There are probably a few ups and downs in a person s life

Everyone's experience is different, some people often suffer from twists and turns, some people suffer less, but those who are not affected by twists and turns cannot reach the peak of life!

First of all, doing anything will not be so easy, and you will encounter difficulties and setbacks to a greater or lesser extent, so it is normal for people to have twists and turns in their lives.

Second, everyone always wants to realize their ideals and self-worth in life, but in the process of realizing self-worth, they will encounter human warmth, hardships, difficulties, etc., and they will experience twists and turns.

The road of life is long and tortuous, and a person's life is full of contradictions such as success and failure, good times and bad times, happiness and unhappiness. Life setbacks are a fundamental issue that must be taken seriously on a person's journey to success.

The content of life is multifaceted, and so are the setbacks encountered in life. Such as failure at work, poverty in life, frustration in love, separation of family, physical illness and disability, etc. In addition to the general situations encountered by ordinary people, the frustrations experienced by college students are also manifested in the failure of the college entrance examination or dissatisfaction with the college entrance examination, the failure of competition, the poverty of the family, and the death of the first love.

In order to survive in society, people will inevitably encounter setbacks of one kind or another. In the tide of market economy, human activities and interactions are becoming more and more frequent and complex.

This change not only stimulates people's colorful motivations and goals, but also increases the probability of individual life setbacks. We should not passively endure or avoid this, but should face up to life's setbacks, actively seek effective ways to overcome and overcome setbacks, heal scars, and strive for the goal of success in life.

In this regard, many outstanding figures in ancient and modern times, China and abroad, have provided us with many useful inspirations. Personally, I have also experienced various setbacks and difficulties in just a few decades of life, and I have tasted the ups and downs of life.

1. Six ups and downs:

1. Excitement: Successful escape.

2. Rekindle hope: find your son.

3. Easy and bright: Adopt Fanya.

4. Heart-piercing grief: Wife and daughter were killed.

5. The heart seems to be broken: the son sacrificed.

6. Sad heart: car accident.

2. Twists and turns: parents were killed by famine, sons were killed by bullets on the day of victory in the war, and Fanya was adopted.

Background: A Man's Fate is a short story written by writer Mikhail Sholokhov in 1956 and published in the Soviet party newspaper Pravda.

It tells the tragic story of the war on the personal life, Sokolov was captured on the battlefield, worked hard in the prisoner of war camp, and in the end he lost all his relatives and warm family, but Sokolov did not lose the will to live, and one day he saw an orphan at the train station, so the two depended on each other.

Three, six, nine are all approximate numbers, not specific numbers, so the twists and turns and ups and downs are all translations, expressing the meaning of many twists and turns.

successfully escaped, his wife and daughter were killed, his son was found, his son died, he adopted Fanya, and had a car accident.

Recently, I have been reading Mr. Jia Pingwa's book, there are **, there are also prose, Jia Pingwa's writing road has also gone through several twists and turns, the early "Waste Capital" controversy continues, and it is also the twists and turns of his envy socks, and the later "Brother Radical Qin Cavity" is becoming more and more mature, and then the later "Ancient Furnace" and "With Light" works have their own style. Thankfully, he got through that period of ups and downs.

Everyone's life has a period of twists and turns, or frustration, or discouragement, or downfall, at this time the mentality is very critical, whether to go with the flow, slump, or break the boat, for the next time to accumulate strength, this is very critical.

I like Jia Pingwa's way of dealing with it, he did not send a quarrel to argue in the face of the controversy of "Waste Capital", but chose to be silent, to create new works, to respond to those comments with better works, and to bear more fruitful fruits in his creation.

When there is no achievement, we must cultivate our internal strength and look forward to the next gorgeous transformation, which is the attitude that everyone who is in the trough should uphold.

Amitabha! Senior brother, in general, there are eight setbacks in life that cannot be avoided.

No one is exempt from the sufferings of birth, old age, sickness, and death.

Asking for nothing, parting with love, resentment, and the five aggregates are all things that the vast majority of people have to experience.

The so-called "can't ask" refers to what we want to get, but we can't get. This kind of frustration has a physical aspect, an emotional aspect, and an external one, money, fame, and fortune.

