How can you get the attention and concern of the teacher

You're a student, do your job well, just study, get his attention is not your ultimate goal, your ultimate goal is to get into a good university. Isn't it? I think, for a student, time is very precious More time to study Do a good job in your study, maybe, because the teacher saw your hard work and seriousness, discovered your tenacity and improvement, naturally attached importance to you, and found your Because, at that time, you already had the strength to spend your mind on the necessary things, it is not worth it It is good to be self-motivated I hope you can study hard and be admitted to a good university I also believe that one day, your teacher will find your strength

I am a teacher, and I know the psychology of teachers. Every teacher pays attention to students in a different way, and you may think that he doesn't care about you, but in fact he cares about you. As a teacher, I like to be a hard-working student, at least that's what I think.

So study hard and do it, then you will definitely be very good, and if you are excellent, you will shine, and this light will make the teacher like you more. Don't go to the extreme of letting your grades slip, and then let the teacher talk to you, do ideological work, or something, such a childish way will attract the teacher's "attention", but this kind of attention will not be beautiful. I hope my words are helpful to you.

There are several ways to get teachers to pay more attention to their children:

1. Choose an appropriate time to call the teacher to understand the child's situation, in this case, you must choose when the teacher has time, so that you can understand the child's situation more carefully, and this will also make the teacher feel that you attach great importance to the child, while you are concerned about the child, the teacher will also understand the situation, and will pay more attention to the child.

2. Don't go to the teacher frequently because of some trivial matters, some parents are too concerned about the child's situation at school, so even if the child can take care of some small things, they will trouble the teacher, which will not only not let the teacher pay attention to the child, but also sometimes make the teacher feel that the child's self-care ability is poor, which may be counterproductive.

3. Clearly show your thoughts to the teacher, many parents feel that it may be embarrassing to ask the teacher to pay more attention to their children, but if you don't tell the teacher directly, it is possible that the teacher will not understand what you mean, so if you want the teacher to pay attention to your child, you can tell the teacher directly.

4. Tell the teacher about the child's situation, so that on the one hand, it is convenient for the teacher to understand the child, on the other hand, the teacher can naturally pay more attention to the child on the basis of understanding the child, especially some children with bad habits, at this time can be corrected with the help of the teacher.

5. The first impression should be good, whether it is a teacher or a student, the first impression is very important, if the child gives the first impression of the teacher is good, then in the future teaching life will definitely pay special attention to the child, so at the beginning of the school, whether it is a parent or a teacher, a hidden Zen spine must leave a good impression.

1.Cultivate good habits in your child.

There is a good saying that gold always shines, and when gold shines, it can attract the attention of others, and when it does not shine, it is also regarded as a stone. Children are the same, instead of digging out their minds to think about how to let their children get the attention of the teacher, it is better to let the child take the initiative to shine to attract the teacher's attention, that is the last word.

As parents, we should cultivate all kinds of excellent habits of children from an early age, and cultivate children to put them in the children's pile, which is obviously different, this difference is not a bad kind, but better than others, teachers can see at a glance that parents have spent time and effort on their children, and they will naturally pay attention to them, and no one does not like excellent people, especially teachers.

2.Pay more attention to your child's learning and communicate more with your teacher.

Parents are the bridge between children and teachers, the quality of a child's performance, not only has a great relationship with the teacher, but also has a greater relationship with the parents, and the basic education and family education of parents is the embodiment of the child's performance. As a parent, you should pay more attention to your child's learning, find out your child's problems in time, and help your child improve the problems and deficiencies found. And in front of the children, maintain the image and prestige of the teacher, instead of speaking ill of the teacher or even slandering the teacher.

In addition to paying attention to children's learning, parents should do a good job of communicating with teachers, consult with teachers about children's school performance and learning, as well as children's problems, and ask teachers for methods and opinions on educating children.

3.Be a positive parent.

As parents of children, we should not only pay attention to children's learning, but also cooperate with the teacher's work, obey the teacher's arrangement, obey the teacher's work, do a good job in daily children's supervision and education, and be a parent with attitude.

In addition to children's learning, we should pay more attention to children's family education, teachers are responsible for teaching, parents should do a good job of educating people, home and school perform their duties, do a good job of teachers' auxiliary work, and teachers think together, work together, and ultimately benefit only their children. When the child wants to have a parent-teacher meeting or has any activities, in the case of their own convenience, you can also actively participate, so that the teacher can see your actions and attitude, you just pave the way, the child just walk along, the teacher naturally has a rod and scale in his heart.

All in all, if you want teachers to pay attention to their children, it is definitely not possible to go the wrong way, you must have a good relationship with the teacher, maintain the image and prestige of the teacher, and be a parent with a high attitude, so that the child will really benefit.

Take classes seriously, answer questions actively, and study hard, and the teacher will pay attention.

I want the teacher to notice that I can take the initiative to communicate with the teacher at the right time, and at the same time, I hope to have some positive contact with the teacher Jian Ling. After repenting, ask the teacher more questions.

Many parents feel that part of the reason why their children's academic performance goes up and down is that the teacher's attention to their children, and the teacher's attention will naturally improve the student's performance, and the teacher's attention will come down, then the child will be affected, and the grade ranking will naturally decline, so parents will try their best to please the teacher, so there are a series of means:

For example, Chinese parents think that human favor is what everyone must do, and the gift exchange has naturally become the standard of human affection, so it has become a vulgar thing to send to the teacher during the holiday, which has become a dry and vulgar thing, but not long ago relatives wanted to give gifts to the child's teacher, and there were words in the mouth, "If you don't give gifts to the teacher, the child will be prejudiced by the teacher", so this just asked the teacher out to explain the situation, and the teacher ruthlessly refused, and let the teacher educate it, not to mention how embarrassing the relatives are.

A few days ago, I read a question on the Internet, what regrets parents have done for their children, and some netizens replied:

Mercy Nong. In order to let the teacher accept his heart, he personally asked the teacher to go to dinner to ask for advice, but when I checked out, I didn't expect the teacher to settle the money himself, I wanted to give people money, and people also told me: As a teacher, you should have the appearance of being a teacher.

It really touched me.

Diligent. As a teacher, I can understand the minds of children's parents, but education is a serious matter, and not stepping on the red line is also our bottom line, and parents hope to forgive me.

In fact, you can think about it, instead of asking teachers to risk receiving gifts, it is better to find ways to spend some money on tutoring, so that it is important for your children to study well.

I have a friend who is a teacher, and he told me that every year when the festival is the most headache, because parents will change their ways to make teachers make mistakes, some give bus cards, some give supermarket cards, and some parents even have all kinds of Qimen Dunjia, which makes teachers have to do ideological education work for parents for a long time.

My teacher also cares about me?