you after all.

The circle of friends is also wider than yours.

Don't push her too hard.

She'll run away.

After all, she just wanted to play.

Don't overthink it.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Find a good time to talk to her about it, and if she cares about you, she will make a little change for you, but you can also be a little more tolerant. It's nothing ... It's hard for a lover to replace a friend.。。

No. Oh, yes.

You're jealous. Take a good opportunity to talk to her about what you're thinking.

There's nothing to be embarrassed about.

The worries of the world are worried, and the joys of the world are happy.

Aha.

You're a real man. Identification completed.

The age gap is hard to deserve.

Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself.

Normal! It's not normal not to be jealous!

Laugh, it's not a big deal, as long as you're alive, there's something else exciting.

Less than above, more than below The society is fair and unfair, we are in the era of peace and stability, in the era of war and war, it is another thing, compared to the disabled, it is another thing, today you are wronged in some way, and it is not necessarily that people are cheap, today you are cheap in some way, fooling people, you may not be at ease, so the mentality is very important, and you must pay attention to adjustment, when you are unhappy, think about it, talk to your friends, I hope that the person who is good to you will give you good help, you must learn to divert your attention Regulate the body and mind, whether it is a career, family, or emotional problem, you should deal with it step by step.

Do something you love. Sometimes take a proper break, don't let your heart get too tired. And then there's contentment.

In fact, there are two kinds of pressure, one can be solved, and the other cannot be solved, if you already know that it is something that cannot be solved, why bother too much? If it's something that can be solved, try to do it! So, come on, I hope you are cheerful!

Watching horror movies is a great stress relieve!

First of all, it depends on your attitude towards life, what kind of attitude you have towards yourself, everything is false.

Take a walk and see the scenery go! Or climb the mountain and come back to sleep!

When encountering anything, first of all, you must have a good attitude, solve the problem with a positive attitude, even if the solution is not perfect, do not regret it, as long as you do your best.

Don't embarrass yourself if you can't think about it, empathy will eliminate a lot of trouble.

The mentality should be sunny, and life should taste the ups and downs and laugh at life.

Walk with more sunny people, their attitude to life is the object of your learning. Once you're unhappy, find more things to distract yourself. If I can help you, you can also come to me, 593758236.

Looking at the problem from a different angle, how can it not make yourself feel different.

Secondly, we should have more contact with people and be good at tolerating others. People with a narrow heart have a relatively small measure and are not easy to forgive others, so they must slowly overcome this mentality. If you have more contact with people, you will gain different experiences and increase your own experience.

Finally, it is necessary to strengthen education on outlook on life. We must fully tap our potential, make more contributions to society and others, and do not worry about everything.

Ask how you can keep yourself from being narrow-minded.

Answer comments and suggestions: usually go outdoors for a walk, relax, read more psychological knowledge, try to get rid of these bad phenomena, keep a good mood, let yourself be open-minded, don't be impulsive, be calm, don't always think about things in a bad way, and take care of them. Communicate with friends so that you can change yourself slowly.

I asked a question, and I felt that someone would always bully me at work.

I feel that I can't please if I work too much.

People who answer narrowly often show that they cannot accept other people's criticism of themselves, and they are calculating other people's comments about themselves, and they can also be manifested in never being willing to suffer losses and thinking about making up for the losses of interests. We should learn to broaden our hearts.

You can take a long-term view, and if you can solve the problem by torturing your emotions by dwelling on small problems, then you can be as narrow as possible. You can also try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. In short, there is no absolute loss, and there is no absolute advantage.

This is a problem that will be encountered sooner or later.

The key is to look at the mentality. Finish. Of course, it needs to be regulated.

You can start by trying to find something that will make you happy.

For example, some of the activities that I enjoyed in my childhood. Play basketball. Table tennis.

Or have some speculative friends who can make you talk about it happily and go to sprinkle it together. Or somewhere else to play. I think the latter works well.

You're still young, and you're already very self-aware that you'll slowly change over time. Children can be a little selfish, and it's good to grow up.

The fear of being stolen is that the avatar has too strong a sense of self-protection, and it is good to have a sense of protection, but if the sense of protection is too strong, it will be difficult for others to contact and talk to you. Actually, we don't have to worry about the theft of the avatar, because you see, everyone is like this, and it's okay to make the photos public like this, so how can I have anything to do. A lot of things, since everyone is doing it this way, why should I worry.

About seeing friends will be like that, it is narrow-minded and can't see it. In fact, we can let go of snacks, contact more with friends, don't limit ourselves to our own world, if we are alone, listen to songs, read books, soothe our mood, and don't let ourselves feel abandoned.

If you live with such a person in the future, you will be worried all day long, and you have to consider his mood every day, and if he is a little unhappy, then congratulations, you can't be happy.

Not only is it difficult to get along with, but I personally don't think he has much success in his career, because his personality leads to him not building a large social circle, and he lacks an important factor for success! ～

It may be useful to maintain a separate space, make fewer mistakes, and communicate more.

Yes, but narrow-mindedness can also be changed, with your help.

Yes, I advise you to leave him early, this kind of man is too stingy.

It will get worse and worse for you in the future.

Let's get together early and disperse early!

Why put up with him, ignore him and ignore it, who cares about whom!? This kind of person, garbage one! Good morning and good morning!

Haha, he's just being stingy with you.

Men are like this to the women they like, and it is a bad thing to be generous.

If he loves you very much, he will be very patient with you, even if he is narrow-minded, and this kind of person can talk to him before thinking about the next step.

Oh my God, it's still a lifetime, and I'll be suffocated to death in one day, what kind of man is this, and a little man can't be counted!

Change him! If you can't do it, leave him!

Perfect.

Everyone has their own shortcomings, but they all have their own advantages!

When I was in high school, my table mate was a very beautiful girl, my grades were very good and naughty, I always attacked her, one day I went too far, and she and the head teacher reflected, the head teacher handled this matter very fairly, to me, to her, and finally had a class meeting to say a word, everyone has his own shining side, I still remember it vividly, so these years to treat friends and lovers, there will be no complaining mentality, it is indeed very relaxed!

No! Everyone has a time like you described! People have unsatisfactory or extreme times! Don't overthink it, take it easy! Have fun!