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In fact, "sunning" is not unusual, and all kinds of "exposure" in the circle of friends, I believe everyone is accustomed to it, and it is not strange. But Brother Hua thought so much and wanted to try to find the psychological reasons behind the "sun".

Why do we like to "sun"? From another perspective, what do I want to get after the "sunbath"? Is it just a habit and a hobby?

Psychology believes that there is a reason behind human behavior, and this reason is called "motivation". So what is the motivation behind "sunning"?

Psychology: the potential motivation of the baby in the circle of friends, and the impact on the child's growth.

Hua Ge believes that "sunning" is actually a kind of showmanship, a kind of show-off. Showing off and showing off, of course, is to attract the attention and attention of others, so as to satisfy one's own "some" psychological needs.

Children are more likely to show off and show off. A new dress, a new toy, sometimes, your own mom and dad or whatever. There is really nothing to show off, so in another way, give your classmates or children ugly nicknames, and show off yourself by belittling others.

Why is this happening? In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, people need to have a sense of accomplishment and self-worth. When I don't know what the advantages of "myself" are, and what the value of "myself" is, then "I" will gain a sense of accomplishment and recognition through external attachments and comparisons with others.

In other words, when we are not confident and have no sense of self-worth, we prove that we are better than others by showing off, showing off, or even bragging.

Psychology: the potential motivation of the baby in the circle of friends, and the impact on the child's growth.

Of course, for mothers who "bask in" their children, this behavior itself will not have too many negative effects on their children. But this kind of unconfident attitude will definitely be projected on the children, they will continue to compare their children with other children, they will definitely make the children compete, and they will surpass others in everything, etc. The end result is that the child must have no ego and be unhappy.

Maybe ......Perhaps when we are no longer keen on showing off through various "exposures" to prove themselves, but bloom ourselves through self-acceptance and recognition, our world will definitely be warmer.

Psychology: the potential motivation of the baby in the circle of friends, and the impact on the child's growth.

There are always some parents who are addicted to showing their babies and posting their friends, and some parents are swiping the screen? At first, looking at the baby's innocent smile, I will feel happy in my heart, and I will like and praise the funny little things in life, but after a long time, not only the child is uncomfortable, but the people in the circle of friends are also impatient to want to block it.

And some time ago, the little girl abroad complained about her parents' baby, and recorded it, uploaded it to the Internet, and was immediately browsed by everyone.

1.Why are you addicted to drying babies?

Parents like to have children, on all kinds of social software avatars are set as children, seven or eight times a day, this psychology is understandable, and a professional research team found that the baby's "cuteness" is not only in appearance, sound and smell are lovely. Parents' brains can always respond positively and quickly to their children's cuteness, and studies have found that cute children's ** can make the human body release dopamine, that is to say, parents can't control their joy when they show their babies.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, and the mother has no way to get spiritual comfort from her husband, and her role as a wife has not been valued and played. Then the mother can only maximize the identity of the child's mother, transfer all the attention and emotional identity to the child, treat the child as her own, and get recognition and attention from the child. So I only see the bits and pieces of the child in my life, regard everything about the child as my own achievements, and show my value in the family by constantly showing the baby.

Because such parents want to record their children's childhood as a souvenir.

"Baby-tanning" is indeed very common around us. The reasons for showing your children's **, **, etc. to relatives, friends or strangers are also more complicated, and may be mixed with various factors such as sharing, showing off, and showing happiness. Especially for their children to participate in some cultural and sports activities, or to get some awards and honors, and to get the blessings and likes of relatives and friends, it can be described as a sense of accomplishment for parents.

On the surface, it is mainly a matter of the private sphere of a family, and it is a question of whether and how the parents of a child are willing to show their family's private life, following the principle of "freedom if the law does not prohibit it". However, if we can stand from the perspective of children, especially from the perspective of protecting the legitimate rights and interests of minors, we will find that things may not be as simple as imagined.

First of all, the safety issue behind the "baby addiction" is the most noteworthy issue. Many parents post their children's **, including the child's name, appearance, kindergarten or school class, home address and other information, and once this information is connected by people with ulterior motives, it can be combined into a complete chain of children's personal information, which brings information leakage at the same time, but also produces personal security risks.

Secondly, excessive exposure to the baby may bring unexpected troubles and troubles to the child in reality. Some minors said that because their parents often posted their own ** and various life information on social platforms, this information was seen by their classmates, resulting in them being ridiculed by their classmates at school, and even suffering from campus bullying and school violence. This is probably something that many parents do not think of, and it should be avoided.

Thirdly, the baby should respect the child's own wishes, especially when the child can make his own choice. Now there are some junior high school and high school children who said that when they were young, ** was posted to their parents' circle of friends or self-**, as long as this information is not actively deleted, it will be permanently retained, but now it seems to me that I feel very embarrassed and embarrassed. So when the child is already sensible and can make his own choice, parents may wish to ask for their children's opinions and respect their wishes before showing their babies.