The so-called love parting refers to what we get but cannot have forever, which also includes physical, emotional, and external aspects.

The so-called resentment will refer to what we don't like, but we can't get rid of. There are also physical, emotional, and external aspects. For example, illness, such as having to deal with people you hate, such as not being able to get rid of other people's contempt, insults, ridicule, ridicule, etc., are all examples of this.

The five aggregates are the sufferings that are caused to us by the interweaving of our thoughts and actions. For example, someone who is good in every way, but has depression for no reason.

In life, each of us hopes to be auspicious, but often frustration lingers, which is also the current retribution phenomenon of our people. How to maintain a heart of non-attachment in the face of all this, follow the fate, and follow the fate is the basic law of staying away from all troubles and sufferings.

Buddhism is the supreme medicine that tells us how to face all kinds of setbacks and pains in life, and studying the Dharma well and deeply understanding the true meaning of the Dharma can help us embark on the path of true liberation and freedom in life!

Failure in school, work.

Failed marriages. Death of a loved one.

Love fails. You have a serious illness.

Natural disasters are nothing but these are nothing, and man will win the day.

Don't talk about some setbacks, just want to say that adversity is inevitable, good times are accidental, just put your mind right.

It is decided according to the disability of each person. Some people will be safe, some people will have a short life, and so on!

Not necessarily: everything is determined by the number of days, and life is a fateful arrangement.

A person's life

It's hard to say exactly how many tribulations you have to go through, but you should go through some challenges.

After going through some ups and downs, the power will be vivid and exciting, and it will be worth this life. Let's ask, how many people in this world will spend their lives in smooth sailing? Looking up at the rainbow on the horizon, if it hadn't been washed by the storm, it would not have been beautiful and radiant!

Therefore, even if life can have a smooth life trajectory, how meaningful is that kind of life? That's not the way I want to live. On the contrary, I prefer a life journey that is full of challenges, requires hardship, struggle and perseverance to reach the end, which will lead us to more victories and joys; It is precisely because of this experience that I have experienced all the way, because of pain, because of joy, because of failure, because of success.

The record of our lives will be more complete, not blank. God always favors brave people, so it will give them more training. In this way, in fact, those who suffer should be grateful.

Grateful for the favor of God, let people have the tempering; Because with training, you will be able to grow and mature.

Setbacks are inevitable in a person's life, don't lament why you are so unlucky, you always have to encounter unsatisfactory or failure, in fact, everyone will encounter setbacks, but there are big and small. Many of my classmates may have studied it"The heavens will descend on the people, and they will suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, and empty their bodies"This sentence. In other words, in order to succeed in anything, there must be a price, and setbacks and failures are part of the price paid.

It's not terrible to encounter failure or setbacks, the key is how you deal with setbacks, and you can't be disheartened and depressed when you encounter setbacks.

So, what is a setback? And how should we deal with setbacks?

In psychology, frustration refers to the tension and emotional reaction when an individual encounters obstacles in the process of engaging in purposeful activities and is disturbed, resulting in the failure to realize the individual's motivation and unsatisfying needs. It is a subjective feeling that varies from person to person. Because people's purposes and needs are different, the same activity may cause different subjective feelings to different people.

For example, a scholar's wish is to achieve something academically and achieve more academic results. If he publishes less, he may be frustrated, but he will never be frustrated because he can't play cards or stir-fry. Frustration is also closely related to the success criteria set by individuals.

Each person has different aspirations and the level of frustration they feel. If there are students who do not have high requirements for themselves, as long as they can pass the exam, they can do it; However, some students do not reach 100 points and feel that they have not done well in the exam, and they will have a sense of failure. There are two main reasons for the frustration:

One is objective, such as the deliberate difficulties of others, extremely bad climate, etc.;

Second, it is subjective, such as the individual's physical defects, poor intellectual level, and inner motivational conflicts. Some subjective and objective reasons that lead to frustration are beyond our control, so when failure and frustration are caused by objective reasons, don't complain.

inevitably, otherwise how to grow.

There are many setbacks, big difficulties, small difficulties.

How can everyone grow without setbacks?