My husband is very satisfied with the status quo, but in fact, our current life is not good at all

A man needs more encouragement than nagging you every day, maybe he has his thoughts in his heart, and too much pressure may make him not want to grow. Even if you ask him to work hard in some aspect or something, you should be tactful to help him.

Also, happiness and material things are not equivalent. If one day you have money and a lot of material life, and true love is no longer there, when you look back, you may feel that he was right.

When you love someone, you will see many of his shortcomings, but in your heart, you will also treat his shortcomings as advantages; When you don't love someone, even if it's a strength, you see it as a disadvantage.

Your heart tells you that what you are really looking for is a self-motivated man, I don't know if you are self-motivated? If you are counting on enjoying the success of others, then I can tell you responsibly that there are many sad things behind the scenery!

When you say happiness, it seems that you mean materially, and perhaps your current situation really does not satisfy you.

But in fact, happiness refers more to spiritual satisfaction, think about it, at least you all have formal jobs, food and clothing, good health, the elderly don't give you a lot of pressure and can still help you, and your husband doesn't have domestic violence. When you think about it, you're really happy. You tell me?

People are always not self-sufficient, so what do you think your future will be? Do you really care about him, you just blindly develop according to your own ideas (but this is good), but then you seem to be very passive, you should have a good talk and get to know each other.

People are different, learn to be satisfied, you are still happy, but it is plain.

I know why he got married in the first place. Since you have chosen, you should admit it, because you chose it yourself. You should be optimistic about your married life, think less about your unhappiness and more about your happiness.

You can buy him a gun and ask him to find himself a short, frequent, fast and non-interpersonal project.

There is no reason to love someone!

Is there a woman outside, otherwise how busy you are, you always have to go home to sleep, if you sleep, you will live as a husband and wife, which means that this is just your husband's excuse.

Then when you need it, let him satisfy you once in a while, and then each other's problems will be solved!

It is normal for men to earn money to support their families, and poor couples mourn everything! Don't you understand?

The current efforts are for a better life in the future, but he works hard, and you can also work together, so you can work together and improve your goodwill.

You can take the initiative to communicate with him more, otherwise it is easy to have an accident after a long time.

I can't talk about the future now.

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Then you ask who you make so much money to spend.