The baby is not guilty, but the drawbacks and harms behind the "baby addiction" have to be prevented. From the perspective of strengthening the protection of children's rights and interests, whether it is a baby or something else, parents' behavior should be based on the "best interests of the child" as the primary starting point, and avoiding harm to children as the biggest bottom line.

The correct way to stop the baby is to shoot some babies sleeping in the circle of friends, shoot some babies reading, shoot some babies playing with toys, and shoot me Shouhu thinks that this way can record the baby's daily life, and also let others know that their baby is very good.

Be sure to pay attention to safety issues, pay attention to privacy, don't show the baby too often, don't ask the child's name or the old film to be on the social platform at will, hide the personality characteristics of the child's brother, and don't let criminals exploit legal loopholes.

I think the correct way to show the baby should not let the child show his face, because now many criminals will steal the child's ** from the circle of friends to use.

Many parents, especially mothers, like to take pictures of their children. Whether it's taking your children out to play, going out to eat, or in daily life, you can take pictures of them and send them to your circle of friends. It's okay to post it once in a while, but if you post your child's ** every day, others will think that you are showing off, and you will inevitably get bored after a long time, and you may even be quietly blocked.

How do you show your baby so that you don't get hated by others? Here's a closer look at the tips.

<>There are two situations in which you can send ** casually. First, if you post Moments just to record your child's growth process, you can set your Moments to not be seen by others. Second, if your relatives want to see your child's **, you can establish a group of relatives and friends, and you can send it in any way.

In addition, I would like to remind you that because there are many people in the circle of friends who are not familiar with you, there are certain insecurity factors in the circle of friends who publish their children's ** too often. For the safety of children, it is recommended that parents who like to show their babies be restrained.

The correct way is to post the child's academic performance, ability, as well as honorary certificates and various awards in the parent group, which is a good way to show the baby.

Show more of the positive side of the child, form a positive psychological hint for the child, and shoot a short ** with the child, so that the child can feel the love from the parents, and the good place for the child is posted in the circle of friends, so that the child feels a sense of honor.

Be sure to pay attention to safety issues, protect your diet, don't put it on social platforms, and don't leak your personal privacy.

Such people are generally first-time mothers and fathers, and the excitement has not passed, and there are not many babies after the child is ten years old.

Because some parents just say that they have no other ability but to have a child, they will be obsessed with drying babies, and there is nothing else but sunning every day.

Let's see what others have to say.

There are many parents who are obsessed with obsession and show their babies, because their children are really good and worthy of showing off, and their children are also very competitive, so they are addicted.

He just loves his children so much! Loved letting others see how good my kids were. Showing off the baby is actually showing off his child.

One, for the sake of distant relatives.

I don't know if you will have such relatives, they are very concerned about the growth of the baby, and they are concerned about everything about the baby. However, due to geographical barriers and physical health restrictions, they can only pay attention to the baby's every move on the Internet, and liking every beautiful moment of the baby may be the thing they look forward to the most every day. The baby's grandmother lives alone in her hometown, and she is reluctant to leave the old house where she has grown up for a lifetime, even if her grandfather has passed away for a long time.

In addition to the few fixed dates every year when the baby can see her, she can only see the baby's recent situation in this seemingly convenient but sad way. It's not a coping move, as long as a simple act can make someone thousands of miles away happy and have constant thoughts every day, why not?

Second, for the baby.

I'm not sure if you keep flashing memories in your eyes when you look at your past **. No life is complete without a record. I myself had a thick childhood**, and I'm grateful to my mom and dad for recording those childhood memories that I can't remember.

It made me know that my mom and dad might have traveled a lot, met a lot of people, and wore a lot of clothes that I would find funny and blush now, before I even had a sense of the world around me. These are precious memories that words can't fully describe. And I, on the other hand, would like to go further.

He will see everything that has grown up from my records, and see how he has grown from a baby to the pillar of the family, and we are the most ordinary and important authors in this epic of growth!

This kind of parent's continued obsession with the king of the race is because this kind of parent is idle in space, and he also has too much time, because she has too much time, he is taking care of the child all day long, and when he takes the child, he has nothing to do, and there is no circle of friends to post, so he sent the circle of friends, and the shooter sent his baby up. Often indulged in the baby's friends, he is generally to his friends, too confident, he thinks these children are very cute, very good, very better than other people's children, more flexible than other people's children, smarter than other people's children, all beautiful and handsome, because he is overconfident, so, he thinks others understand, always want others to look at these children think these children are so good-looking, to be so handsome, Show it to someone else's house. This kind of friend, may just want to shoot a little more of his children's **, afraid of forgetting those unforgettable moments in the future, he is going to capture every fun moment of children, all to save, all to be left in the future to slowly recall.